Thread 40801229

Gay friend told me yesterday that bi men don't exist. And that they either like women (straight) or like men (gay) but don't really like both. "Bi men are confused or opportunists, that's it", said to me. But he also revealed to me that a few women can be very attractive but that he's just gay. Your thoughts?

My opinion is that this reinforces my belief that monosexuality is a larp that people do because of homophobia. Once you've been with a guy you're dirty and women won't like you, so you might as well lean into it. And if you haven't been with a guy, or at least don't want people to know you have, then you lean hard into being "strrrrrr8" because the alternative is a loss of social status. Committed gays will team up with strrrrrr8s to pull bisexuals into their crab bucket, or ostracize them and say they're "confused or opportunists" as a devil's bargain to get straights to grant them more rights. "We're just like you but for guys". Same deal with the born this way meme. It's misguided, short sighted appeasement, and it clearly hasn't worked, but much like the democratic party, the LGBT culture is ruled by a bunch of scared collaborationists who will gladly die in defense of the trap they built for themselves while doggedly insisting that there is nothing wrong with any of this.

>>40801229 (OP)
>Your thoughts?
People lack theory of mind and also lack understanding of their own mind.

bisexuals are autosexual.

during intercourse the focus of worship is the self rather than the partner. they care more about what the partner can do to or for them than genuine attraction to the partner. some might liken it to meta attraction. meta attraction is when you're autosexual, but have a preference within your fantasy for a specific type of partner to complete the fantasy or reinforce an image of yourself.

think of it like: you're either paraphillic. meaning, androphillic or gynephillic (attracted to and worship their partner of preference as the focus of the fantasy); or you're autosexual. philes will make sure their partner cums as they care about pleasing them. autosexuals will leave as soon as they finish. like closing the open porno tabs quickly in disgust after their horny is gone.

bisexual, straight-passing men threaten the order of things even more than gay men; only trans women are seen as more deceptive, inherently.

>>40801308
I'm bi, I have all of these attractions. I'm very paraphilic for my partners, but I'm into both male and female traits. I also think I'm hot and I'd fuck my clone.

But I also go out of my way to make my partners cum.

straight men don’t exist - they are bi or gay

>>40801229 (OP)
i have two male friends who are bi and even tho they do have a preference towards women they also have shown attraction towards men

>>40801308
i love getting my partner off. if the porn was really good, after i nut and clean up, i bookmark it. i hookup with this femboy a lot, and the other day i sucked his dick so good i made him nut twice.

He’s correct.
I don’t even bother messaging “bisexuals” on apps anymore, since they all want a tranny or gigafemboy in lingerie, and they lose interest when they know I’m just a regular dude. It’s a total waste of time.

>>40801368
i fall asleep with the tab open and the video on loop. its so refreshing after exorcising my demon spawn out of dark and dank halls of the underworld.

>>40801275
If women ask I'll deny all gay shit. I hate being around homos and hate being grouped with them just because I banged some tranny.

>>40801229 (OP)
It would be the other way around. We are mammals. Like dogs etc, they ,fuck without a care about anything but that climax. If anything we all start bi. Gay specifically is a small % of the population.
If we were honest as humans we would likely find that Bi is the highest % of people and that straights and Gay specific people are the smallest %.

>>40801229 (OP)
Gay guys literally just hate that bi guys don't settle down with them. It's cope all the way down, because a guy left them for a woman the guy must never have actually been into men and a faker. These gays usually also have massive personality issues and lack introspection.

>>40801229 (OP)
A lot of gays and lesbians are biphobic because they project out something not working with a bi person as an inherent fault of bi people, when the reality is shit just doesn't work out with everyone you have a thing with unless you get insanely lucky

>>40801229 (OP)
It’s true they always lean one way more than the other.

>>40803964
Imagine what would happen if children weren't taught they would be burned in hell for being gay from infancy....

>>40801229 (OP)
Nah, guys just only got cute enough for us to be bi.

>>40804372
there's a club near me that somehow got zoomer twinks and femboys on the pole, and my cock couldn't be harder.

>>40801229 (OP)
“Bi isn’t real” has always been a nothing burger to bi people because whether we’re in a committed relationship single or sleeping around we all can easily pull up a porn video of either a dude or a chick we’d like to Fuck

>>40801229 (OP)
Bisexual males very readily troon or become attracted to troons...
hmm

I don't like women in general, but being with a cute one is different.

>>40801315
Yes, it is scary for a woman to have competition she can't compete with...
unreasonable to her
she is the table
she is the nexus of desire
who is this... AMaB... threatening her dominion??

>>40805998
there's no competition; if he wants to cheat, he will. sexuality plays no part in it.

>>40805070
What?

>>40809251
every homo strip club i've been to is either drag queens, or big roid monkeys, and they're all 30+. this newer place near me has twinks and femboys in their early 20s.

>>40801229 (OP)
I find women to be entirely visually unattractive and uninteresting/unexciting on a conscious level.

I am attracted to men, but only actually conventionally good looking men with stereotypical manly features. Just having a dick does not validate appeal.

I do consider myself to be 100% homosexual. That feeling as clear as a day. Even if, like, 50% of men are below what I consider attractive (this also likely how most heterosexual women perceive visual attraction - super gorgeous guys are hot, everything else is "ewwww...").

I believe male bisexuality exists, but most of the time, it comes pre-bundled with attraction to effeminate features and/or fetishizing "domination".
Dominating someone else stimulates sexual excitement. Truely bisexual men just don't care who they "dominate", they get off on "dominating" someone bigger than them, as well as smaller.

Debunk my opinion, if I'm wrong. Like, are there bottom bisexuals? I'd imagine some do compromise. But pure bottom with men and top with women?

>>40801229 (OP)
Your friend is bisexual and coping hard. He is kinsey 4

>>40809760
Both exist. Why do you think they don't?

>>40810765
Probably kinsey 5 but definitely coping.

>>40809760
>Like, are there bottom bisexuals? I'd imagine some do compromise. But pure bottom with men and top with women?
Yes, that's me.

>>40801229 (OP)
Just spend some time on /lgbt/, you'll find that plenty of gays, bis, etc. can be schizos

>>40809760
i'm a total bottom bisexual. my wife has a gay friend, a drag queen with pretty giant dick. she loves seeing me suck him off, and get fucked by him.

>>40801229 (OP)
>Gay friend told me
should have stopped right there.

>>40801229 (OP)
Be here now. I mean, if there's a mutual attraction, explore it.

>>40805070
theres gay stripclubs?
im a twink where do i sign up?