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Anonymous No.40819366 >>40819372 >>40819422 >>40819706 >>40821747
How do I completely remove my sexual libido, I want to be asexual. I've had enough of dealing with the complexities of sexual relationships and the pain I get from them. How can I force myself to no longer desire sex.
Discordia !!9L6fGHXCPaO No.40819372
>>40819366 (OP)
go to a therapist and tell him you are a nambla member and you want help. They'll give you meds for it
Anonymous No.40819422 >>40819561
>>40819366 (OP)
HRT
Orchiectomy
SSRIs
Force of will (ignore any feelings of sexual attraction until it goes away)
Anonymous No.40819561 >>40819598 >>40819638 >>40819727
>>40819422
Already on HRT. Cant get orchi, my future srs clinic doesn't take people who got it (or at least they heavily recommend against it for better results)
SSRI's ive taken before and they made it hard to cum but didnt lower my libido :/
Ive tried the last but I still ended up with urges and making bad decisions. The thing is I want to be monogamous at the very least but I always end up feeling like shit and my brain constantly thinks about other people and I have massive FOMO. I could just as easily have an open relationship but when my partner has sex with others I get incredibly uncomfortable and I cant seem to shake that.
I just want my next relationship to be okay but I cant figure out a way to not be miserable.
Anonymous No.40819598 >>40821617
>>40819561
Sounds like your problems are self inflicted. Stop wanting to fuck around on people wtf
Anonymous No.40819638 >>40821617
>>40819561
>polyforme but notforthee
classic, maybe just kys?
Anonymous No.40819706
>>40819366 (OP)
20mg paroxetine is supposedly the best at killing libido.
It won’t make you any less lonely though.
Anonymous No.40819727 >>40821617
>>40819561
>My partner should remain faithful to me while I blow grindr dudes on the side
Kys
Anonymous No.40821617 >>40821646
>>40819727
>>40819598
>>40819638
When the fuck did i say i wanted any of this
I dont want this thats what im trying to fix you stupid retards. I would absolutely never tell someone they cant fuck around but that I insist on being able to thats horrible
Anonymous No.40821646
>>40821617
>but I still ended up with urges and making bad decisions
Sounds like you're cheating on people. If you're cheating, that's not a problem, that's you being a shit person.
People don't have to stop themselves from doing this shit, they just don't fucking do it because they're not a bad person.
Anonymous No.40821723
This but for me it's that I live in a society that hates sex, wants to ban porn, and will treat me as a gay man for being with my boyfriend and won't let me donate plasma or marry my boyfriend because they're going to overturn gay marriage soon.

In a society that hates sex, especially deviant sex havers like me, better to not have a libido at all.
Anonymous No.40821747
>>40819366 (OP)
gobble some cypro