Thread 40821780

A trans girl on tiktok says that being trans at sapphic gatherings makes you desirable.
Is this true? I can imagine that having a built in strap on will make you stick out, no pun intended.
I always worried about becoming a girl. Because that lesbians might not want me. But this gives me hope.

>>40821780 (OP)
That's a massive ribcage damn

>>40821780 (OP)
>I always worried about becoming a girl. Because that lesbians might not want me. But this gives me hope.
you will fit right in to the other 99% transwomen into lesbians
be sure to checkout /r/actuallesbians

>>40821780 (OP)
Yeah but it'll be super awkward when you show up and 90% of the people there are trannies. Let that brainworm slide its way in.

>>40821874
I wish people would just say gynephile and not try to make it sound all sexy and Greek

>>40821780 (OP)
cringe. there's a reason i stick to men. only disgusting degen trannies would chase lesbians.

>>40821848
>be sure to checkout /r/actuallesbians

But that's just a subreddit. Not real life. Appreciate it though.

>>40821874
>>40821891

Sapphic sounds better. "Gynephile" feels like transphobic junk science.

>>40821780 (OP)
>Tiktok says
OP, why are you like this

>>40821780 (OP)
>lesbians
>look inside
>transbians

yeah sorry op the only cisbians who like us see us as some wierd gross novelty fetish thing and they'll dump us for a real woman the second they feel like settling down. just like cis men! st4t is the only way.

>>40823168
or butches
they like you as long as you're a bottom (99% of you so that's basically settled) and at least semipass
>>40823113
it's actually the opposite from what i know, Milton Diamond (The leading critic of John money and the guy who disproved his theory of GID/homosexuality being caused by nurture rather than nature) actually came up with it

>>40823113
or just lesbian?
i only ever hear transbians saying sapphic

>>40821780 (OP)
Well, lesbians are actually bi and just want non-threatening AMaBs, so you're in luck!

>>40821780 (OP)
It can anon, but the way you're thinking about it is gross. Cis lesbians are likely to be careful about who they let be around them, they will clock you as sexually obsessed in an AMAB way if you get within 100 yards.

>>40821780 (OP)
no it usually doesn’t. most won’t mind you if you aren’t being forceful about wanting sex (assuming they aren’t terf adjacent) but won’t want anything to do sexually with an amab

>>40821780 (OP)
2 questions. 1. do you pass, and 2. are you hot anyway?

I’ve made out with cis women at lesbian bars. However these spaces are a little less accepting towards hons now desu. So like… if you pass and are hot.

Some will be into you if you look like a woman, and will tolerate you with contempt otherwise.

>>40823113
>transphobic junk science
Oh like rigidly conforming to gender norms ok

>>40821780 (OP)
I suppose it's possible that plenty of people might want to treat you like a fun kinky experiment. People that are at a "lesbian sex party", if that's even a common thing, are likely to be more sexually adventurous so probably would be somewhat interested in trying a real life tranny just to say they did. You probably need to look the part, like this girl does, to play into their fetishization of you. This video and the whole idea make me feel a little sick tbqh.

>>40823263
lmao so true, i was on a date with a hon and she while she left to pee i made some friends with a lesbian and her GBF
and the second my date came back the vibe soured, they bought me a shot and walked off

my cis gf is a lesbian and she thinks im adorable :) then again, i am a passoid and fembrained so that helps

>>40823335
i go to orgies, men and women look at me like a fun experiment or they look at me with disgust, its real 50/50

I have been to a couple of orgies/sex parties in my time. The one that was not explicitly sapphic, I didn't get that much attention but still had fun. At the sapphic ones, I had no trouble whatsoever finding a cisbian or a theyfab who wanted me badly, usually several. Of course such events are also full of transbians, and it's basically chaser heaven for the afab chaser crowd.

>t. hon with rizz