Thread 40827865

>Be me (33M)
>Have friend of 6 years (36M)
>He's a LBGTQ+ Ally and overall nice
>We get on the topic of having kids
>Tell him I don't ever want kids
>That I like being kid free and having time/money
>He goes fucking APESHIT on me
>Calls me "A retarded selfish faggot" knowing I'm gay
>Tells me it's greedy and selfish not to want kids
>He storms off and haven't spoken since
>Kind of blown back by it
>He's never spoken that way before
>Don't know how to process this

Do I...just ghost him? Do I try telling him how much it hurt? Do I do nothing? He was such a good friend, and helped me through a lot, but this shit hurt so badly, I don't know what to do.

is he even worth it? just evaluate it because he doesnt sound like hes on your level if hes acting that way at 36 years old

>>40827865 (OP)
was he on something lmfao what

>>40827865 (OP)
That guy's life is a living hell of his own making. Step away from the flames.

>>40827877
I just go back to thinking how he helped me before in life, how sweet he was
>>40827891
No, we were literally just chilling after being out, we were outside, he left right after saying it
>>40827893
He wasn't always like this, he got cheated on and it changed him badly, I stuck with him because he always stuck with me.

>>40827962
>he got cheated on and it changed him badly
Lots of men take cheating or a divorce as an excuse to fuck their life up, lash out at the world and become bitter shut-in alcoholics. Don't let him drag you into that.

>>40828003
>bitter shut-in alcoholic

It is absolutely fucking wild how you knew that about him before I even said it, he's a shut in and he drinks like a fucking fish