Thread 40842992

“The message is clear "men must be dominant or they're losers". Even among gay men, "bottoms shaming" is a big thing.”

I don’t know if I can continue living when being in control is not even being in control. It’s like being a puppet with invisible strings.

I want to date people who don’t think of me as a slave. I want my suffering to end.

I feel like this is way too high level thinking for this site though. I just wanted to scream in the void instead of sucking it up for once.

i get it anon, i think subconciously this is what has been following me my whole life. nobody respects you. at this point i get mad when girls talk about wanting a masculine boyfriend.

nobody has to be a "top" or a "bottom" we are slaves to rules, semantics, and labels of our own restrictive invention

>>40842992 (OP)
Just be verse and don't worry about what other people think

>>40842992 (OP)
>I want to date people who don’t think of me as a slave.
you can do this anon. the world can be cruel and mean but there are people who will love you and respect you for being yourself! i just wish it were easier to find them. in the meantime you can tell people who have these sorts of beliefs that they are slaves to the whims of society - that's what i do. maybe not in exactly those words lol

>>40842992 (OP)

This is the ultimate problem.

Being male is about winning the competition.
But some us are tired of this shit.
We just want to live our own life.