Thread 40917773

>guys think you'll leave them for a girl
>girls think you'll leave them for a guy
>trans girls think you see them as men
>trans guys think you see them as women

Why does bisexuality cause so much insecurity?

>>40917773 (OP)
Bisexuality doesn't exist. All bi men have a clear preference either for one sex or for femininity/masculinity.

>>40917817
That's still bisexuality

Harsh truth that a lot of young people don't get: little white lies are the glue that keep society from tearing itself apart. When the Holden Caulfields are crying to themselves about phoneys and hypocrites, adults understand that there are some truths that don't need to be shared. So we get:

>of course I only have eyes for you!
>I've never looked at porn in my life
>I don't care about money as long as we're together
>it's ok that your loved one died, they're up in heaven now
>yeah, we took the dog to a nice farm family
>that sweater you got me? I love it, it's my favorite sweater!
>oh sure I love your sister, she's so nice! I love listening to her takes on immigration, it's such a different perspective!

And two of the most fundamental lies that we must never question are:
>I only like men
>I only like women
Why? It's just one of those things that we decided on without deciding, really. But it's very important.

If you don't retell those lies, people will be suspicious of your willingness to take part in the system. That's all there is to it. Oh that and the homophobia, lol.

>>40917773 (OP)
I never tell girls im bi until they need to know. None I have told have cared or ever thought I would leave them for a guy...cuz I wouldnt.

luv bi men

>>40917817
>Bisexuality doesn't exist
then why do I have sex with both men and women?

>>40917773 (OP)
I'd be happy if a bi guy showed interest in me

>>40917817
>bisexuality doesn't exist because sometimes you're dating a man and sometimes you're dating a woman
Are gay men seriously this low IQ?

>>40917846
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRlkmH3V2JQ

Some people are wormed, some are understanding or even prefer us
This is part of jus beeing yourself
Don't diminish yourself to find the wrong people
Be real and you will find the right ones

>>40917879
Show me a bi man who dates both men and women AFTER they have dated a man. It barely exists. If at all. Bi men are essentially gay or essentially straight, with very few few exceptions.

>>40917952
I wonder why a man would suddenly stop dating women after he was known to be a faggot who likes being fucked up the ass by other men, in this day and age! It must be that he stopped liking women! There can be no other explanation!

>>40917952
bisexuality isnt defined by dating. its defined by sexual attraction and activity.

>>40917983
I can spot your effeminacy and preference for males by kilometers.

>>40918022
Thank you for backing me up there. Homophobia basically locks bisexuals out of the dating market when it comes to wanting to date women again. Case closed.

>>40918355
Maybe you're just ugly/uninteresting/poor af.

>>40918465
Just own it. I own my attraction to men. Why can't you own your homophobia?

>>40918484
Why would a self-respecting woman date a man who is basically gay and doesn't want to worship women and pussy? Straight men are x50 times more common and won't pass you AIDS nor leave your for a man. You could try dating a tranny or paying for hookers though.

>>40918595
There you go, that's the spirit

>>40917952
I married a woman. Statistically speaking most of us end up in long term hetero relationships, probably to avoid continuing to date insecure homos like you. Catty bullshit AND no kids? lol nope

>>40917773 (OP)

I Dont fucking Trust Bi people cuz They Always mention It After you Say Youre trans. Cuz they See you As A freak tranny Gender Mix.

>>40918679
It's just a numbers thing
Way more people are straight than gay or bi, society is setup for hetero dynamics to happen normal

>>40918796
I say it so they don't think I'm gonna flip out and murder them when I see a dick for the first time in my life, but I know some of you actually fantasize about being hatecrimed and think it's the most affirming thing imaginable

>>40918796
I say it because I'm am confirming that I will not be disgusted at your genitals

>>40918930
I only like men who are disgusted by other men. You have to worship ME, ME and ME. Maybe cis women sometimes. But talking to another man? Fucking disgusting gay faggot.

>>40917773 (OP)
It's so annoying that I quite literally refuse to label myself anymore, if bi people get so much shit, pan people get called fake, and whatever else there is to call this then I don't want to bother entertaining people stereotype about me, I'm whatever you think
>>40918928
>>40918930
This, like it isn't because we see you as less or whatever but so you know that you I won't freak out on you for having different genitals, I feel like most trannies are desperate for a straight man but in reality no purely straight man like dick, it's a cognitive dissonance that I feel like is lost on most trans folk.

>>40919142

Yeah i Know no Gay Man likes Pussy Dont have to Rub it In

i Dont Really want someone Who Likes My junk just Someone Who can ignore It And Pretend.

i Wrestle with Bisexuality on Occasion but I End up Being into women Exclusively just in Practicality. So i can Be "The man" in a Relationship and want To Kill myself slightly Less.

>>40919228
>just Someone Who can ignore It And Pretend.
Guess what, straight people don't do that

>>40919228
Why Do You Talk Like This?

>>40919251

Autism.

And i think Its funny

& some Very Old Very cringe roleplay Typing Style habits.

so Its hard to Stop i have To Intentiuonally try Not To do it So only put In The Effort when im Saying Some weird fucked Up Shit

>>40919228
real, no gay man would ever want anyone with a pussy and no normal bi man would ever want an ugly man-woman thing without a dick or tits. i'm stuck waiting for some tolerable bi chaser (male chasers who want pooners are already rare enough) or another gayden who doesn't make me want to rip all my hair out.

I'd date more pooners if they didn't have horrid facial hair

>>40919538
For me it's the god awful facial hair and the apparent inability to differentiate between "masculine" and "repulsive slob", it's like they're all that weird neckbeard wizard you knew in college who was totally nice but you always felt like you needed to wash your hands after touching anything in his room and so you instinctively avoided him even though he did nothing wrong

>>40917773 (OP)
the problem isn't being bi, the problem is telling people you're bi

>>40919538
>>40919570
noted

>>40918796
Why do you type so retarded?

>>40917773 (OP)
it's not something non-bisexuals get, bi4bi is the way, which is lucky, you can just be with other people like you that get your preference or you end up playing this >>40917846 game with a mask on

>>40919652

Why can't you Read A thread Before posting ?

>>40919847
I see it now. You should type less retarded.

>>40917846
>oh sure I love your sister, she's so nice! I love listening to her takes on immigration
so true, i hate liberals who shill for mass third world immigration

I really want to eat 3500 calories of carbs right now

>>40919601
I did the "just hide it bro" thing for years and only ended up hating myself. Repression generates self-loathing.

>>40917952
Hello anon

>>40917773 (OP)
>guys think you'll leave them for a girl
>girls think you'll leave them for a guy
>trans girls think you see them as men
>trans guys think you see them as women
Because all of these happen waaay too often. If it wasn't happening so regularly, then people would view bisexuals differently. Blame your fellow bisexuals, it's entirely self-inflicted.
It also applies to bi women, btw.

>>40920793
>Because all of these happen waaay too often
they really don't

>>40920793
>I got dumped once and it’s definitely because they were bi and not because I deserved it

>>40917773 (OP)
people fear what they dont understand and hate what they fear
ironically a bi guy has more legitimate reason to fear the average gay man than the other way around

>>40917773 (OP)
Because you see it all the time bi men always will choose a foid over you

>>40920952
>if a bi guy cheats on you it’s your fault btw
>errmm why doesn’t anyone like us..?
Stupid dumb bi scum

>>40921008
actually a surprisingly high number of bi males date other males despite like 95% of their dating pool being female

>>40921016
Because they’re waiting for the opportunity to date a woman

>>40921032
it's more like the other way around
they have a lot more opportunities to date women than men

>>40921053
Untruke

>>40917817
>you have to be split perfectly 50/50% attraction male/female or you aren't bisexual!
this has never been true. bisexual literally means you are attracted to two sexes, that's it. you can be 99% attracted to men and 1% attracted to women and still be bisexual. its not complicated to understand

>>40921008
>>40921032
I find women sexually attractive but I don't like them very much and don't see myself ever wanting to date one

>>40921255
> you can be 99% attracted to men and 1% attracted to women and still be bisexual
This is monosexual erasure

>>40917773 (OP)
at least they think you get mad pussy (or dick)

>>40917952
Jokes on you faggot when I’m dating women I’m cheating with men and when I’m dating men I’m cheating with women, your dysfunctional gay “perception” don’t catch that

monosexuals (specifically cis4cis or t4t monos) are the only ones who don't fly into a rage when the relationship ends and their ex dates someone of the wrong whatever, just goes to show you that monosexuailty exists primarily because of peer pressure

>>40921255
>you can be 99% attracted to men and 1% attracted to women and still be bisexual. its not complicated to understand
Is this what you say to yourself to not admit you are homosexual?

>>40922537
It's not an insult to homosexuality to call yourself bisexual

>>40923211
it kind of calls anon's whole life into question though if he doubled down on the "I don't like women" meme only to find out actually it's ok to like two things, imagine making your entire identity about a lie and a stupid lie at that

>>40917817
>femininity
When the men are feminine though hhnnngghghh

>>40922202
oh no! the poor monosexuals! whatever will they do?
>>40922537
if fucking your mother makes me a homosexual then i guess i have to admit it

>>40923211
>>40923847
If you're 99% into men and 1% into women you are for all intents and purposes GAY. Calling yourself bi in that scenario sounds like a cope and that you think being bi makes you feel less emasculated or something. I guess you enjoy being treated like shit or used for a hookup by over a third of 100% homosexuals.

>>40923903
>No you must call yourself gay you cannot associate yourself with women
Get a grip

>>40919570
I've never seen this so accurately described in my life. Kinda miss atden though, wonder if he still posts in /cgl/
>>40917817
I'm perfectly 50/50 but I prefer either obviously masc or obviously fem, the middle just doesn't do it much for me outside of self insert fiction.

>>40917817
i make sperms fall out doing it a man or it a woman
i have nice body

>>40924061
>I'm perfectly 50/50 but I prefer either obviously masc or obviously fem,
Let me guess, are you on estrogen right?

>>40924102
I'm a cis male.

>>40917952
Okay so low IQ it is. Actually literally just babies that go "if it's not happening in front of my eyes at this exact moment it can't exist and mustn't exist"

>>40924135
You sound like you're ashamed of your preference for men.

>>40924173
nta but it sounds like you're trying to weaponize your own homophobia as a bullying tactic to get someone to admit that they're a full dirty homo so they'll stay in their lane

>>40924225
No masculine bi/heteroflexible man talks the way you do. You're effeminate and mostly gay. You want us to believe you equally enjoy being fucked by men and fucking women. You're either an insufferable flamer or a tranny. Definitely not a real man.

>>40924256
Quick question for you: are trans women women and are trans men men?

>>40924294
Trans women are trans women.
Trans men are trans men.

>>40924325
That wasn't the question asked

>>40924325
Nice dodge but I can read between the lines, thanks for your cooperation

>>40924341
Are you also a leftist, male feminist, anti-fascist and a trans ally? Lol no wonder women are repulsed by you. But you could date a man instead. This leads to me to think why all bi men whine about women not wanting to date them but at the same time they don't wanna date a gay man or a fellow bi man? You're equally hypocritical.

>>40924425
trip on kayla

>>40924425
And the mask comes off

>>40924757
Don't be a retard and pick a side.
Women only like straight men, just fucking lie to them if you can.

>>40924777
No, I don't think I will

>>40924892
Why not?

>>40924922
Because I like both

>>40924777
>Women only like straight men
not factual. lots of women like me.....even after I told them I was bi. How would you know when you have never even talked a woman and live your life online?

Bisexuals are the biggest fucking faggots holy shit

>>40917879
yes

>>40926693
gincels seething day and night at people who have done nothing but exist.

boo hoo

he never wanted me ;(

>>40917773 (OP)
We face the strangest mental gymnastics ever.