Thread 40919329

>Hey, I have been talking to one of my friends who is trans and told them about a few things I’m worried about - one of those being finding out you had been taking black market transition drugs, don’t have a group or community of people to talk to, live in a close minded city with little to no queer culture etc - they do call center with folks through planned parenthood and said to check out this link. It has a load of great Information and is put together by people who care about the queer and trans communities (not weird internet trolls who mentally isolate people and create chaos hidden in “concern”) and I really think you should read through this. There’s allot of great information available -

>My concerns are that since you have lived your entire life in a culturally dead community pretty much your entire life and the only experience with conversations you’ve had have been with strangers online - is that maybe you are deceiving yourself into believing the most extreme reaction to how you may be feeling is not truly what is in your best interest or in your heart - rather getting to experience some life and making friends in person with other queer identity folks, dating, keeping a journal, self reflecting, and mentally taking a break from constant online pressure would allow you to find your self and become [Deadname] in whatever form that is!

>I love you so much. Truly. And I’m here for you - but want you to protect your head and heart from outside influence and truly get to know yourself so you can be the best you possible.

>>40919329 (OP)
well your friend is right. most trans people become trans because they feel trapped on their life and think transition would grant them a new life. your wish interest is to detrans

>>40919329 (OP)
who are you quoting?

>>40919389
>>40919407
This is my aunt

>>40919389
>source: straight out of my ass

>>40919417
you should take her advice and get off 4chan, keep DIYing as a backup but get a legit prescription and blood tests if you can

did she know you were interested in a new name? the deadname part is the only thing that sucks here.

>>40919329 (OP)
Theyre toxic and transphobic. Theyre worried you transitioning will mean you losing your personhood because they dont see trannies as people. Shit sucks, id cut them off because the chance of them seeing reason is basically none. Theyre treating you like youre in a cult, any argument you make is tainted by that in their eyes. Theres probably gonna be drama in that solution tho, they sound like they have nothing better to do than cause a scene out of their emotional duress. Like how dare you do this to her type shit. Gl

>>40919434
>>40919418
this is what everyone says on /LGBT/. i can't avoid to see that what i am saying is true since you guys are seething hard

>>40919561
>seething
where? who?

>>40919568
you, you are seething

>>40919702
proofs??

I now identify as a black man

My new name is nick and my pronouns are she/her

Shieettttt all yall want some of dis bbc now huh? Well yah can’t have none.

Huh? My bling changed? Ahhh nika don’t mind all dat. I got bling change jujutsu I can change my bling and dreads in a millitillasecond.

That’s how I keep racking up dah dubs in thah hood.

Let’s dance in the hood, shake that ass Hollywood~~~~~

>>40920237
>>40920263
>>40920274
kill yourself loser

>>40919329 (OP)
Here's what you do, Nona.

You get some self-respect, you make decisions for yourself, you hold your own convictions, and you respond to her however the best version of yourself would. But continue to be you no matter what anyone here or IRL says to you. Only you can know you.

I just told her that I know what I’m doing and that I’m an adult. She kind of brushed it off with just a thumbs up emoji

>>40919329 (OP)
She's right to an extent, but what you need to realize is that she is also one of the outside influences that she is telling you to limit. So is everyone else that is on this board, including me.

If you want to keep taking HRT, keep taking HRT. If you don't, then don't. Your aunt isn't saying not to, she's concerned for your well-being because she doesn't see you as having developed a personality outside of parasocial relationships online. Maybe this is true, maybe this isn't. But the fact that you're questioning it on an internet forum instead of processing it for yourself is troubling. It's no better than pasting everything into AI to analyze a situation.

My advice (and what she's basically telling you): get off of the internet, go touch grass, and learn who you are and what you want.

>picrel

>>40920424
I’ve already done all of that though, and I’m living for myself lmfao

>>40920461
Then she's coping with things she can't understand by clinging to that which she does. Try to remember that this kind of behavior is rooted in ignorance, not malice. Only you know what's best for you in this situation, and I think you made the right call by telling her to keep her opinions to herself.

>>40920502
Idrc how she’s feeling about it honestly I just thought it would be funny to see people’s thoughts on this. I pretty much told her that I didn’t care, and that I’m an adult

who is the most femme tranny here?

>>40919329 (OP)
are they telling you to detrans or just to get otc meds?
former sucks, latter is okay i guess

>>40920747
euromutt

>>40920747
heres the manliest chaser on chasergen

>>40919329 (OP)
>How can I say the most evil thing but progressively?

>>40920850
That’s literally what she did though lmfao

>>40920747
idk but annie has a nice ass

>>40920808
Thank youuuu! xo

>>40919329 (OP)
Your aunt seems nice