Thread 40923218

How come it‘s so hard to find someone who‘s ftm and into fakeboy/forced „detrans“/feminization stuff?
Sometimes I find people like that, but they‘re usually already in a relationship or not interested in fellow trans men. This is possibly the worst sexual interest to have.
t. ftm who has a thing for all of the aforementioned, t4t chaser

>>40923218 (OP)
how do you see this kind of relationship going for you? I'm just wondering what it is you really want from this?

>>40923218 (OP)
So many of them are t4t only because they think trans people are more likely to see it a fetish and won't actually want them to detrans

>>40923304
It‘s just a shared kink thing for me, if someone‘s not into the idea we‘re not compatible. Could you elaborate?

>>40923309
Well.. I see it as a fetish and don‘t actually want them to detrans, unless they want to explore that for sexual/identity reasons. If I was into cis women, I‘d go after cis women

>>40923311
Would they have to be into being feminised? or is it enough to want to feminise you? I'm sure this is more than a psychological compatablity thing, so what kind of activities would you want to do with a partner related to this kink?

>>40923326
They would have to want to be feminized, it‘s a bit of a humiliation thing. I don‘t want to be feminized or detransitioned, the fakeboy kink is only appealing to me out of the perspective of someone who‘s detransitioning/feminizing someone else.
>what kind of activities would you want to do with a partner related to this kink?
It really depends on what they‘re into, all sexual stuff would have to be something they also like. As for regular activities, just spending time together as a normie couple would be nice. I‘d treat them as their preferred gender in everyday life, unless they‘d expect something differently

>>40923345
If you ask what I‘m into personally, I like all sort of degrading stuff (as in humiliating someone else), unless it‘s unhygienic

>>40923345
>>40923358
I think despite you being somewhat vauge here you do seem to have a clear idea of what you want, and as you have aknowledged there peopole out there that would be potentially interested, even if they are unavailble, so I really don't think you are in the worst situation possible. I do belive there are peopole out there for you.
As someone who is into feminasation but not from a humiliation/degradation standpoint could I ask how you square that intrest in your own head? How do you feel ok underming others transness without undermining yourself?

>>40923444
>As someone who is into feminasation but not from a humiliation/degradation standpoint could I ask how you square that intrest in your own head?
This is not a direct answer, but feminization and being perceived as a woman (not BEING a woman per se), is directly linked to humiliation and lots of shame for many trans men, which is how this kink typically forms. The more it stresses someone out, the more likely they find it appealing to „roleplay“ their nightmare scenarios.
>How do you feel ok underming others transness without undermining yourself?
Being trans has never been a big theme in my life, I started being stealth very soon after I began medically transitioning. Therefore, I barely view myself as trans at all, in my head, I‘m more or less the same as a cis man.
I don‘t undermine other people‘s transness, I think they should do whatever they want to do with their bodies. The thought of someone kind of sexualizing that aspect of them is just very hot to me.

>>40923487
>is just very hot to me
To be frank, I never buy any kind of explantion that goes 'x is just y'. I think there are reasons why most things are the way they are, and that these reasons are genrally more availible for us to understand than most peopole seem to think, but anyaway thank you for answering my questions.

I'm a bit depressed because there was some anon here yesterday who seemed to be into this. Wish I had his contacts, life's tough as a pervert

I'd "force fem" the poonah but only if "he" was already confusable to me as a "she" so it would be more natural

>>40925179
I don't want anyone forcefemming me. I want to forcefem a fellow dood

>>40925152
I am here now. I thought I sounded a bit like a troll yesterday.

>>40925276
No way.. if you have a discord, feel free to drop it

>>40925322
ninfan997

>>40925485
yippie!!!

>>40925561
>it's another chaser
My life is a nightmare. Nothing against you if you're reading this bro

>>40925609
I don't even like Nine Inch Nails.