Thread 40924874

I honestly hate the game bio women play nonstop of filtering everyone they talk with. I almost never talk to ANY woman who doesn't act like they're testing me non stop to see if I'm "one of the good ones" or not as a male. I'm fucking gay but I'm not going to parade that fact around so you stop your stupid fucking game holy shit. The insane narcissism of always thinking they're going to be persued by every man within their presence is the most annoying shit in the world to be around and I'm so fatigued of playing their game anytime I happen to share a hobby with one. They are only getting worse as years have gone on and I seriously just don't have the patience anymore to sit through ****totally subtle**** shit testing while they hide behind 50 masks.

>>40924874 (OP)
Women don't do that to me. Maybe cause I have srs and I am one of them basically :3
Try be less like a male so they don't think you are creepy.
Men are predators to women, its natural to be cautious

>>40924874 (OP)
They're not filtering men, they're filtering rapists and stalkers. By acting this way you're defending and associating yourself with rapists and stalkers, so they will filter you for that too. Chew on that for a moment.

>>40924904
You didnt read my post perhaps? I am a male, a gay one with a partner I quite fondly love. I'm feminine enough women usually enjoy hanging out with me but I tire of the unnecessary games. Plus saying that whole predator thing is super annoying and narcissistic once again.

>>40924944
The assumption that every random guy who interacts with j and has been pretty relaxed for over 30 minutes and still doing """"subtle"""" tests every so often is annoying. Any amount of interest in them as a person being assumed is sexual is annoying. Any attempts to maintain friendship being assumed trying to land sex is annoying.

You cannot handwave acting this fucking annoying away as just looking out for rapists. Look I deal with guys too, I've been at social events where guys knew I was gay and hit on me or "looked at me" in certain ways. I'm not strong either before someone says that too. The shit testing meta is beyond overblown at this point.

>>40924951
God I wanna bang Koleda

>>40924944
By trying to filter predators, they filter men.

They don't have perfect radar and most men are good. Some maybe a bit overattached because men are generally starved of touch and attention.

>>40925021
Yeah I betcha do nerd.

>>40924874 (OP)
> I'm fucking gay but I'm not going to parade that fact around so you stop your stupid fucking game holy shit
see there's ur problem. If u don't fag it up around women it's always gonna be shite cause they'll either come onto you or shit test you.
For chill times with women, just make it clear ur a fag and things are going smoothly.
> t. fag, many gbfs had.

>>40924874 (OP)
Passing gayden, women don't do this to me

>>40924874 (OP)
Can you provide examples of these "tests" ?

>>40925088
>passing
You're obviously leaking female/harmless aura and or appearance
Your communication style also probably supports it

>>40925095
nta, but dude, its so clear when women are trying to come onto u by doing these stupid 'tests'.
they'll act extra coy while at the same time trying to make it clear that that's not AKSHUALLY what they want.
just brush it off, make some comments about hot men and they'll drop the act sooner or later.
It's always a push-pull. They'll compliment you while disregarding you within the next few minutes, it's so fucking annoying and why I don't hang with foids that don't know or don't get I'm a fag anymore.

>>40925098
Hmm if that's true maybe OP should mirror whatever I'm doing so they don't freak women out... Take notes op

>>40925063
She's hot okay. I need a significant other to cosplay her to pipe.

>>40925072
Yeaahh....The ones I've had the most pure and open friendships with are the ones who learned about it naturally. It just sounds so stupid to me that you have to do that but whatever I guess. Still think by large it's complete overkill.
>>40925095
>>40925127
^ What that anon said more or less. Add in little things that are done in conversation, how quickly you respond, "how excited" you sound, how eager you are to go do something in person together, where you do that thing together, how confidently you speak, how nervous you seem, what tells are being shown on your body as their eyes change into "scanning" you. There's countless one's that add up into making conversation feel like a minefield rather than just trying to make a cool friend sigh.
>>40925181
Sorry for not being female socialized when growing up jeez, its not really a test when you can look at the answers is it?
>>40925216
Good pic, saved. And respectable. I hope to do that someday since love her vibe way too much. hah "hot".

>>40925317
>Sorry for not being female socialized
What exactly does female socialize mean here? What am I doing in front of women that OP isn't?

>>40925317
Do you wanna be Koleda friends

>>40924874 (OP)
yeah its genuinely exhausting. It gives me a little sick bump of happiness when they loudly mention "MY BOYFRIEND" multiple times in a conversation and I follow up and mention my own, but I just hate having to do that and it feels disgusting to actually participate in the stupid game to begin with.

>ummmm if you feel worried about this its because YOU are secretly a predator and a rapist and theyre sensing it on you...
Sorry being born with a vagina doesn't give you ESP, they aren't reading shit on me they're just making a stupid assumption.

>>40925385
God you put it so perfectly thanks fellow gaynon. It feels so gross when we 100% know if we didnt have that retort we'd be completely walled off from meangingful, normal interaction. Another treat in the same vein is talking about how theyre not looking for partners/looking for girls currently despite that having literally 0 bearing on the conversation.
>>40925374
Watcha hoping for Koleda friend? Im open always enjoy a Koleda appreciator

>>40925603
I have.. No idea! I just need friends desu.

>>40925127
children gonna child, I'm generally mildly amused with their shenanigans and appropriately adjust my demeanor if they stray into annoying territory

>>40925970
Fair enough pff, Im open to give it a shot why not eh. filename friend

>>40926271
I sent it anon!

>>40924944
if only they knew all their rotten behavior is doing is slowly going to turn men not into rapists but straight skip them to murderers from the amount of disrespect while being forced to repress the urge to slap the shit outta her for acting like this and prevent it from escalating in the first place. Only women can have infinite options and consistently choose the one that will lead society to the absolute worst end if a man doesn't show up to stop them.