Thread 40926051

does your dad accept you being gay or trans?

>>40926051 (OP)
yes he is very supportive of me :) he treats me like his daughter

Protip: the more that straight people know about gay culture and how things work, the more homophobic they become.

>>40926051 (OP)
yeah?
i started hrt when i was 19 and for the first 2 yrs he was really unhappy with me
22 now and thankfully hes come around and defends me from my terf mom lol
yeah i have a little crush on him but no im not gonna fuck him you freaks

>>40926051 (OP)
Eh ...

>>40926051 (OP)
my dad left at an early age, why do you think im trans in the first place lmao

he’s chill with it now but ive never come home with a boy

>>40926146
if that made you trans, the entire hood would troon out

>>40926051 (OP)
No I was recently outed to my dad by my brother and now I’m at the family home doing manual labor to atone for my sins while he makes rude remarks daily about my appearance. I was a girlmoder in my town and now I’m regularly sneaking out of the house with a dress on underneath boy clothes like I’m in high school again. I hate my life right now

>>40926051 (OP)
yeah but my mom hates it

>>40926051 (OP)
He is not happy, and My bf dad feels like the one of the pic

>>40926051 (OP)
He mostly doesn't acknowledge it and is generally uncomfortable whenever its brought up. When i came out to him he asked why i couldn't just be "like Kurt Cobain" and be a guy who does feminine things

My parents don't give a fuck about anything except themselves

>>40926051 (OP)
I don't have sex so nobody needs to know anyway.

>>40926859
True

>>40926051 (OP)
No. I havent spoken to that asshole in years.

>>40926051 (OP)
At first, he wouldn't even let me tell him what name I had chosen, lol
After going no contact for a few months, he calmed down, accepted it, and realized he preferred to accept his tranny daughter than to lose his firstborn forever

>>40926051 (OP)
Yeah. I think it was weird for him at first but eventually he got over it. I love my dad, hes pretty great

>>40926051 (OP)
he calls me his child at least instead of son, but doesn't treat me how a dad would treat his daughter. he's not supportive, more so tolerating. better than being thrown out

>>40926051 (OP)
yeah we're gay with each other

>>40926051 (OP)
my dad is ok with me being gay but idk how he feels about the tranny stuff, he doesn't know and probably never will, I dont see him enough to really justify coming out to him

if i had a tranner daughter i'd want to take her virginity

He was fine with it but explicitly told me to not let it interfere with my grades

>>40926051 (OP)
the sort of dads that would cry about other men benis'ing their sons have no problem with other men benis'ing their daughters and paying for their weddings. really it all seems quite silly to be upset about.

hes supportive which im v grateful for, however that still doesn't mean hes very interested in me or likes being around me that much. he always liked my much manlier brother than me, so that isn't new ig lol

He's a deadbeat neo Nazi who was never in my life

>>40926051 (OP)
Yeah, he accepts me being gay. He likes my husband, too. I think it helps that we both present as very normal, professional people. We met in grad school, and we are both pretty clean-cut, preppy kind of people.

In reality though, we do degenerate pup play lol

>>40926051 (OP)
my dad is pretty accepting of me being gay but he found out I'm on hrt like a year ago and he said something about health issues and it being a bad idea and I told him I don't care or owe anyone an explanation and we litterly have just been pretending that conversation never happened since. it's fine bc I'm a neverpasser so I can kinda just larp as gay and pretend to be mostly normal.

>>40927945
what type of Asian

no.
I can actually tell how fem im looking that day because he always has a remark when seeing me upon entering his home or walking up. "that's sick" is a common one. been like this well over a decade

I love my dad and help him like he is a child. I think one day I'll make peace with him although he's also been physically abusive etc and so I've told him many times I'll abandon him in his eldest years, but I can't do that.. Been nc before with both parents, mom is wayy better these days. Dad takes religion "seriously".

>>40926051 (OP)
he didn’t accept it when i was 6, but he died before i got on hrt so who knows if he would’ve changed his mind

>>40926051 (OP)
no he threatened to kill me and it wasnt even over being trans it was about getting molested when i was a kid. and that's the last night he was around.
something about that fucked him up too.
cause it was his side of the family.

>>40926100
Same goes for gay men
T. Read and the band played on

>>40926051 (OP)
My Father's Dead
before he died he basically told me he didn't really give a shit

>>40930773
Wow. some kid had a father who reacted badly. He got with a guy twice his age who treated him well and he posted their pics on social media. At least the dad got to see how a real man loves a boy.

who says i'm gay. don't make things up, that's slander

>>40926051 (OP)
my real dad's a speed addicted schizo who doesn't know and my stepdad beats, chokes and throws me around for being a tranny

>>40926051 (OP)
>pic
by accepting his boyfriend as the top son you always wanted.
>does your dad accept you being gay or trans?
never came up

yes

No dad truly accepts having a gay son. It's more resignation than acceptance.

>>40933331
False + autistic absolutism + possible projection

Never officially came out but when he found my gay porn stash on the family computer he beat the shit out of me so bad my mom wailed as if I'd been killed lmao. The only reason he stopped is because my mom had to physically pull him off. My nose is still crooked lol

>>40926051 (OP)
No, and it's been 17 years. Makes me really sad and I almost never see him anymore.

>>40926834
>Why can't you be like that guy who blew his fucking head off with a shotgun when he was still in his 20s?

>>40927973
Are you genuinely retarded? Daughters having sex with men can have happy, successful families.
>>40930704
kek
>>40931541
maybe it's because of you that he's a drug addicted schizo. Maybe it's how he copes
>>40933351
only liberal post feminist low T cuck "fathers" approve of it and even then they're just virtue signalling.

>>40926051 (OP)
he died just as i was starting transition. never came out to him. i do know he had terfy tendencies. ill remember the good parts of him.

>>40933436
>only liberal post feminist low T cuck "fathers" approve of it and even then they're just virtue signalling.
You’re a right wing NPC. Not a single thought in your head is actually your own.

>>40933444
>i do know he had terfy tendencies.
that is one of the good parts

>>40926051 (OP)
OP needs to mind his own fucking business. His son is his own person.

>>40933455
>no retort
thanks for playing. I'm not a political fag I just exist in reality and do not play into your fantasies. You're welcome to tell me how you think I'm wrong, little guy.

yeah both of my parents are pretty accepting and seem to be making an active effort to understand me being trans and use my new name + pronouns. i feel weird about it sometimes because i know its not the norm for trans or gay people and its not like i did anything i was just lucky. ive told them a few times that despite what they think they are actually doing better than 80% of parents by nature of just being chill about it.

>>40933471
>debate me bro
Lmao I don’t take double digit IQ retards like you seriously.

>>40933478
>trans
you mean tranny

>>40933497
>> color
> you mean "colour" right
fuck off

>>40933493
Well above average IQ here. You would've been better off simply not responding rather than giving another cope. I think hrt damages trannies' brains.

>>40926051 (OP)
My dad is cool and my mom is super supportive
That being said I grew up listening to my dad constantly shit talk our trans cousin that is his age.
"Well they were an ugly man and now they are an uglier woman"

>>40933514
>SERIOUSLY, DEBATE ME BRO
Please get a job.

>>40933521
I am working but thanks for proving my point, brainlet. Remember, you will never be anything other than you assigned at birth gender and no amount of propagandized science will ever change that.

>>40933532
>no bro I am totally smart and employed that’s why I harass trannies and gays on the internet
Lmao yeah okay bud. What’s the next lie? That your dick isn’t actually small?

I can't cum unless I imagine a DL bear in his 40s or 50s pounding me senseless while I scream DADDY over and over until he cums inside me and collapses on me leaving us both in a pool of sweat and mutual disgust.

This is why all gay men need to switch