Thread 40928439

/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.

Bee kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community.

QOTT:
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?
>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!

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cuck edition

How come girl x girl couples in comics and cartoons is always said to COME OUT OF NOWHEREEE but if either of the girls were actually a guy all those fags screaming that would acknowledge the build up

Can someone just be my discord gf where I just dm a million positive things all the time....

>>40928457
That’s really good tho!! I only did one important thing but I reported my employer to the dept of labor. hehehe

>>40928492
cool can you stop calling trans women moids

>>40928533
Where did I do that, dumbass? Are you illiterate?

>>40928439 (OP)
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
no, no
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?
yes, no
>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!
no, not really, I just have some art and fashion books and some doujinshi
sometimes when I have free time I try to practice and improve, but that's less than I want tbqh
going to visit some art museums soon so that will be pretty exciting mhm
>>40928458
I feel like media tends to have a kinda weird relationship to lgbt issues overall tbqh
>>40928492
high five, take down the fat cats
honestly I need to get more done myself, but I'm always balancing multiple things with my low energy

Also, funny how this thread about cis f chasers >>40905900 also has weirdos being bitter and hostile towards cis women on the board. Give up and seek therapy. Go make transbiangen if the presence of cis women bothers you so much here.

>>40928594
>I feel like media tends to have a kinda weird relationship to lgbt issues overall tbqh
Its literally be that board's cope for a decade now

>>40928594
I LOVE museum art books. I regret not going to more museums in Tokyo for those books. I did buy one beautiful huge one with old Japanese art of women. Also bought one little book about shitamachi (Old Tokyo lower city) even though it’s in Japanese so I can’t read it… yet…

>>40928458
This happens a lot in media where two same sex characters are really weirdly close and if you gender swapped one of them it would 10000% make sense for the narrative to have them get together at some point. This is where most really popular non canon gay ships come from.

>>40928672
its just straggots wanting to be obtuse to farm yous

mtfs aren't lesbians. They're straight dudes.

>>40928724
>Transphobia

>>40928781
Aren't you transphobic?

>>40928724
im actually a feminine gay boy who likes other feminine gay guys

>>40928800
Only if its some fake trans trender who looks like a lumberjack wearing lipstick as opposed to some bitch whose actually busted her eyes to look feminine

I've been wanting a cis woman chaser gf, but I figured out that it is actually me who is the chaser for cis women. I have a cis woman fetish.
Affirmation from cis women seems hot to me, but I don't know. She can be bi, even, it's okay.

>>40928466
Bump

>>40928659
well, not really those art books, those gift shop books tend to be super expensive so fair in not buying them tbqh
my japanese art books are mainly all how to draw and reference styles books tho
>>40928838
but if you chase the chasers, then who chases the chaser chasers?

>>40928876
I will be chased by the cis woman chasers because I am a chaser of cis women.
I will attain PIV.

is angela our first c4t lesbian representation on AAA games?

>>40928833
so true, if you're too brown you shouldn't transition. It's bad optics

>>40928931
you might be onto something, I'm way too passive to ever chase anyone...

>>40928976
Well, you see, I don't actually act on my thoughts. I stay in my room all day. I'm on /lesgen/ after-all.
I am not harassing women, because I worry too much about ethics and not being a reprehensible person. But if I ever went outside and actually looked attractive, I'd try "chasing" (really just dating like a normal person) cis women.
My brain is fucked up

>>40928466
>>40928840
I'll be honest anon, I don't really know what you mean, but I guess everyone is careful since it's 4chan
>>40929011
then what use is your advice to me! I have a quota of dates to fill! I need actionable evidence-based plans!!
oh well, why not go outside and try some korean skincare tho?

>>40929054
I never said I had all the answers, I just said that I wanna fill up cis women. I don't know how to do that, but I would.
There's gotta be a market for cis women who like getting dicked, but also find women hot.

trannies are a product in search of a market and the tranny boom of 2010s was a bubble

>>40929085
iunno about all that anon...
why not start by filling their hearts with yearning and their faces with smiles?

>>40929131
Oh. That too, obviously. I'm not just coombrained to Hell, I also want to be in a loving and caring relationship. I just said the fetishy/chasery bit.

>>40929147
sometimes I wonder cos some ppl post mostly that stuff a lot y'know

>>40929185
I would treat a cis woman very well, and I would not be all weird about it. I would want to be the main provider and like "the guy" of the relationship. Which feels kinda weird because transitioning, but you can't fight what you want.

>>40929230
hopefully it works out for you anon, it sounds like there must be a lot here, so don't give up

>>40929292
You too, tripfriend. I'm not sure there's actually cis F chasers "here," but lol. Femanons mostly seem straight.

>>40928607
I mean it might be cis women saying those things. I’m cis and only date afabs and at this point in time I’m not sure if I like most women. I’m gonna turn into a volcel.

>>40928815
Based

>>40928838
I genuinely hope you stop being a chaser or kill yourself.

>>40929353
Yeah, that could be real cis women, or it could just be people just saying shit lol.

>turn into a volcel
Do it if you want, Anon, just be happy.

>>40929353
a lot were t4t transbians who hate c4t trannies, some were male chasers saying that stuff, some were genuine incels. its hard to have a genuine thread discourse on 4chan, especially on this board

>>40929353
Cis women are harassing cis women for being cis? Interesting take.

>>40929370
Surely there's another option here, Anon. Any other ways I can please you?

>>40928607
Cis women are funding political campaigns to push us out of existence. We have to hit back.

>divisive false flagger
lol

anyway I have been melting away the skin on my legs, which makes them feel like I just epilated them...
so I hope I can find someone to date that likes smooth legs, and I can pretend I epilate them twice a day

divisive trvke flagger

I guess the issue with all the post-irony troll vs troll posts is that the identity of the poster doesn't really matter
like it's not really emotionally available, and doesn't really seem like a gain or loss of possibility to know a purely hypothetical person

Nana stuff I’ve collected so far. Plus a tank top I misplaced somewhere in my room.

Have other prints but not gey.

cis women and trans women holding hands and kissing

>>40930127
giwtwm

>>40930127
Cis women, come over please

>>40930127
ugh need

>QOTT:
i like to watch...
yah, we send a lot of message to each other.
i have a huge collection of girls kissing

>>40929382
>its hard to have a genuine thread discourse on 4chan, especially on this board
yeah this. can't have a thread where someone will end up baiting and derailing the thread

>>40930481
>>40928439 (OP)
aaaaaaaa forgot to put op
oh well

i love friendcest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i love having sex with my friends and not seeking closure when we catch feelings!!!!!!!!!!

>>40929453
Melting??

>>40928439 (OP)
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
nah not really
the thrill of not wanting to get caught is good but the thought of actually getting caught is horrible
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?
nah but maybe i should i have terrible handwriting though
>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!
not that into prints, but I have some art museum exhibit posters and stuff like that.

>>40931495
trannies are so disgusting

>>40931704
said the person posting on the tranny board

I just realized the thread creations have slowed down because school started back up, lol.

how do i explain to my trans gf that she doesn't help by trying to affirm me when im dysphoric? i think only cis women could help and i wish i had a cis gf or a friend or something because it seems disengenuious or like how would you know what's passing with her

>>40931704
"trannies" are the reason cis lesbians have rights you dumb troglodyke

>>40932164
delusional

>>40928439 (OP)
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
not really
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?
no... I'm not sure she can write
>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!
yes I have a lot but I never put them up in this apartment and I'm moving soon
>>40928607
yeah it's weird, I'd rather take the ones that don't believe cis women into trans women can't exist.
>>40929011
you should just go outside, internet fucks up with your perception of how attractive people are
>>40930127
now this is it

>>40932164
I think it’s the opposite? The trans at stone wall is a false myth.

>>40928439 (OP)
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
I wouldn’t call myself one, but I have gone to bdsm clubs and watched people have sex.
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend?
I did when I was I high school and had one… That was a king time ago.
Does she write any to you?
She did
>Do you collect art prints?
Yeah I’ll go grab some in a sec.

>>40930127
i would walk through glass to experience this :<
>>40928838
me too nona. its bad. i know i should not base my self worth on what cis women say about me, but when they are very nice to me i feel good.. although i would not say i have a "fetish" for cis women (i dont really know what that means) i am just attracted to them and think they are very sweet! i dont think i could do PIV tho.. i am just too dysphoric :<

>>40932219
'kay just know that when vutch women get transvestigated in female spaces, they have transphobic cis women to thank for it!
>>40932406
Stonewall is one word and is also not the end be all of LGBT activism, pickme

>trans women have rights because of cis lesbians
Now this is actually delusional. Look up Sandy Stone.

>>40932245
>cis women into trans women can't exist.
oh I believe they exist but 1. being into trans women doesn't mean you are nit transphobic as chasers demonstrate and 2. it doesn't override the structural exclusion that cis women perpetuate every day against trans women. Sorry if this offends your cis sensibilities swablu :(

>>40930031
WELL I THOUGHT THEY WERE CUTE

I gifted some to a coworker and she was so happy. Was nice. I’ve seen more and more yuri/lesbian art out there which is cool. Tho I’d like to see more original art than fan art.

Damn it I fucked up. Created a discord account to talk to a girl and then discord locked me out because I used a temp email. WHY DO THEY ACTUALLY NEED A LEGIT EMAIL ADRESS?! Why can’t it just be proton mail or .ninja?

>>40932550
why can’t you use your email?

>>40932463
nah it doesn't offend my cis sensibilities at all, I try to not be transphobic actually.

>>40928439 (OP)
>No
>yes!
>no

I don’t really understand exhibitionist

>>40928439 (OP)
hello /lesgen/
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
uhmm not really
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?
if i had a gf i would write her cute letters all the time! and i would decorate them with cute stickers :))
>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!
no.. but i should

>cis girl ive been ignoring sends me several messages a day saying she misses me and wants to hangout
>finally decide to give her a chance
>now she keeps making excuses to not hangout and being generally uninterested in me
i shouldve kept ignoring this bitch what the fuck is this you give a cissoid some leeway and their egos inflate like a balloon almost immediately

>>40932924
I don’t understand either but as a voyeur, I love ‘em.
>>40933014
I wanna use my stickers to decorate and send my gf but… I also don’t wanna use them… They’re so pretty to look at fully stocked on the original sticker sheet. It sucks too because some are limited and UGH. But the bright side is everything that’s my gf’s is also mine.

if a girl was watching I'd be an exhibitionist

Do you think god made my car break down because i forgot to tell my dog that i love him and when i'll be back before i left

>>40933064
>I wanna use my stickers to decorate and send my gf but… I also don’t wanna use them…
i didnt know stickers could be limited and rare.. i dont know much about stickers desu. although i like them, i like keeping the sticker sheets full but i also have a desire to stick them to things. i would not mind using a full sticker sheet for a letter to my future girlfriend

>>40933064
you're bisexual

>>40933137
One artist I just discovered with gorgeous colorful bunny art/stickers is from Singapore and they stopped shipping to the US because tariffs and stuff. Some just stop having a store after a while or retire stuff. I buy from a lot of indie vendors and the fancier stuff, like risographs, doesn’t really get restocked sometimes. Also love some artists from Japan and it’s hard to get their stuff here, couldn’t even find their stuff when I went to Tokyo.

That is sweet. Give all the stickers to your gf someday!!

>>40933217
ohhh yeah!! i should look into indie stores.. i have just been buying stickers at the regular store lol. but i will get some nice indie ones and give them to a beautiful girl one day ^_^

>>40932563
I like my privacy, but I ended up doing that in the end to recover an old discord account I thought I lost. I just don’t know how to contact her again. I should have wrote down her discord name or something.

>>40931527
yeh, technically it's true that acid melts things and the higher the amount of acidic stuff the more it melts
>>40930031
>>40932501
I thought they were cute, I just fell asleep...
one of my favorite artists in recent years is a yuri artist called sakura oriko, she is known for a very cute style
but I wouldn't want to bore everybody by talking about how I'm trying to learn art and her and others styles, since nobody here seems to care much about that sort of thing I guess...
but it's ok since all my animation acquaintances know her anyway since we all have her cute clothing parts reference books tbqh
>>40933014
>>40933064
I used to have penpals I would send letters to and we used to decorate them with stickers and things all the time too, it was so cute...!
>>40933027
she has to play it cool y'know? otherwise you will think she's desperate

>>40933027
i agree with >>40933986
she is probably just trying to play it cool and not seem desperate. although i dont like these sort of social mind games, i do understand why people do them

>>40933986
>but I wouldn't want to bore everybody by talking about how I'm trying to learn art and her and others styles, since nobody here seems to care much about that sort of thing I guess...
I care... please share your art. I might be really just doing little scribbles and not good at all but I like art stuff too...

>>40933986
>>40934055
she literally is (was) desperate, that's why I decided to give her a chance

>>40934170
people are strange, perhaps she is just sort of strange. try not to think the worst of her yet nona

>>40933104
A vengeful god

>>40934127
I can relate, but also would be scared of posting anything here in case someone uses it to track me down
I also recently got the saito naoki art practice drills book, cos it's recommended by marine senchou who is a lesbiab
I haven't had time to start it yet since in fact I am very lazy, but also I am not awake as much as other ppl tbqh
>>40934055
it's all fun and games until one day they're so so lonely and so on & so on, but honestly, it always takes two to tango and so the games are just like why ask why
>>40934170
I mean you could just tell her you think she's desperate or tell her enough games and put your cards on the table

need friend to play factorio with

I am incorrigible

>>40935025
haha I love your skin in these, it's so cute! I hope your treatment/toner/whatever works but cute

>>40928439 (OP)
why is this cuck edition KEKW

the cis les is a cuck

>>40936154
Chloe's whole thing is an obsession with the girl who groomed her so it makes sense she'd be happy she's grooming her gf too

My dad be like "i have to buy 50 watches at once and look like a fucking guido at all times to compensate for the fact that my bitch mother is a french whore"

>>40936109
ahaha, I hope you're not paying attention to all my silliness...
most ppl don't call it cute tho, usually they just ask if I have aids or something, I'm trying to be more comfortable with my imperfections, but I suppose we could all use a lil more bravery tbqh
iunno...

everybody in my family talks like an episode of the sopranos it's so annoying

>>40936503
how is this lesbian related?

>>40936908
thats luz, just ignore their daddy issue fueled rants

as an asian transbian I need to sit in a cuck chair while a cis asian girl worships white gock and gets dominated by white trannies

>>40937383
lmfao I knew it was asian amabs spamming that shit on gif

>>40937383
as a latina transbian, i want to be the one recording this happening while cheering on the white transbians and recording the asian transbian as she jerks off while crying

So TNWO is a thing where trannies fantasize about being seen as a superior breed of women to whom cis women must serve. Does lesgen like this fetish?

>>40937383
>>40937477
buck status?

>>40937486
that's misogyny

>>40937513
I don't even find it that misogynistic. It's cringier than it's hateful. It's like the sexual equivalent of putting on Phonk music and pretending you're in an edit.

>>40937491
BRVKEN

>>40937491
not broken. im usually a top, but id love to make some quick money by uploading it on pornhub. also im a bit of a sadomasochist and seeing a tranny cry ove being cucked sounds kinda hot, regardless of race

>>40932245
>you should just go outside, internet fucks up with your perception of how attractive people are

I agree completely, I just am still developing vital skills right now. I don't have access to a lot of people right now, as well. When I do, I'll be much more of a social person, because I like being around people.

>>40932245
>you should just go outside, internet fucks up with your perception of how attractive people are
I agree completely, I just am still developing vital skills right now. I don't have access to a lot of people right now, as well. When I do, I'll be much more of a social person, because I like being around people.

>>40937526
It's a fetish about worshipping men who call themselves women and forcing biological females to worship you it's just as if not more misogynistic than normal maledom

polygamy is only practiced by actual retards and narcissists

>>40938060
Trvke

everyone is suddenly into some sort of world orders. weird.
>>40937754
you don't really need to have much access to people, you could just go to a walk or something and perceive other people and how they just look ordinary

>>40937486
>twitter meme opinions
irrelevant

>>40938060
the only poly I want to practice are polyglotty and polymathy, but I'm not nearly smart enough tbqh

>>40938060
funny because poly people are generally more empathetic and have healthier relationships

>>40938532
lol no

>>40938532
hokay bud

>>40938532
poly people dont even have real relationships, they just have friends with benefits who they kiss sometimes

>>40938532
>and have healthier relationships
nah

>>40939274
I like having both. :)

would you be more inclined to date someone if from the start it was not serious and just temporary?

>>40941161
Sounds more honest to me. Although in hindsight im not sure if it actually is.

>>40928439 (OP)
I do this but I also cry at the same time and they ignore me
gf's gf is coming over tonight

>>40942035
well, you could be like friends that date, and you wouldn't even need to be into each other, or like practice until you find someone you love
it has all the makings of a toxic romcom plotline tbqh

watching my gf getting taken advantage of by the neighborhood tgirls who we lured in with the promise of weed

If you wanted to make a lesbian space that was accepting of trans women, but also wanted to prevent it from getting hammered by 0-years-on-hrt validation seeking weirdos who look and act like men (and generally wanted to prevent transition-related discussion beyond the level that any other life difficulty would be talked about) how would you go about it?

My inclination is to use exclusively vibes-based moderation with no hard rules and no explicit acceptance criteria. I'm tired of lesbian spaces either being like literal nazi dens or including anyone under the sun and full of creepy weirdos.

>>40942302
vibe based moderation is definitely the way to go. be really explicit about that, tell everyone that the point of the space is to foster a certain kind of community and the mods will do that any way they see fit.
There's been attempts at this on like reddit and such, but usually they turn quite terfy quite quickly.

>>40942302
agreed that vibes based moderation is the way to go, although i agree with >>40942333 that those places can get terf-y quickly. basically we fucked up when we started doing the "everyone is equally valid!" thing instead of the "if you want to be a trans woman you should actually transition". moderators of such a space would probably need to be trans women and some really cool cis women to avoid it becoming full of terfs

>>40942333
I just wish that there was a woke way to say "I don't want you here if you aren't generally accepted by society as a woman and haven't had X years of life experience with that". I'm trans but the only times I ever think about it are when I'm potentially getting sexually involved with someone or when I'm being actively discriminated against and I really just want to make a sane, normal lesbian space that centers around what we love instead of what we hate... that won't get blown off the rails into being an emotional support group for women who haven't figured out their shit yet.

>>40942364
I would definitely want the mod team to not primarily be trans women. I want to entirely de-center trans women without breeding discrimination against them. There MUST be some way to communicate this to people. Basically everyone I meet in real life has this same decentralized set of opinions and are generally cool but there is literally no language for it other than "oh my god, be normal"

>>40942333
>usually they turn quite terfy quite quickly
unfortunately this is 100% because of pre/non-hrt tgirls and their poor behavior. imo a "no male anatomy discussion" rule (w/o banning all mention of trans) would stop most of the gockposting

hi!! i'm new to this thread, hopefully i'm not interrupting anything at all. no idea how this works, so hopefully i'm doing everything correctly.

>>40942377
I'd like to hope that this is the case but I can't be certain. I have never, ever had any lesbian women be transphobic to my face in real life so I would like to assume that that's the situation. I fully respect that some women would rather not have any trans women around them ever but I really do feel like 90% of cases are just people wanting to distance themselves from those who abuse the social contract

Wish I could have a gf and have a normal life

>>40942371
>I would definitely want the mod team to not primarily be trans women.
yeah i get that, i agree. i just dont know if any other option is possible to find the perfect balance. idk, its hard. im trans too and i get so much second hand embarrassment from so many lesbian spaces because theyre so full of posts like "im not on hrt yet am i welcome here?". its annoying. dont think im entirely at the same point in life as you with the only thinking about being trans sometimes thing, but im definitely closer to that than the people who are just getting their shit together

>>40942302
lulu WON

you can never get rid of lulus

maddy touched lulu, that's why she quiet :(

no hrt trans women should unironically go crawl into a hole and leave real humans alone
t.one month hrt tranny

my dad be like "the democrats should run val demings in 2020 she can definitely beat trump"

my dad would drive a clown car if it was a mercedes clown car

>>40942302
ban everyone everyday, like that one time I deleted everyone off skipe, well, two times, and then another where I just stopped using it and everyone thought I was dead tbqh
except systematize it into a policy iunno
what you need is clearly lesbian robots guiding the empire from the shadows, yes I have been watching too much foundation

>>40943142
same, there's no need for a giant suv in a city

>>40942302
just ban all trannies lbr they're all in the same boat

>>40942444
lmao cute

>>40942444
welcome! :)

>>40942302
don't ask don't tell 100% stealth transsexuals only

>>40942302
we should have a don't ask don't tell policy for troons

>>40943726
>>40943735
that would eliminate 99% of transbians

>>40943743
That's the point lol

>>40942302
Hell yeah sister HH!!

if something, this conversation reminds me how I will never want to moderate anything ever, I don't want to be deciding on which vibe is too much and which is not

How to improve lesbian spaces:
>ban all blacks/browns (they all look like men anyways)
>ancestry testing (to root out the you know whos)
>no troons
>no fats
>no degenerate (potheads, single mothers, rosties, piercing and tattoo users)
Suggestions?

>>40943811
Anything that needs active moderation is already ruined imo

>>40943816
This is the most moided exclusion criteria btw

SIEG HEIL TO A LESBIAN FUTURE SISTERS!!! HH

>>40943820
yeah the best places are usually ones that don't need that

>>40943827
You're not a lesbian

>>40942364
Troons would do good to embrace terfyism

Just a tiny bit, accept that people can be male socialized bit and that's something you have to unlearn

>>40943843
And you're a straight man larping as a female lesbian

>>40943867
Also just drop the idea that trunes and women should be identical in literally everything. We acknowledge this when we talk about 0 year hrt talking like men but everyone is so resistant

after years of trying to reject the genre i have sadly fallen victim to faggot shoegaze

>>40943966
is there a difference between faggot shoegaze and regular shoegaze? where do i find this so called faggot shoegaze?

>>40943867
>>40943910
generally i do agree, but i think most trans people are resistant because those talking points are used to paint us all as predators or whatever. but its true desu, if a trans woman is anyone who feels like being a trans woman, then naturally you will get trans women who are shitty people, you will get trans women who are incredibly male socialized. basically retvrn to pre tumblr trans shit and we'd probably be okay

>>40944032
tumblr is female socialized tho

>>40944040
tumblr is female socialized but in a weird and unfortunate way
i could talk about this stuff more but i dont want to get too off topic in /lesgen/

how does this gen manages to be far more transmisogynistic than chasergen

where do I find gym gf

>>40944061
unfortunate that 4chan trannies are too malebrained to appreicate tumblr

>>40944063
pussy piners hate themselves so they attack other troons

>>40944063
Isn't it because for chasers trans is a plus but for lesbians it's a negative

>>40944098
i actually have a tumblr account and used to use it a lot more but so much of its culture sucks. this place sucks too but unlike here tumblr shit actually had a big impact on trans culture
>>40944115
probably
>>40944103
maybe. i probably am a self hating tranny that also kinda hates other trannies. i should go to therapy and work on that probably

>>40944103
t4t is for lower caste troons

>>40944093
This is my dream

all these recent tripfags (swablu, seraph, etc) with the most milquetoast opinions are so boring lol

>>40944115
>for lesbians it's a negative
maybe lesbians should stop sucking then

we need a new discord that is transinclusive

we need a discord that allows trans women

>>40944185
they will call you a rapist nona.. you should have worded this better

>>40928439 (OP)
1) no and no
2) I don't have a girlfriend
3) no not really

>>40944172
sorry I go outside and don't care too much about super online problems like who is trans in a right way or something. I can go into my brainworms about t4t but that wasn't well received last time.

>>40944330
>can go into my brainworms about t4t but that wasn't well received last time.
i want to hear about this

Absolutely cooked myself to hell reading an adorable yuri manhwa today. My mood is finally out of the shitter but Im yeeeaaarnyyy.
https://dynasty-scans.com/series/that_time_i_was_blackmailed_by_the_classs_green_tea_bitch
Im only halfway through, so please dont hate me if it gets mega weird later on. I want this so bad. ;~;

>>40944172
Honestly I just dont see the point in sharing my harsh opinions and potentially ostracizing people or being ostracized myself. Plus most of them arent relevant on /lgbt/ anyways and I do *try* to stay at least somewhat on topic (even if I suck at it a lot of times) :/
Ive got some pretty shit takes that are pretty much just straight up deeply internalized transphobia, but whats the point of externalizing that stuff in a public space? I have a therapist to talk that shit through with.

>>40944330
no keep it to yourself

>>40944345
t4t makes her feel excluded as a cis woman but like most trannies would prefer a cis partner anyway. That's why it wasn't well-received

>>40944630
oh lol, pretty silly

>>40943980
>is there a difference between faggot shoegaze and regular shoegaze?
no, not at all

>>40944172
I like them a lot and am really happy they post here. Better than the edgelords and miserable crabs in a bucket. :) We could use more positive users in this gen.

>>40944807
>edgelords and miserable crabs in a bucket.
pot, kettle

>>40944630
no it's not really excluded, it's more like I'm the worse choice for a trans woman because t4t is safer and I'll never be able to truly understand

>>40944807
>Better than the edgelords and miserable crabs in a bucket. :)
mindless doormats you mean

>>40944817
why do I get upset when things aren't about me?

>>40944840
no I get upset when things are about me actually, if you can read. I do not think a trans woman should choose me.

Thoughts on new glasses and chin stubble?

>>40944817
Sorry for misrepresenting your views lol but you should know t4t isn't actually safer. There are lots of t4t abuse stories you could find to deworm yourself

>>40944896
woe is me

>>40944815
I don’t try to antagonize good users. I recognize I have a temper but I direct it at those who aren’t welcome here.

>>40944897
you look brazilian, are you

>>40944817
is this just a round about way of a cis woman saying she wont date trannies lol

>>40944897
LUCY FUMBLED
*clap clap clapclapclap*

>>40944993
she is dating a tranny

Como se ve brazilian

now lets hope her girlfriend leaves her for a tranny

>>40944935
I'm Brazilian and I don't find her to look particularly Brazilian at all. Just mixed race.

>>40945134
fica na sua vira lata ninguém te perguntou

Learning portuguese for the girls' trip to angola

>>40944929
this drawing is retarded, it's like making a drawing of a snoopy saying he hates pedophiles, like of course he would. you don't have to make an obvious point with snoopy

>>40945090
ohh thats cool lol. kinda cute desu i respect her a lot actually

>>40944993
I date them... I haven't dated cis women actually, I'm not sure if they are into former neet autistic freaks

>>40945374
every trans woman loves former neet autistic freaks cus it reminds them of themselves

>>40944817
T4T isnt necessarily safer. Sure there is more understanding, but you also double the dysphoria in the relationship as well, which can be pretty awful. Plus people can have starkly different views on transness - eg I view my transition as a struggle for survival whereas a close friend of mine views it as a beautiful transformation and we kind butt heads over it. (Which is where my internalized transphobia ends up rearings its ugly head).
I personally dont like to paint broad strokes when it comes to groups of people. If you start going "all trans women" or "all cis women" you run the risk of making judgments of people without really knowing anything about them. A trans woman who has severe dysphoria might have more in common with a cis woman who has bad body image issues vs a trans woman who doesnt deal heavy in dysphoria. Or perhaps sometimes those commonalities can cause problems.
So
Dont other yourself, yk? You dont need to walk a mile in someone's shoes to support them. :)
>>40944807
<3

>>40945390
yeah they have been more accepting of it, I meant are cis women into them, probably not that many of them...
>>40945413
<3
>>40944807
thanks I actually feared you don't like me lol, took me a while to start posting on trip

jennie was 100x better than these new trips

>>40945499
>I meant are cis women into them, probably not that many of them...
ohhh my bad.. yeah probably not. unfortunate for me cus im an autistic freak who barely goes out of the house because im agoraphobic and weird. although i should be going to university next year so hopefully i can meet some cool people there

>>40945536
you have to be kidding

>>40945548
I met a lot of cool people in university so it's possible! met my fiancée too! and most of my current irl friends! I'm still a freak though but they don't seem to think too badly about it. just try your best to meet people even though it will probably be difficult at first.

>>40945565
never been more serious

can ftms post here?

>>40945673
only if ur nice and post yuri

>>40945536
Well if you dont like us, maybe you can throw on your own trip and be the change you want to see in the world. Lead by example, yaknow? :3

>>40945725
Yes yes, angel, we know youre truly a follower submissive type who cant shape things for yourself. Dont worry, Im sure someone will spark up the thread and you'll be their biggest most ardent supporter, huh?

>>40945536
wasnt jenny that bpd weirdo who started dating man and talking about it on the thread after her gf broke up with her?

going to a "sapphic hangout" and noticing the way trannies treat other trannies vs the way they treat (adore) cis women is genuinely so blackpilling

>>40945812
reminds me of the black owned businesses discourse

>>40945798
no jennie is the anti poly meth addict

Dog treats

>>40945820
whats about it

>>40945841
well theres this black tiktok food reviewer called keith lee, and one day he goes to review this popular black owned fried chicken restaurant. in his review he claims that while the food was good, the black workers were complete assholes to him while also being overly nice to white costumers. this then spawned hundreds of black people talking about experiencing the same thing with other black owned businesseses and even just black service workers and how theyll be awful to other black people whole being very nice to white costumers. i think the idea is that black workers treated other black people like family or long time friend so they didnt care about being nice since they knew they wouldnt report them due to black solidarity. ig it sounded similar to what ur saying

I pass out for all the moments of chitter chatter where everyone is having fun together!
and now it's quiet again, story of my life tbqh

how is your relationship with your family? I only started to get back in touch with mine in recent years
I don't really get the arguments about 0 day hypothetical women, but I would still ban myself twice for being too queer tbqh
I found old 'find a match' files I made for threads on /soc/ around 2010-2012 or so, they're pretty embarrassing, I called myself 'queer as a platypus', but I was also going through a bi phase, coming off an ace phase of a few years, after a long pan phase ... also used dress up games of the time for my ideal match pictures and my own picture...
nahhhhh, I'd ban be thrice tbpqh

>>40946149
>nahhhhh, I'd ban be thrice tbpqh
ban me thrice, make that four times... this is what I get for not drinking caffeine when I wake up...

>>40946149
>how is your relationship with your family?
its okay, but im not out to them yet. im really afraid that they wont accept me. being closeted sucks but i still live with them before i go to university (im not a kid i just didnt graduate high school so im getting my diploma this year in my early 20s) so i dont want to risk making things weird/bad for myself with them :/

>>40946682
I never finished highschool either, I kinda slept thru most of it, a common theme in my life tbqh
you have to be out sometime though, they'll eventually figure out you're a girl kisser, but that doesn't mean you have to tell them I guess
what are you going to study? and like I guess you are starting soon, right?

>>40946775
>I never finished highschool either, I kinda slept thru most of it, a common theme in my life tbqh
yeah.. do you think you will go back and get your diploma eventually? its not super necessary desu, i just lied on my resume and said i had it when i didnt. but if you want to do higher education its pretty much needed so i went back to get it
>you have to be out sometime though
i know, but its scary, i think i will come out to them eventually, when i get a girlfriend maybe.
>what are you going to study?
english lit or film, the two things in life i am actually passionate about :)
>and like I guess you are starting soon, right?
if i get my diploma this year, i will be starting college next year. im pretty confident i'll be able to get my diploma so all should be well :')

>>40946885
oh no way I am ever going back to get a diploma... but I spend a lot of my free time re-educating myself I guess?
I will just eventually try to get a phd or just settle with the msc in biomed neuroscience and ma in philosophy, I just begged and cried, did some tests, failed 4 times, passed the last time and they've never been able to get rid of me since tbqh
>i think i will come out to them eventually, when i get a girlfriend maybe.
oh yeh, take your time mhm
>english lit or film
aw that's wonderful anon, I was trying to learn about film studies a few months ago, it was pretty interesting
I believe in you, you will definitely do well if you never give up

>>40947010
thank you :) definitely leaning more towards film studies because ive always loved film as an art form.
>I just begged and cried, did some tests, failed 4 times, passed the last time and they've never been able to get rid of me since tbqh
lol thats awesome, good job

>>40928439 (OP)
Ah Im dumb, QotT
>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?
A little bit of both in a very minor way. I dont like to watch others have sex or be watched. But I do like to compromise my partner in public and have had sex in public parks before or very saucy/touchy makeout sessions where nobody but the security cameras could see. Like, there's something to the thrill of "someone COULD see if they looked", but I definitely wouldnt want someone actually in the room with me and a partner during intimate moments.
>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?
I leave little inspirational notes around the home for my SO. Its a cute thing I like to do to boost moods. I havent done it as much since things have been circling the drain, but I could see myself doing it again with a new partner or if I somehow rekindled my current relationship!
>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!
Nope. :<

>>40947124
I love it, please make some cute movies or something
>>40947637
the notes thing is a cute charm point, have to advertise it when you're ready to date again

>>40944032
if trunes don't want to be painted as predators they should stop acting like predatory men

>>40944063
trans"misogyny" isn't misogyny serano is a retard. its misandry directed at trunes who act like xy socialized retards

>>40944817
t4t isn't safer people who think this is just victims of groomer propaganda you're more likely to be exposed to weird predatory shit with t4t, its like the kind of weird predatory shit gay men get into and desu i feel like its deserving of sympathy if ur stuck in that kinda situation

you are the better option for trunes

>>40948257
trans women dont actually act predatory very often (although it does happen sometimes), they're mostly just autistic and ugly so people treat them like predators because society is pretty fucked up

vtuber shit is such an ick

>>40948257
>transmisogyny isn't real because [transmisogynistic tirade]

>>40948295
my experience interacting with ugly and autistic women pales in comparisson to the weird rapey moided behavior from trunes. I've been targeted by women yes and its been emotionally devastating but its obviously not the same as the vile shit trunes can spout

>>40948316
i didn't say it wasn't real i said it wasn't misogyny and that its deserved

oh my fucking god an EXTREMELY cute east asian grill just liked me on a dating app
please god how do i not fumble this
>>40948301
big agree

>>40948332
ok cool glad to know people I disagree with always deserve to be curb stomped

>>40928439 (OP)
i think i have a crush for f4mi

estrogen made me the worst kind of creature: a simp

>>40948332
ive never met a trans woman who is weird like that i genuinely think a lot of you guys are just straight up lying either to everyone or yourselves. or you're just biased against trans women and read general social awkwardness as some sort of sexual harassment. my gf is trans so ove spent a lot of time around trans people and literally the worst thing i could say about some of them is that theyre socially awkwardd

>>40948380
this is the pussy begging general you'll feel right at home

>>40948382
>a lot of you guys are just straight up lying
Why would a transphobe lie about trannies being sexual predators? that makes no sense. they dont do that.

>>40948361
>concerns about anti-social male socialized behavior from trunes
>trune says i deserve to be curb stomped

the eternal moid, proving me correct every time

>>40948382
i think your gf may just be selecting for normal people but if you spend enough time here you'll see it on this thread but i've received explicit and direct SH and anti-social behavior from trunes

i like trunes. very creative slur. my fave is train emoji followed by knee emoji

>>40948428
>but if you spend enough time here you'll see it on this thread but i've received explicit and direct SH and anti-social behavior from trunes
that sucks and im sorry but also this place is like eating a hot dog off the ground. this place isnt even real to me, im talking about people in the real world. its so weird to hear lesbians parrot the same exact shit that was said about us just a few decades ago, i dont know how old you are but im a bit older and i remember even when i came out in 2010 girls and women were weird af about me, looking at me differently, seeing me as a threat, when i was just existing lmao. it just kind of feels like different sides of the same coin

thanks lago

>>40948428
now post ass

>>40948346
it's joever i just have to fumble i guess
why did god curse me to be an autist

>>40948402
it kinda hit me like a truck and it is weird because i am strictly t4t and i started watching f4mi thinking she was a tranny merely because of her autist coded brain (and considering her absolute goals) but i just found out she is cis after stalking her twitter and i think i shouldnt be that strict with my dating pool now...... i long for women.......

>>40948479
I will admit most of the weirdos probably hang out online but there are more than enough reduxx articles

that plus the weird mainstream insistence on participation in female bodied sports, there's no real reason trunes should be in these but they have a weird entitlement to the spaces

theres also very real data where trunism is strongly correlated with other sadistic paraphilias, just like they were raised as men and that isn't going to go away

i think its something individual trunes can move past sure and I think part of the problem is the culture around transition (you are loudly shouted down if you complain that people remain antisocial freaks through their transition) but its a problem and we have to be really harsh about it.

>>40948500
>misogyny in response to dissagreement
the eternal moid, proving me correct every time

>>40948548
post ass already I just bought a new Hitachi

wow you guys really put up with garbage like this freak every day? i remember why i stopped coming here

>>40928607
I didn't even know there were women on 4chan. I thought it was all men and men pretending to be women

>>40929353
just stop coping and date men

>>40948561
you can thank lago for bringing these weirdos here

>>40948561
acorn ur the reason why freaks like her exist

>>40948594
le sigh
>>40948621
no i'm One of the Good Ones

okay but seriously this woman is so cute how the fuck do i reply without coming across as a freak

>>40948653
just bee urself

>>40948653
i wish i could help acorn, but i am too autistic :< sorry. but uhm, maybe be yourself? ^_^

>>40948653
say you want to impregnate her, always works

>>40948674
i said without coming across as a freak
>>40948680
see above
cute ^_^ though
>>40948695
i have found this not to be the case after extensive testing

>>40948695
i think this is a bad idea
>>40948711
i hope someone can help you. i am really too weird to do it. some girls like weird people tho, as long as you are not weird in a way that makes people uncomfortable

>>40948711
maybe that's the problem? if you're going to mess it up you will mess it up eventually
ppl that want you will make up excuses until they don't want you anymore, and ppl that like you will skirt around issues until it's painfully obvious

>>40948695
this would work on me but I'm not asian so you maybe shouldn't listen to me

>>40948746
hi would you like to be impregnated

>>40948749
stop cheating on your future asian wife

>>40948764
my guess is i reply and she replies maybe 1-2 times then ghosts me

>>40948769
dont set yourself up for failure, i believe in you. have you spoken to her yet?

>>40948788
i do not believe in me ^^
no i haven't messaged her yet. i guess i should just bite the bullet and get it over with. she's out of my league anyway

>>40948793
dont talk about yourself like that..
whats your opening line going to be?

>>40948816
she already opened with a message about naps and has stuff on her profile about cats so im probably just going to say something about sleeping with cats being so cozy

what's good fast food to eat with vegetables

>>40948833
fries. carb load

>>40948829
yeah good idea, probably.. idk good luck

>>40948833
not sure... fries? veggie borgor? I like to make vegan shawarma sometimes I guess

>>40948846
-_-

>>40948749
hi yes we can be friends

>>40948897
that is not the question i asked but cool post contact and address so i can come impregnate u thank u

>>40948897
hi would you like to trib with my srsussy

>>40948491
>>40948594
Tf are you on about? I don’t read or post as much in the thread anymore unless I wanna blogpost. And I don’t feel like reading the paragraphs above.

>>40949323
they're just 4chaning again, I wouldn't worry about it
how is friday going?

Just finished the yuri I linked earlier. Despite hitting a few hangups today, I remain mushy and generally happy because thinking about cute sappy romance makes me a very happy lady. I should read this kind of stuff more often.
>>40947697
Is it? To me that kind of romanticism is just baseline. ^-^'
>>40948332
Lol, weird take

>>40949590
yes, and straight ppl are hopeless, it's true

>>40948588

men stink. but yes i get the sentiment.

>>40948653

you can never be too much of a mess you are not a freak your brain is just misfiring.

>>40948695

can you impregnate me. i don't think it's possible but we can try.

>>40948547

this is nothing lol. for three days i passionately thought f4mi was not just trans (despite seeing her photos on twitter from back when she was 13 and stalking her steam and xbox account for days) but actually someone i used to follow in high school. i was trying to figure out how that happened. then i ended up messaging a friend about it asking for help, he asked me if i took my aripiprazole and i realized it was one of my episodes. i hope she never gets to know about this. i really need to take my mental health more seriously.

>>40949667

being bi is hell for me. i spend months after women and all of a sudden it stops and i can't stop thinking about cock. rinse and repeat. i think hsts passoids have it easier.

>>40949735
>i can't stop thinking about cock
lol

cute asian girl replied.... ahh anxiety

Who tf posted that cis asian girl getting fucked by 4 white trannies I know you're using this thread

>>40949735
I guess, I mean men always seemed more sexual, forward, and unable to read the info on a dating profile before replying...
but being bi sounds like it would be the easiest, right? like all those bi girls scouting you for threesomes, and you wouldn't turn them down I guess...?

I'm finally going to college but i don't want to meet a gf here because they're all like 5'3" and 18 and I'm recently 26 and that's actually just too big a difference for me not to feel weird
and hitting on people about to graduate feels like setting myself up for the heartbreak of a lover leaving my city (also they're hard to find)

>>40949989
okay, but you might just be getting worried about hypothetical relationships and then not meet anyone you connect with, so...
on the other hand you could also try to date someone in grad school, they'll be a bit older, some older than you or re-educating from a previous career
the oldest student in one of my classes was a psychiatrist in his 60s pursuing another degree

she's autistically infodumping about cats
i want to marry her

>>40949861
i dont understand you. you want a cis gf who is up for piv and is into impregnation but whenever one appears you mock them

>>40950148
huh? what are you talking about? i don't think i mocked anyone..... did i? i'm sorry if i did
if there's really a cis woman who is willing to date me and wants kids unironically i am down i'm not even picky at this point

>>40949381
Just got off work and it was a chill day, got to get to know a coworker more. :D I’m excited for tomorrow. Gonna do some pottery with my baby sister.

How was your Friday?? Any plans for the weekend?
>>40945499
Noooo, I have like resting bitch face but online. I think you’re really nice! I avoid talking to other trips because I think they won’t like ME because I’m kinda bitchy. kek I feel like me replying to them will annoy them? Sorry I’ve come across as not welcoming or not kind.

Geez, I should work on my online personality. I get people calling me sweet and bubbly irl, but I’m such a cunt online, tho I try to direct it at shitty people. ;___;

:3 acorn

>>40950239
>but I’m such a cunt online, tho I try to direct it at shitty people
not trying to attack you, but this is kind of a toxic way of thinking
>>40950254
henlo

Ahh, this is gorgeous and it’s not even finished. I’d buy as a print and frame it.

>>40950239
A lot of that probably has to do with things like ton of voice and body language irl. Things can be taken completely differently if said with a smile and a cheery voice. Online you really gotta think about your words could be received, and even then it can be pretty tough because everyone reads with their own bias.

>>40950324
Oh yeah, some of it is bad faith interpretations since the site in general is full of toxicity. And I don’t like toxic positivity, talking like I’m close to people i don’t know, because it feels fake and manipulative. It’s like walking on eggshells and people get upset when you don’t live up to parasocial expectations.

Touching grass has helped so much. But I’m still afraid of getting close to people, so I come back here to socialize even though too many users suck.

>>40950394
I honestly think a lot of it is just that communicating via pure text can be hard as fuck even with extremely precise language. People here can be assholes, but as long as you know what youre about, its easy to just go "lol thats fucked up" and move on, ideally.
Definitely had to take breaks myself every now and then. ~.~ Sometimes the brainworms can just be too much.
Why are you scared of getting close to people? :<
Pic not rel

>>40949590
How is my take weird

>>40950123
see, can't mess it up unless you try
>>40950239
no plans except figuring out finances, and then signing up for art or singing workshops, and then booking hotels for a museum trip around some european cities
>>40950239
>>40950324
>I think they won’t like ME because I’m kinda bitchy
nooooo, only I can be a thorny rose!!! that's my whole thing!
besides thinking I don't exist, being told ppl don't approach me for years cos I'm intimidating really triggers me
it's either too intimidating or they don't want to corrupt me, makes me want to strangle myself tbqh

>>40928439 (OP)
Being ugly, stupid, mentally ill and old is a slow death

>>40950268
Wow! its acorn. Hello again

>>40951602
oh hi vampire
long time no see
glad to see you're still around :) i hope you're doing well

I keep having sex dreams about the girlfriend one of my best friends and I feel super guilty about it

>>40951662
i've never had a sex dream before in my life. i envy you

>>40951635
Oh its been a ride, ty and u2 though. Gl with your quest for bio kids btw

>>40951697
i am definitely going to die alone but i appreciate the well wishes

>>40950239
haha it's ok I like seeing your posts, it's good there's other cis women too. I'm just not very good at communicating in general lol
>>40949175
sure sounds like friend activities

ow nou chuckie sneed is back
who do we owe the return of our beloved corrupt moderator to? new cash flow from the country boy?

>>40951757
There there

>>40951955
Vampire Knight??!?!?

>>40950299
>>40950394
oh my.. art so good i need to get some fresh air
>,,,,<

>>40952369
Hi nonny c: . Im going back anon now i just wanted to say hi to acorn

new

>>40953043