Thread 40954737

do cis men actually believe in this type of stuff or is it all a larp

>>40954737 (OP)
>She'll fuck a confident 5'6" before a 6'3"
Delusion

>>40954737 (OP)
do these guys intentionally make it look like the chad is asking out the beta guy for clicks

>>40954737 (OP)
>My place 9pm
>Read 9:01 pm
Ok

interesting that the dating grifters for men have been posting the same kind of advice since like 2010, I wonder if it ever worked?

>>40954737 (OP)
Reading that has made me happier than ever to be autosexual.

Men are completely rejected by society. This created a power vacuum that is being filled by unsavory masculinity grifters.
Water is wet. Speak out against misandry or this will only get worse.

>>40954750
I dunno. I'm 5'6 and have fucked a lot of women. im a chadlet lol.

>>40954760
everyone in the replies kept asking if OP knew it looked like yaoi
>>40954750
it's generally true that confidence is seen as more attractive than neediness
>>40954775
she's already in the uber!!!!!!!!
>>40954796
i think they deliberately prey on insecure men (and sometimes women). nobody who is well-adjusted thinks this stuff works. some of the points are genuinely useful (be confident, socially aware, have a range of interests) but they're cloaked in such awful language that you end up being unable to see the forest for the trees.
>>40954815
yeah it's pretty grim. the guy only has around 250 followers so i guess he's a manosphere embryo.
>>40954820
i think "completely rejected by society" is a bit far, but i certainly agree with "typical definitions of masculinity and femininity are in upheaval and people can't deal with it".

>>40954737 (OP)
Well, this is truer than the height/genetics blackpill stuff. Vibes are indeed more important than looks. The way this thread is written though, a guy taking the advice will probably come off as creepy lol.

>>40954831
>>40954853
I'm not fatalistically denying the possibility. But beauty lends contour to personality, and height is a whole point on the /10 scale. The number of tall, shy men with girlfriends I've seen far outnumbers their short counterparts.

>>40954737 (OP)
This is literally true tho and by your mid 20’s as a guy you’ve been both the “alpha” and the “beta” a few times and you get disillusioned with the whole process of dating and sex

>>40954737 (OP)
I thought they were supposed to be texting each other in that pic

>>40954737 (OP)
They’re gay for eachother.

They belive it. Most of it is true. Nice guy's stay losing.

>>40954737 (OP)
I don't want the type of women this would work on

>>40954796
>interesting that the dating grifters for men have been posting the same kind of advice since like 2010, I wonder if it ever worked?
Some aspects are timeless. Some aspects are extremely dated and short lived.

Peacocking like this nigga probably won't play well for you in 2025. But being confident, outgoing, and not desperate will always be more attractive than not.

>>40954737 (OP)
ohh that's what that pic means. I thought it was the incel awkwardly texting the chad to get assfucked by him

>>40956098
I don't even understand what's wrong with what the dude said other than framing it as a problem with modernity.

Why do these manosphere types have to say
>be confident
in the faggiest way possible?

>>40954737 (OP)
the guy who asks me how my day was and calls me beautiful could probably convince me to come over and maybe have sex after a few messages
the guy who starts with "9 pm" isn't getting a reply

>>40954737 (OP)
so thats what picrel meant? i thought it was depicting 2 gay men texting each other

>>40957130
Right lol it sounds confident paired with the image, but "my place, 9pm" sounds like a hookup invite

>>40957193
peak if it isnt ai

>>40954737 (OP)
the first pic looks like some yaoi fanfic desu.
the rest looks like cuck fiction.

>>40957217
noooo

>>40957217
>small top big bottom
the thinking man's dynamic

>>40957461
he's big where it matters

>>40957193
>>40957217
based as fuck

How do we turn misogynistic chuds gay?

>>40954737 (OP)
I don't think it's really that common for men to buy into this stuff. Mostly it's young guys that don't have much of experience. A bit of confidence is a good thing I don't think guys should be afraid to go for what they want. "my place. 9 pm" is laying it on way to thick.

>>40958201
turn?

>>40958276
well, get them to live openly and actually date the same sex

>>40958201
U give them what they want, how they want it, when they want it for long enough time to pay them for the suffering, hatred and disrespect you've been causing them all this time. Oh is doing the right thing not an option for you? too bad not happening then.

>>40954737 (OP)

I'm a cis guy, and no, i don't believe in that shit

Although to be honest, sometimes, i do wonder if they're not into something, because holy shit, women are quite the créatures

So you guys often circle jerk about the male experience without having a single clue about it? For that, you're getting a mansplainin' (though this doesn't actually qualify as I am actually qualified to offer this perspective and you're being cringe enough you deserve it)

So here's a non incel (cause I respect women and can actually get laid), non white knight (I also respect myself enough not to ignore twattery) perspective.

The picture is retarded, while there's some value in confidence, just demanding shit is retarded. The premise that "if you don't treat her like a piece of meat, you're a loser" is retarded. Yes, anyone with half a brain can tell it's a grift. Yes there are unfortunates who don't know any better and are compelled to believe their value is only in getting laid though meat headed tactics such as this. Though to be fair, shit like this circle jerk thread and free use of the word incel is as responsible for that as much as poor socialization and these parasite grifters. But sometimes reminders like this about confidence is beneficial. Cause as much as you want sensitive respectful guys, you get bored with gormless sorts even quicker.

There's some women this shit might work on too, but that's on you. Though I generally feel bad for dudes that think this shit is the be all and end all before they even figure out how to fucking hold a conversation with a woman.

But if you're so selfish you think it's all on the guy to illicit attraction and make the moves, you deserve dumb asses that objectify you, just as much as that selfishness objectifies them.

Honestly a lot of you could stand to practice what you preach. It's hard out there for everyone at times. No one is perfect, which includes you.

So ship it into sexting between the two dudes in the pic so we can throw this on the pile of irrelevant shit with the rest of the cringe shit.

Also I'm not sorry I spoiled your fun.