>>40955919 (OP)
as someone with experience, the part you're struggling with is NOT the hard part. literally all you need to do is be kind and friendly to practically any trans woman and she will fall in love with you. especially kinky ones, ones that are chronically online, or lack friends and dating options that don't suck. so all of them pretty much. give yourself a week and some basic strategy like knowing where to look, and you will find them.
the HARD part is finding one who is mentally stable and can survive without talking to you for five minutes once she latches on. BPD is very common especially in single trans women (google "survivorship bias," the BPD ones get dumped fast even by the most patient people.)
if you just wanna cuddle, don't mind breaking hearts, and have a car + maybe 200 bucks for gas, you can get what you want, honestly no matter how ugly you are.
>>40959196
MUCH harder, good luck girl. unless you dont mind splitting attention with 10+ other losers in some kind of ""polycule"", or dont mind diapers i guess lol, you're fucked.