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If the reason you can't can be resolved, then it makes the question moot.
But I'm general, it would obviously be to either find a work around or to find someone who can fulfill that role.
Judging by the mind games nature of your question it seems like you're trying to establish some "gotcha" to prove men unto PIV only value you for your pussy. But that's being disingenuous, obviously people have more to offer than their genitals, and that's just as important as having the genitals in the first place. So I'm essence you're trying to catch 22 them as not caring about you when that's not really the question you're asking and it also requires that they have to sacrifice a particularly profound method of physical intimacy to be with you.
What makes it even more egregious, is that you're using that as an example to bootstrap that all men are only interested in ftm because they have a pussy without any reference to them having more complex nature, to justify your disdain for then ignorant of the fact you're objectifying them to justify claiming they objectify you and every other ftm.
I've noticed this is a narrative in all of your interactions no less. But the truth is, you're just trying to justify why you're alone without a single shred of self awareness that you're pushing people away.
But if you're happy being miserable that's up to you, but you've no right to push that on everyone else. From your fellow ftm all the way to chasers.