Thread 40960468

i get this seems like a tmi post. but as a pooner, why does masturbating fucking suck now. It’s not cause of vaginal atrophy since i’m pretty anti any sort of penetration i always did it using the clit and yknow testosterone makes me hornier and masturbate more. But orgasm feels like shit and i miss my old orgasms so much. Is it like in reverse for trans girls so orgasm is much better, have any other pooners figured out ways to make orgasm not bland and lame, or am i just the only one with this issue on hrt and god hates me.

>>40960468 (OP)
God hates you I cum so hard so fast so many times I love being a man. Context I only had one female orgasm ever before going on T so I do know how intense and full body tingly that can be but it was also too much effort to get there

>>40960478
understandable man, i definitely prefer masturbating with a t-dick over a clit and it is way easier to reach orgasm but as someone who before was a chronic everyday masterbater (still am) i miss how it felt so much.

>>40960489
Are you a bottom? Gooning is more important than feeling comfortable in your body, you should detrans.

>>40960489
You need to edge then orgasm denial yourself for an extended session to get a big dizzy orgasm then. Still not the same can't change that you're male, but I'll knock one out a couple times in the day just to focus on things, but a nut after getting super immersed in a porn binge and getting worked up over and over is like a food coma after a big meal

>>40960591
i’ve heard of the edging technique but as someone who’s tried it multiple times it feels the exact same if not more bland since i keep building myself up to the point it feels neutral but when it does it work it feels better then most times i’ve cummed nowadays

>>40960468 (OP)
yeah, as a trans girl hrt did the opposite, went from horny mechanical popping a champagne bottle to pleasure hell with moaning, toe curling, sheet clenching until i got srs which kind of ruined them again but whatever

no its not really the opposite for troons. jacking off just feels like it did when i was a shota. i dont do any reddit transbian neck groping or whatever i just stroke it with the occasional boob grab though.

>>40960654
I'm glad that across the board everyone who has experienced both describes it the same way

>>40960468 (OP)
the feeling definitely nicer but it's not the crazy like people always say. I definitely think it can be a person to person thing bc I'm sure my bottom dysphoria has definitely made the whole ordeal more sad.
>mtf

>>40960468 (OP)
as a cis man I get shitty orgasms if I rush or mistime it, the mistime is a bit more uncommon for me, it seems to match the description of premature ejaculation (you reach it but it doesnt feel good)

>>40960468 (OP)
yes, my orgasms have me screaming.

>>40960960
I've fucked up an orgasm by trying not to cum because I wanted to save my nut for another video but cumming anyway and it technically happened and my dick was obviously twitching but it didn't have that wrenching feeling like I actually seized up and came so it was like it didn't even happen and I had to wait a while and then start over failed orgasms are a sin

>>40960990
i have that but my t-dick. sounds like male orgasms are just not great and i have to deal with it

>>40960960
as an ftm i offen fuck up the orgasm "potential" by mistiming it like this, or not going hard enough at the right moment. refractory period can suck but orgasm can be way more intense and satisfying.
>>40960591
edging definitely helps, quickies are not too enjoyable sadly

They technocally feel the same, but the pulsrs last a bit lobger and are easier to make happen randomly even if im not masturbating. I can get a few by just rubbing my nipples, stomach, or even just imagning stuff. Also dry or near dry orgasms are practical because theres no cum to clean up.

>>40961512
Pulsrs = pulses

>>40960468 (OP)
You're not a real man because a real man wouldn't care about posting tmi on 4chan

>>40960468 (OP)
they're definitely different for me and i don't miss my old ones
>>40960654
pretty much like this yeah but i haven't had srs yet
did it really ruin orgasms for you?
>>40961569
silence tourist

how do hrt mtfs here enjoy it i lost 90% of the urge and the final moment just feels so much worse. am i doing something wrong
t. 1 year on E

>>40961569
didn’t know that was the requirement for being a man thanks

>>40960468 (OP)
you probably have to change your mindset. male sexuality isn't really about orgasmmaxxing the way female sexuality is.

my male orgasms were fucked up bc dysphoria but from what i've heard from men, it's really just about you having an urge and satisfying it and feeling some sort of relief after you do. literally like pooping.

>>40960468 (OP)
>why does masturbating fucking suck now.
it's because you're a man now. male sexuality is worthless and it completely sucks
enjoy the other benefits of being a man, sex isn't one of them

>>40960478
>I cum so hard so fast so many times I love being a man.
that's not male sexuality that's your female parts and sexuality working overtime on T

>>40960489
>but as someone who before was a chronic everyday masterbater (still am) i miss how it felt so much.
a female coomer throwing away their superior sexuality to be a pooner is like an athlete lopping off their arms for insurance money
but dysphoria required you to sacrifice it, it sucks.

>>40961060
>sounds like male orgasms are just not great
sex as a man is not that great.

>>40962027
>male sexuality isn't really about orgasmmaxxing the way female sexuality is.
male sexuality is literally about their single orgasm and then it goes away
it's like a drug addiction with constant withdrawals
even cis men hate their sexuality

i can sympathize and commiserate op. sorry.
>t. mtf

>>40960654
>>40960717
i wish i had gotten this :( i have a terrible memory so it is totally possible that i just forgot what orgasms were pre-hrt but they feel pretty much the same to me and always have, even after five years. i hear people describe full-body orgasms and being able to do it multiple times but i do it once and it sucks and i feel awful and then i'm TOO sensitive and i don't even want to touch it anymore
and aside from that specific case my whole body is super unsensitive even my nipples just hurt when touched

>>40961766
upside to E orgasms is you can have multiple in a row, but its quantity over quality

>>40960468 (OP)
I don't know what "male" or "female" orgasms are supposed to be, it all feels the same to me pre or post-t

>>40963312
not me. i must be malebrained still but after one orgasm i'm not in the mood anymore so its pointless.

>>40963780
me too nona you're not alone

>>40960654
suifuel but i'm jealous as hell

>>40963312
female orgasms are quality and quantity

male orgasms make me want to shoot myself

>>40963725
as an FTM what does it feel like for you, how many years on T?

this community is a prison

>>40962047
My sexuality is absolutely male as a result of taking T, only my genitals are responsible for the low refractory rate. Not only can I simply compare it to what it was before T, but my drive and pleasure works exactly the same as my husband's. We're just healthy sex perverts with great libido, stamina, and motivation

I'm sorry you feel like your sexual pleasure is limited by your biology but the truth is your dissatisfaction is psychological, other men with different backgrounds can attest. Hope things work out for you

>>40963725
It's a meme, don't worry about it

no joke mine actually did. mtf here, i started een monotherapy at 16 and for me it changed starting at the 2nd month. orgasms and general "feelings of affection" per se changed dramatically and are way more intense and embodying than before. its incomparable. (i'm 16 months in now and wow) oh also i didnt yet start prog + i dont have homoerotic behavior (yet maybe prog'll hange that? idk)

>>40966493
>only my genitals are responsible for the low refractory rate.
>I'm sorry you feel like your sexual pleasure is limited by your biology but the truth is your dissatisfaction is psychological,
this is a contradiction. you're saying both that you have some ability that most men don't due to your biology and that biology isn't a factor

>other men with different backgrounds can attest.
most men either just accept their limitations and just don't feel the resentment and envy towards female sexuality as intensely as i do

>>40967008
How easily and intensely I cum is attributed to testosterone which you also benefit from. That I can get hard again and continue quickly is a physiological advantage that I concede, but my husband only lags behind me 2 to 3 minutes and he has a cis penis. Sex and orgasms as a male are the absolute best and your previous described a belief that we as men are not gifted with great sexual pleasure. If you're not enjoying your orgams it's not because you are male as I'm explaining that's not a limitation

>>40967067
*previous post described

I'm a closeted trans girl and I've never had an orgasm in my life. I can ejaculate but it doesn't bring pleasure. It's not medication (only ever taken anti-biotics for ear infections), my genitals are circumcised but appear otherwise normal (but trannies are the ones mutilating children -_-). There's almost no information at all which describes my situation. Could HRT change this? Could it be that I'm intersex? Does literally anyone have any idea what's going on? If the circumcision did it anorgasmia should be much more common.

>>40961585
(srs haver) yeah it did. i dont really know why, probably just the amount of removed nerves was too much for me

>>40960468 (OP)
yes
i used to be a little underwhelmed but i switched to anal after a few years and now its just incredible
basically my wildest fantasies come true

>>40961766
you're only 1 year in it gets better over time

my orgasms didn't really change, the feeling of arousal is totally different though. The problem is just that if I actually try to touch my genitals in any way I can't stay turned on. I can force out normal male orgasms but I can't do full body ones.
like it feels like I should be able to have orgasms that feel like the full body arousal feeling, but where it builds up to a peak right? Has anyone else had this problem and fixed it with srs or anything else?

>>40967067
>How easily and intensely I cum is attributed to testosterone which you also benefit from.
i cum and then i lose all interest in sex and my body gets sore. my dick is physically numb after i cum

it also does not feel particularly great

>That I can get hard again and continue quickly is a physiological advantage that I concede,
it's a huge advantage. that's like saying having two lungs is an advantage over having one

>my husband only lags behind me 2 to 3 minutes and he has a cis penis.
this is exceptionally rare

>Sex and orgasms as a male are the absolute best
describe it to me?

>>40961964
If you ever want to fool a guy into sleeping with you, you should figure these things out

>>40967168
i'm five years in and it sucks what am i doing wrong i'm on progesterone and everything my levels are more than good