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Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:10:59 AM No.40961015 >>40961119 >>40961204 >>40962595 >>40962599 >>40962674 >>40962787 >>40962967 >>40963018 >>40963106 >>40963114 >>40963987 >>40964071 >>40964109 >>40964116 >>40964789 >>40964820 >>40965657
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>ftm showers me with excessive amounts of sexual attention
>then randomly ghosts me
why?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:19:14 AM No.40961051
wdyd when im asleep?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:31:05 AM No.40961119 >>40961127 >>40961132
>>40961015 (OP)
happens... the one i liked found a man :)
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:32:29 AM No.40961127
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>>40961119
sorry anon :(
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:33:51 AM No.40961132
>>40961119
nuh uh. stop.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:48:17 AM No.40961204
>>40961015 (OP)
Probably the most male brained thing they could do.
dog !/LC1a95fQk 9/7/2025, 1:44:59 PM No.40962595
>>40961015 (OP)
He's probably mentally unwell.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 1:45:53 PM No.40962599
>>40961015 (OP)
He's probably just asleep bro don't worry
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:04:20 PM No.40962674 >>40962721
>>40961015 (OP)
Tell me more about this pooner of yours and I'll tell you what's wrong with him
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:17:42 PM No.40962721 >>40962740
>>40962674
What do you want to know about him?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:21:58 PM No.40962740 >>40962746
>>40962721
Anything. How often do you talk, is this the first time ghosting you, do you talk about anything non sexual?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:22:55 PM No.40962746 >>40962808 >>40962823 >>40962970
>>40962740
often. yes. yes.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:29:56 PM No.40962787
>>40961015 (OP)
Post nut clarity
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:33:06 PM No.40962808 >>40962819 >>40962823
>>40962746
How long have you been talking?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:35:12 PM No.40962819
>>40962808
like 5 months
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:35:37 PM No.40962823 >>40962828
>>40962746
>>40962808
Also how long since he ghosted you?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:36:40 PM No.40962828 >>40962837 >>40963990
>>40962823
like a month
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:37:56 PM No.40962837 >>40962841
>>40962828
Are you usually the one starting conversations?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:38:16 PM No.40962841 >>40962854 >>40962980
>>40962837
not at first. he was initiating all the time.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:40:26 PM No.40962854 >>40962875
>>40962841
He's probably just the kind of mentally ill that can't maintain relationships
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:43:04 PM No.40962875 >>40962885
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>>40962854
depressing.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:44:30 PM No.40962885 >>40962905
>>40962875
He might come back if you're patient
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:46:27 PM No.40962905 >>40962962
>>40962885
thank you anon. i'll try not to get my hopes up though. it was nice of you to talk to me while i'm feeling down about this
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:54:15 PM No.40962962 >>40963016
>>40962905
Honestly I do the same as him I feel somewhat responsible
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:54:50 PM No.40962967
>>40961015 (OP)
she's acting like a man, good for her
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:55:18 PM No.40962970 >>40963016
>>40962746
Hey I'm in the same boat as you anon. I'm ftm and my cis bf just disappeared... Six months isn't bad, I was locked in for 15 months
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 2:56:56 PM No.40962980 >>40963016
>>40962841
Bpd, consider it bullet dodged
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:00:17 PM No.40963016 >>40963034 >>40963091
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>>40962962
why do you do it anon? not judging. it'd be nice to get some insight
>>40962970
i'm really sorry to hear that :( fuck. that's really brutal
>>40962980
you might be right
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:00:29 PM No.40963018
>>40961015 (OP)

Most FtMs are like that tho

They still are women, at the end of the day
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:03:04 PM No.40963034 >>40963043
>>40963016
I have a bad sense of time I can go weeks without talking to anyone before I realize, but it starts from running out of things to talk about (or post nut clarity)
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:03:52 PM No.40963043 >>40963060
>>40963034
>post nut clarity
redpill me on this. i think it played a role. which is weird because he seemed enthused over a long enough period of time. wasn't a one-and-done thing
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:05:34 PM No.40963060 >>40963098
>>40963043
I'm bisexual and go through phases, the clarity can be the start of a shift in preferences
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:08:46 PM No.40963091 >>40963098 >>40963446
>>40963016
>why do you do it anon?
NTA, just answering. I do it because the other person brought up wanting something more serious or intimate, but I don't know if I want that. It makes me feel trapped.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:09:52 PM No.40963098
>>40963060
he had talked about his sex preferences being mutable, actually. it seems foreign to me. i don't know much about it. do you lose affection for people during those phase shifts?
>>40963091
that makes sense. it feels cruel to be on the other end of it though
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:10:57 PM No.40963106
>>40961015 (OP)
just like a cis man!!
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:11:58 PM No.40963114
>>40961015 (OP)
cause you are creepy and they were literally just keeping you around to have fun wit you and then show your reaction to their friends
you are nothing more than a tpoy for people to play with then discarded
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:40:05 PM No.40963319 >>40963327 >>40963368
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even the pooners ITT abandoned me...
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:41:02 PM No.40963327
>>40963319
We all have commitment issues
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:46:10 PM No.40963368 >>40963386
>>40963319
Poonahs aren't always used to hunting for their food...
usually, someone else is initiating, like when they were proper girls and not poonahs
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:48:22 PM No.40963386 >>40963396 >>40963415
>>40963368
>poonahs
Don't you feel embarrassed?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:49:05 PM No.40963394 >>40963405
Ftms are very prone to ghosting. More ftm have ghosted me than any other demographic. Just last month I was legit mid erp with one and he was fapping on cam for me and randomly blocked me on every place we spoke. It had been a month of lewdong him. Week ago a ftm had me over and I was mid fucking him when he revealed he was a virgin. After a few more hours of fucking I went home and notice... ghosted. Best bet is to just use ftms as fuck holes, getting attached is bad for your heart
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:49:19 PM No.40963396
>>40963386
You can't use the hard r unless you're one of us, anon was just being respectful
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:50:38 PM No.40963405 >>40963430 >>40963431
>>40963394
why do they do it
>getting attached is bad for your heart
it's over for me. i was head over heels
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:51:33 PM No.40963415
>>40963386
It is pretty corny but they don't see that
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:54:02 PM No.40963430 >>40963444
>>40963405
Yea i loved one once too and he ghosted me a few years back. I dunno what to tell you friend, just do your best to get over him in time then remember my fuck hole advice.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:54:13 PM No.40963431 >>40963444
>>40963405
One person always loves more than the other it sucks but it's true
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:57:33 PM No.40963444
>>40963430
>>40963431
thanks for your wisdom and your kind words anons. it makes me feel less alone. i'm sorry that you've experienced similar pain.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 3:57:47 PM No.40963446 >>40964077
>>40963091
this. as soon as a woman starts talking about wanting a real relationship with me, i'm looking for ways out.
#femalesinmalefields
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 4:45:09 PM No.40963750
I haven’t ghosted anyone (in a serious manner) but it is bad that I see the “appeal” of ghosting? I totally condemn it as well, but yeah.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:02:27 PM No.40963855 >>40964077
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I'm a poonah and a chronic ghoster, no real idea of exactly why I do it but there are some factors that contribute:
>I eventually get bored of people when I feel like I understand how they work
>Once I already started ghosting someone it feels stupid to try and talk to them so I don't
Best advice is to leave him a message saying you don't care if he's ghosting you and you're always up for talking again, if he talks to you again then be interesting and keep lots of secrets

Good luck!
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:26:30 PM No.40963987
>>40961015 (OP)
Did you forget to shower him with excessive amounts of cum?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:26:52 PM No.40963990 >>40964077
>>40962828
Maybe something is going on in his life
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:39:07 PM No.40964071
>>40961015 (OP)
every single pooner i've ever met was a bpdemon. don't take it personally
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:40:09 PM No.40964077 >>40964130 >>40965946
>>40963855
>>40963446
How do you guys feel about >>40963990
I'm not OP but I'm in a similar situation. 18 days of silence, and they kept saying they were busy and completely drained. Just want some insight from other ghosters on how honest it is.
X 9/7/2025, 5:45:41 PM No.40964109
>>40961015 (OP)
got too boring/annoying + post nut clarity
>t. ghoster
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:46:19 PM No.40964116
>>40961015 (OP)
>why woman do woman thing?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 5:47:55 PM No.40964130
>>40964077
>busy and drained
Can mean not actually busy and just not interested in talking for a few weeks
t. chronic temporary ghoster
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 6:45:46 PM No.40964664 >>40965672
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Who ghosts more often? FtMs or MtFs?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 6:58:15 PM No.40964789 >>40964813 >>40964829 >>40964991
>>40961015 (OP)
as a ftm ghoster its usually either they lost attraction somehow from some arbitrary braindead thing that happened between you two, OR he was testing the waters and realized he didn't like you as much as he thought he did at first. rarely, but also it happens, he could just be drained from a stressful life and wanted to lighten the load and you unfortunately got tossed aside to ease it. either way sorry and i hope you find a hotter and more open and honest partner in the near future.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:00:47 PM No.40964813
>>40964789
thanks for your insight anon.
>some arbitrary braindead thing that happened between you two
>realized he didn't like you as much as he thought he did at first
>could just be drained from a stressful life
could very well be all of the above honestly.
and thank you for the well wishes
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:01:35 PM No.40964820
>>40961015 (OP)
female brained behavior
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:02:01 PM No.40964829
>>40964789
also
>hotter
kek, thanks. he was very handsome sadly
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 7:19:54 PM No.40964991
>>40964789
actually, anon, if you're still here - and i feel retarded asking when you've probably already left - would you mind elaborating on this element?
>he didn't like you as much as he thought he did at first
i'm curious how these revelations come about and what spurs them
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 8:30:35 PM No.40965657
>>40961015 (OP)
So many ghosters in this thread. Gen z is cooked
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 8:32:38 PM No.40965672
>>40964664
Same amount, the hot single ones are always bpd and single for a good reasons.
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 9:00:55 PM No.40965946 >>40965957
>>40964077
The busy thing is an excuse but I do get really tired of speaking to people, sometimes for weeks at a time, so that contributes.
To be honest very rarely I ghost people because I don't like them, I just get bored and need time alone
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 9:02:37 PM No.40965957 >>40965971
>>40965946
Did I write this post?
Anonymous 9/7/2025, 9:04:40 PM No.40965971
>>40965957
Apparently not, spooky