Thread 40965289

would any transgender's here like a repressor boyfriend? I'm a bottom and would like to wear your clothes and maybe steal your E sometimes.

No bro

No, get your own stuff wtf

>>40966671
I mean you can be whatever and I can help you buy your stuff, might even do it for you I don't really mind but not my stuff that would be weird.

i don't get it because you say you want to transition so just transition and be transbian or something

>>40965289 (OP)
You can wear my clothes SOMETIMES, you can’t be a full on serial clothes thief, but you have to get your own e. I’ll even go to the hormone clinic with you for moral support. Final offer

>>40965289 (OP)
it's unethical to date as a repper, plus having sex would be incredibly disgusting
>t. repper

>>40966750
HOW unethical?

Also unethical if you end up trooning out or unethical if you a depressed bf?

>>40966783
tricking someone into falling in love with a mask is very unethical

>>40966750
God you are so boring. I have had a gf as a repper and it was exciting. I disassociated most times during sex, and she said she felt like I wasn't there sometimes. Other times it was ok. I had many mental breakdowns apart from this, and cried a lot. But a lot of that is mental illness and being extremely epathetic and sensitive. I left her because she was extremely emotionally abusive and I was unable to sleep for 3 days in a row because of how she treated me. I regret nothing, even though this relationship ruined my life and I had some kind of ptsd or something that made me afraid to talk for a year after (because she would criticise me for talking sometimes, in very mean and horrible ways).

If you are playing the game of love, this is the price you pay for losing.

>>40966859
That’s okay, if I ever found out I would do the unethical thing in kind and covertly pink pill you

it's a real eye opener to see how transphobic trans people are when you raise the possibility of someone they know transitioning. it's always received as a betrayal or a death in the family or something, the "trans widows" phenomenon

I don't think trans people have any hope of organizing the kind of community activism that gays used to gain a modicum of acceptance in some parts of the world, if they're not even done fighting these wars in their own minds

>>40966911
>god you are so boring
>tells a story about a terrible experience
Were you trying to prove anon right? Because you just did.

>>40966911
why should I force myself to play a game that I won't enjoy and can't truly win?
>>40966938
I'm a repper for a reason anon, you really would not want a hulking 6'2 gigahon in your life

>>40966945
No? I just don't want to wear sweaty clothes, that ain't cool

>>40966954
I felt alive. I regret nothing. If she messaged me again and made me feel wanted, id fly back to her right away. I am open to anyone doing anything to me if it makes me feel alive and gives me even the tiniest sliver of hope for a happy future.
>>40966955
If you don't enjoy it, don't do it. But don't say it's unethical or any of this shit. Reppers lives are hard enough without people putting up roadblocks to them finding love. I am also a 6"2 repper.

>>40966945
I’ve never been in that situation, but I can see a few problems with it. I’ve heard it said that it’s a bad idea for an early hrt trans person and a progressed hrt trans person to date and it’s hard for both partners. The further trans person is taking on a lot of responsibility in an extremely volatile time, and both parties would have comparative dysphoria. Furthermore, it just won’t work out if the trans woman is straight.
I personally sorta like the idea of seeing a partner through starting a transition, at least in concept, but I know that reality would be a lot tougher than how I typically envision it. I did transition on my trans bf tho and he left, I don’t blame him at all for that but I would to at least try to make it work
Ultimately, I think that unless it’s someone that is married with a kid, you should go for the transition if that’s what is in your heart even if it isn’t good for the relationship.

>>40966990
it would be completely unfair to the other person unless you were upfront about it, and even if you were it would still be a relationship built on living a lie

>>40967028
Just lie by omission and have them figure it out. 99% of people will leave you, so it's not worth saying "I'm a repper". Who gives a fuck, my life is a lie, it's all a lie, that doesn't mean I am giving up on love. I am still a human being, and if a woman falls in love with me, then I'm not gonna turn her away because my life is a lie. Who cares, it's my life anyway, lie or not. I am loving and empathetic and intelligent and hyper devoted and romantic. That makes up for the fact my gender isn't right and I can't identify myself in the mirror.

>>40967076
Why would you not tell them? It could be fun

>>40967095
I have in the past, mainly during self destructive manic episodes. I do it in order to feel something, and in the hope that they will comfort me and save me. I want to be seen as pathetic, as in childhood I learned that being pitied leads to affection, so that's the only way I know how to ask for affection and love in adulthood.

>>40967142
No, I mean, going for the whole thing, repressing never gets better

>>40965289 (OP)
what does a Renault Twizy have to do with this

>>40967076
I know that would really hurt alternate universe me who isn't cursed though, so I would never want to do that to someone I loved

>>40967165
Myriad of reasons. If my family all died I would get on hrt immediately.

>>40967225
I just left home, I had everything but not what I wanted.