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I had two exes, one of them trooned out after we broke up and is now dating a guy and the other turned out to be a faggot and is dating a guy now too. What am I doing wrong? Is it actually possible to find a genuine loving guy as a troon

>>40972611 (OP)
the fact that as much as 50% of the queers and bis wouldnt like to date a tranny is actual ropefuel

it might just be impossible, i try to find good people and im just left even more broken each time. guys girls trannies married couples, doesn’t matter it’s all the same. good luck!

>>40972624
Doesn't seem like you're very interested in us either. Only based tradcath transphobes for you ladies, no bottom sissy faggots whose existence is an insult to your gender, isn't that right?

Anyone who claims to be "straight" when dating trannies in lying to you and is hiding something else. You have to be some scale of bisexual in order to be okay with dating trannies

>>40972611 (OP)
i can be your boyfriend, even though i am repping i promise you i will never troon out. It's because it's over for me, but because it had never ever happened to me to begin with.

>>40972624
Thats still way more people than there are trans folks that exist

>>40972624
You have to take into account that a good chunk of bisexuals would never date both genders

>>40973073
there are tons of bisexuals who hate androgyny and only like the dimorphic end of both gender

>>40972611 (OP)
All chasers are gay, or repressors and all are pedos

>>40972611 (OP)
Does it turn you on to think about your exes being dicked down by bigger stronger men

>>40974116
One of them is still a top but the other is just downright dick taker. I honestly have always seen it coming because they asked me to top them before, really icky

>>40972674
Is there no alternative but dating faggots

>>40972685
okay hi sure why not

>>40974139
Bisexuals

>>40974133
It's interesting because my ex wanted to beg me and I didn't let her. Same with Chastity. It does make me wonder if we got back together if she'd be more forceful with that because I know she does have a thing for it

>>40973011
yeah except that almost everyone willing to date trannies will end up with a cis person anyway

>>40972624
most people have essentially zero exposure to trannies so it's probably safe to assume that their response to a survey question for which they have no frame of reference may differ from their behavior and preferences irl. prior to meeting me my bf probably would have said no too lol.

>>40972611 (OP)
>study literally shows gay men have zero interest in dating trannies
>trannies still constantly freak out about their bf possibly being gay
i dont get it

I am a cisgender man. I'm 30 years old, have a well-paying job, am six feet tall, and take care of myself. I would openly date a transgender woman if we got along well. I would take her on dates, show her to my family, and never be ashamed of her. I'm not a chaser and do not actively pursue transgender women, I just treat them like I would treat anybody else.
Yes, we exist.

>>40975019
I love you and I wish it was easier finding people like you

>>40975019
>On /lgbt/
Come on bro

>>40975084
This is not and has never been "the tranny board".
>>40975075
I wish I wasn't a rare find either. I don't think I'm anything special, or at least I shouldn't be.

>>40975109
So are you gay? You don't come here if you aren't gay or a chaser

>>40975148
Demisexual. I have been here since the board's inception. The chaser epidemic didn't start until relatively recently. You shouldn't talk about things as if you know them, when you do not.

>>40972611 (OP)
many men see trans woman as something to experiment on so a lot of dating as a straight trans woman revolves around recognizing the signs that this is happening and vetting romantic partners to weed out fetishists and freaks. i know someone who started asking men what kind of porn they watch on the first date.

>>40975394
>asking men what kind of porn they watch on the first date
this is disgusting and weird behavior, any self-respecting man will be put off by this question and realize they are speaking with a common gutter whore who is not fit for a relationship. the friend is single, isn't she?

>>40975307
>Demisexual
Chaser. Thanks for confirming

>>40975470
lol seethe harder. im not advising anyone to do this, im just using it to illustrate a point btw.

>>40975479
Honestly it was my fault for answering the question. Anything I would have said would have been a wrong answer. I hope you manage to find clarity one day.

>>40975560
What point are you illustrating exactl

>>40975565
There was no wrong answer, it was obvious from the start.

>>40975579
A self-fulfilling prophecy. You have a lot of experience with those, don't you? Did you know some of your problems are your own fault? Have a good day.

>>40975595
Have fun being a single middle aged chaser lol

>>40975607
>>40975479
>>40975579
can you please leave some of us want a bf and you aren't helping

>>40975617
You don't want a old 4chan chaser as a bf, trust me, sis. You have more self worth than that

>>40975624
t. transbian

>>40975607
why are you being such a bitch to anon? why is it so evil for someone to be open to dating us? people like you are why no one will ever fucking love me. you ruin it for everyone else by acting this way. this is why people leave us for cissies

>>40975654
this
i love chasers

>>40975607
You are a sad individual.

>>40975654
>us
nah

>>40975571
>a lot of dating as a straight trans woman revolves around recognizing the signs that this is happening and vetting romantic partners to weed out fetishists and freaks

>chaser gets shit on
>the chaser brigade comes to complain
Worst posters on this board

>>40975686
or maybe you're just being a rude piece of shit for no reason. go back to your discord gooncave you fucking freak

>>40975705
Sorry you got butthurt
Death to all chasers

>>40975710
>acts retarded
>gets called retarded
>heh... gottem again
grow up

>>40975710
are you androphilic or gynophilic

>>40975718
All chasers deserve the rope :)

>>40975731
you're just a chaser that started taking estrogen and called himself a girl

>>40972611 (OP)
I want to fuck you (I am a man)

>>40975730
we both know it's either a transbian or a psyop nona

>>40972633
Actually the reasons most guys can't score dates with trans women isn't because they're "too gay," it's because most trans women are "transbians," which just means they like dick but are too indoctrinated by being raised as a straight man to get past the "liking men is le bad" conditioning imposed onto them since they were young, so they cope by dating fellow trans women

>>40975785
So can you condition yourself to like men?

>>40975807
Yes, it's called sucking a dude's dick and letting him fuck you. If you're taking E you will like men from that point forward

>>40975807
you can condition yourself to like just about anything.
the threat of emasculation and being called a "faggot" is just coincidentally the strongest tool out there to control men and keep them behaving as society wants them to behave (emotionless automaton that produce capital and children and then die before they get too old to become expensive to maintain). removing the power behind the words "faggot" or "sissy" will liberate a man more than anything on planet earth, but even when men become women they still can't do it

>>40975785
also a lot of trans women want to date men but are too insecure so just date each other. i think a lot of chaser hate comes from self-hating trans women who feel that there must be something wrong with any man who would want to date them. my experience dating men after trooning out has been pretty normal and my self-esteem has improved a lot from it.

>>40975887
>self-hating trans women who feel that there must be something wrong with any man who would want to date them
this is literally it. this thought process is why so many trannies are eternally miserable and lonely

I want to fuck a tranny's asshole so bad

I want to love a trans woman's heart so bad

>>40975654
this
they're probably a transbian

>>40975766
please and thank you

>>40976462
Which just means they're coping, see >>40975785 and >>40975887

>>40976484
Want my discord?

>>40976484
actually where are you located

>>40972611 (OP)
>one of them trooned
Why is this a common event to trans girls?

>>40976543
Because they're dating feminine guys for some retarded reason

>>40976543
its the "do i want her or do i want to be her" situation. men with latent inclinations toward transsexualism interpret their attraction toward trans women as sexual/romantic but eventually realize that what they really wanted was to be like them.

>>40976660
What a retarded line of thought. Trans women exist to be topped, not emulated. This is your fault for dating bottom chasers

>>40976506
yes but I'm kinda shy
>>40976527
middle east :(

>>40976715
I'm in the United States :(

>>40976705
Yes I have learned to only date top chasers instead

>>40976755
Aw I'm sorry anon

>>40972674
I just say I'm straight because I'm actively against anything involving the dick.
t. Guy who likes trans girls

>>40976791
This is the way

>>40975019
least obvious jewish psyop, you're larping as a cis man on /lgbt/

>any man who would date a tranny is...le chaser!!!

Have you ever considered that many men seek to date trans women simply because they're ironically easier to deal with than cis women? It's much easier to have sex with a trans woman than a cis woman, and it's much easier to relate to them and convince them to do fun things with you that aren't watching the fucking Kardashians and shopping

>>40972611 (OP)
i'm a cis bi gymbro that exclusively tops. ive dated a couple tranners. i was definitely in love with them. one "realized" she was gay and dumped me stone cold to join a transbian polycule she met in VRchat, the other was a long distance relationship that regrettably could not work out and im pretty sure she only dates girls now. idk what to tell you anon, its not easy from this side either.

>>40977370
>It's much easier to have sex with a trans woman than a cis woman
what do you mean? anal needs so much prep compared to vaginal lol

>>40977426
>anal needs so much prep

Huh?

>pin down tranny
>lube my dick up
>stick it in
>keep her pinned down

What prep?

>>40977491
have you ever actually done this? my experience differs wildly.

>>40977508
I've done it once with a femboy (I'm bi) and he screamed a lot before making me stop, but he hated bottoming anyway (which is why it didn't work out, I refuse to bottom).

>>40977517
anon...

>>40977534
What?

>>40977534
>hurrrrr durrrr you gotta douche!!!

Just take a big poop before you bottom and wipe like an adult.

>>40977263
I'm cis, I exist, get over it.

>>40972611 (OP)
It sounds like you started calling them closet faggots and broke up with them. Just accept that your core dating pool is bisexuals and move on.

I want a girlfriend so bad but I'm a loser

>>40974426
>Bisexuals
Diet Faggots
Great Value Faggots

>>40978316
You are a man so afraid of being gay you turned into a woman to avoid it. You are a bootleg faggot.

I want to not be obligated to post about how disgusted I have become in observing the consistent increase in your faggotry reaching the front page of a website I have happily browsed for more than 2 decades

Time for a new website, one you will not find

>>40975470
>any self-respecting man will be put off by this question
I'd think it was extremely funny and would answer honestly, but also probably would think twice about bringing that person around my family or more stodgy friends.

>>40978350
not an airport nigga you dont need to announce your departure. fuck off this is our website now

>>40978352
yeah i mean in the moment it'd probably be kinda funny. but you'd know this isn't the kind of woman you'd want to "be" with
>>40975560
so she's single then

>>40978350
Glad you're gone, faggot

>>40977370
>they're ironically easier to deal with than cis women?
Biggest lie ever invented. Every single tranny I've gotten to know is psychotic in some way, most ciswomen are dramatically easier to get along with, easier to relate to, and more emotionally stable.

Imagine thinking a male pumping themselves with excess amounts of exogenous hormones due to mental issues is "easier to deal with" than some basic ass bitch Kardashians watcher.

>>40978328
I am a cismale bisexual you dumb faggot. Not everyone that replies to you is a tranny

>>40978422
>says tranny shit
>noooo im not a tranny haha

>>40978514
>making a joke
>tranny shit
dumbest response I ever done did see from a faggot

>>40978550
so how many hours do you have in ffxiv

>>40978379
>you'd know this isn't the kind of woman you'd want to "be" with
This would be a yellow flag, not a red one to me. It would trigger a reverse shit test to determine if she is a degenerate or just spends all her time with them.

>>40978570
Zero, I fucking hate final fantasy

>>40978593
if it was date two or three then it'd be yellow maybe. but date one? gammon lad. you just met someone and they ask you about porn? and this is a tranny we're talking about here lad. you know they'd be all awkward about it and bring it up out of nowhere. i know because i had a tranny render this exact same fucking shit test to me.

>>40978412
>psychotic in some way
WRONG
>ciswomen are easier to get along with
WRONG
>ciswomen easier to relate to
WRONG
>more emotionally stable
WRONG

I was in love with a cis woman ONCE. Never again, bitch threatened to report me to the police for basic advances. Tried the same thing on a tranny, and we dated for a while

>>40978626
>harass a cis woman
>she rightfully threatens legal action

This is normal.

>harass a trans woman
>she's so attention starved she accepts it and dates you anyway

This is not normal.

>>40978626
You can lie all you want anon but the reality of interacting with these two groups of people bears it's head every single time. Ciswomen, especially of the basic bitch variety you described, are significantly easier to get along with and much less likely to be psychotic.

>>40978316
part time fags

>>40978684
>>40978626
They also outnumber trannies 1000:1 so they are easier to find.

>>40978626
I dated a cis woman for 6 years of my life. Even at her worst she behaved better than your typical trannoid does. Trannies have this intense urge within them to blow up any relationship that lasts longer than a few months.

>>40978696
that only motivates me more to acquire my tranny PRIZE

>>40978702
>intense urge to blow up any relationship

They also have an intense urge to blow me, so that evens out.