Thread 40993116

i don’t believe polyamorous people actually enjoy being in polyamorous relationships. i feel like this is why poly people get dunked on a lot, they just all seem like deeply unhappy people.

>>40993116 (OP)
Whats not to like? I have a stay at home wife that I love and I get to fuck all the 18 year old early hrt virginal aydens I want at the nearby colleges. Poly is amazing.

>>40993116 (OP)
poly relationships can work but it takes people with a very strange mentality, it requires people who are just very greedy in love and can never have enough. The problem is most people aren't like that so poly relationships are usually one greedy party and another party who feels they have enough with them, and this causes them both to get hurt over and over again.

>>40993172
whatever floats your boat man, i’m just describing my instinctual reaction.

>>40993116 (OP)
By poly you mean closed or open? Open is cuck stuff. Closed is based, principally polygyny

why are so many posts on this board just seething at other peoples lifestyle choices that literally don't affect you in any way
has it always been this bad or am i just getting jaded recently

>>40993435
it’s always been this bad, if not worse. and also i’m not saying poly people shouldn’t exist, i’m just trying to rationalize why i always feel something “off” about them. i’m mildly polyphobic.
>>40993375
as hot as having multiple wives would be, that’s actually even more unethical. you need to take into account how the other party would feel being treated unequally.

>>40993435
I mean, at least of a few of the poly haters are pissed off because they had an ex pull the "polyamory card" on them. So in those cases, the lifestyle choices did directly affect them, often via an unhealthy relationship in their formative years.
IMO it's okay if the normies hate us. The taboo makes it more fun.
The only poly people complaining about "prejudice against polyamory" are the ones trying to seduce normies into poly relationships. They don't like getting called out on their shit.
>t. solo poly

People in poly relationships are NEVER physically attractive.

>>40993172
You literally sound like a pedo/groomer. Typical ugly mental illness sex obsessed "poly" enjoyer. Kys

>>40993465
>treated unequally.
Just dick both down equally and don't give preferential treatment. Also we don't have vocal cords to waste them, just communicate with each other

>>40993497
i guess you’re right. but you can make the same argument about communication for open monogamy, so calling one bad and one good doesn’t really add up.

>>40993513
It isn't logically bad. I just find it disgusting and unnecessary. At that point there's no point on calling it a relationship, just be friends with benefits

>>40993534
the “just be friends with benefits” argument can also be used towards your preferred form of polyamory if we being real

>>40993987
Closed is just like having a wife, but instead of one, it's two. The responsibilities are basically the same, including children, if you plan to have it. Meanwhile open you're just getting random people to have sex without strings attached
Anyway, I'm not against it, I just think it's cuck/unnecessary shit. You can as well all be friends that have sex from time to time

i like having sex with my bf though it's really fun
he is poly btw

>>40993481
"solo poly" you mean... you arent in a relationship and just fucking around?
>>40994249
cuck award

I don't get what's hard to understand. I have my partner I love and want to make a life with. I'm also into other people occasionally and have often crushed on some trans girl and idk it's fine to have love affair with someone else too.
I'm BPD and if not for poly I'd go from short relationship to short relationship since my sense of self and my wants aren't very fixed sadly. I'd feel pressured, I'd be resentful, and I'd end up making a huge mistake.
Rn haven't been with anyone else for years, but when I met a girl and fell in love with her it was nice.

>>40993116 (OP)
let ugly people be ugly and fuck other ugly people, at least they have something to keep them going.

>>40993494
yeah actually i've never seen an attractive person in a poly relationship

>>40993494
Not everyone in a poly relationship is a leftard. Yeah, the leftards in poly relationship are all ugly

im terminally cucksexual and cant make normal relationships work just bc of how much of a cuck i am
am i cut for poly?

>>40995343
BVILT FOR ROPE

>>40993116 (OP)
>i don’t believe polyamorous people actually enjoy being in polyamorous relationships
Poly people do enjoy it because it either allows them to fulfil their uncontrolled sex drive with less guilt than cheating or because it gives them a branch to always hold onto if one relationship tanks (and one does every few months)

But yah, poly people are all miserable and using relationships like a drug

>>40993481
>poly haters are pissed off because they had an ex pull the "polyamory card"
This is it most of the time and is a pretty justified hatred. Going to great lengths to build a relationship with somone just to them they can be 2nd place and never get the joys of loving term cohabitation is bound to sour people.

>>40993494
You sound jealous