>>41044478 (OP)
Because then it doesn't come from cis women, which means they lose their power to take away your womanhood when you don't live up to *them* and the standards *they* set for you. Cis women see you as male invaders but will give you a green card to being a woman as long as you're useful to them.
What supplanting their influence over this process with the standards of anime women or male validation does is make it so you have a fuller type of citizenship and can therefore be expected to have more rights, making you less abusable for easy political labor. Think of how liberals love illegals that vote for them but hate native conservatives, because one they can control and threaten and the other they can't do anything about.
If none of this sounds like an issue to you, then congrats, you've taken your power back and will always be a real woman. You can already see the rage at this loss of your slave labor ITT, and hopefully you can already feel how little you need to care about it. Have a great life anon-kyun >w<