Thread 41098830

>chaser fiance assumes I'll be taking his last name once we're married
>tell him that's a misogynistic tradition
>he rolls his eyes and tells me it would be a loving gesture on my part
wtf is wrong with chasoids with their outdated bullshit?! thinking of calling off the marriage now

>>41098830 (OP)
why would you marry a chaser to begin with?

>>41098830 (OP)
overcompensating because they think you're a man really

>>41098830 (OP)
Itll be embarrassing for him if u dont. Respect the traditions u live in. Or go after a Hispanic man who doesnt have that tradition.

>>41098830 (OP)
it will always be like this. it is better to be single than to date a chaser. this is the least of it

>>41098897
do latino boys take their transgender wife's last name?

why wouldn't you take his name?

>>41098830 (OP)
chasers are for pumping and dumping, not marriage material

>>41098909
Hispanophones just keep stacking surnames until they have these ridiculous hyphenated chains

>>41098917
it's patriarchal

>>41098953
it's nice to have the same last name as your husband though

>>41098830 (OP)
Why dont you want to be a traditional woman?

>>41098960
why

>>41098960
why can't he take my name?
>>41098971
I don't want to be a slave

>>41098971
nta but why would anyone?

I like the icelandic thing where you keep your last name and your children are [mothername]daughter and [fathername]son
or when you get married you create a new last name together that would be nice

>>41098987
>why can't he take my name?
Because everyone will make fun of him

>>41098830 (OP)
>wanting to marry a tranny
Hopefully he comes to his senses and leaves you for a real woman

>>41098830 (OP)
>chaser fiance
fuck no

>>41098971
what do you mean by "traditional", all these traditions never seem to go that far back, I wouldn't mind a pictish "traditional" wedding, how's that?

>>41098830 (OP)
the marriage would never last because you would physically abuse them out of it because of your extreme BPD

>>41099037
>don't want to be a pick-me tradwife retard
>must be BPD

>>41098830 (OP)
Fuck that she better take my last name

>>41098937
based, please treat me like that

>>41098830 (OP)
literally how do you actually say no when someone wants to marry you. I would want to give him whatever he wants for the rest of time for settling for me.

>>41099272
why are you so insistent on it?

>>41099321
good girl

>>41099328
Because how else would people know you belong to me

>>41099321
because I have self-respect?
>>41099372
that's misogynistic and fetishistic, do chasers really think trannies are property?

>>41099411
they do. it's all a fetish for them. we live through hell and come out broken, and that's a fetish for them

>>41099411
they think that, but remember that it's something that they do to cis women as well, it's masculine to call your woman your property

>>41099411
>do chasers really think trannies are property?
Absolutely. Is she not mine when I pay/do everything for her? I would literally break it off if she wasn’t willing to take my name.

>>41099445
>>41099566
hot desu

>>41098830 (OP)
call it off. it's going to be a bigger problem later and he'll just try to bulldoze you into saying yes cause you like each other. changing your last name to his lmao shit has me actually fucked in the head thinking about it

>>41099000
who gives a shit. literally noone asks and if he cares what other men think of him he's a pussy

ill take a chasers name if its nice, if its shit tier common then not

>>41098953
and keeping your father's family name isn't?

>>41099431
for real you can see it in the replies
>>41099817
that's a retarded repsonse

>>41099817
this isn't a great argument, you have to start a lineage at some point, there has to be a beginning

>>41098909
They take both names and have for centuries

>>41099870
that's pretty cool actually I never knew that

>>41098830 (OP)
>husband expects me to wear a ring
>and change my last name
>and start a life together and stuff

>>41098830 (OP)
If she’s living under my roof and eating my food, she better take my name. I’m not spending my whole life with a dumb ungrateful bitch who doesn’t respect me.

>>41098830 (OP)
I hate feminists so much man. I hope you leave him and he finds someone better than you.

>>41098987
>I don't want to be a slave
Will he be a slave if he takes yours? dumb retard

>>41098830 (OP)
Please call it off for his sake. Nobody should be with a terrible person like you.

>>41100603
>man works a job
>woman works a job
>woman also does all the housework
>man thinks he does all the work
many such cases

>>41100788
yeah, I think neither of us should change our names

>>41100810
>>woman works a job
>>woman also does all the housework
Trannies don't do any of this shit
they do drugs and play video games all day

>>41098830 (OP)
I'm gonna buy my non-manhating trans wife a nice gift after this post reminded me most trannies are meta attracted performative men

>>41098830 (OP)
Men are inherently better than women. You gave up masculinity to be cute and feminine, now you have to pay the price. Trannies especially are my pets, and if I'm going to marry my cutest, most loyal pet, I'm marking her as being mine with my name.

>>41100943
you guys are freaks

>>41098830 (OP)
i don't like my last name, im taking my bfs last name

>>41101166
I'm not the one who mutilated my body and retroactively decided that I was born as the wrong gender, that's on you sweetie. Now put on the cowprint stockings and spread those legs.

Why wouldn’t she

>>41098830 (OP)
i wouldn't marry someone if they DIDN'T want me to take their last name
t. ranny

>>41098830 (OP)
>marriage
>tranny
>chaser
Good one!