Thread 41100230

My cousin is getting married next week and i've been invited to their wedding and really need to figure out what to wear. i'm out to my family but i’ve only boymoded around them. please help me i'm not trying to be an embarrassment

>>41100230 (OP)
just don't wear a wedding dress

>>41100230 (OP)
Black dress pants, black long sleeve button up dress shirt, black vest, a tie that matches the wedding color theme

you'll regret not wearing a dress
just do it

>>41100230 (OP)
i'd boymode. idk your family and how well you pass and all that, maybe girlmoding would work. but i'd boymode to be safe, can't really go wrong with it and i don't see the reason to take the risk

>>41100316
why would i?
>>41100395
probably but i'll also regret wearing one due to looking like a hon
>>41101813
what i'm thinking. i'm close to three years hrt but don't really pass. Also i'm 6'1 so i kinda always stand out

feminine suit

Women's tuxedos exist anon, maybe you could get away with wearing one

>>41100230 (OP)
They invited you ostensibly knowing that you’re trans. I say wear the dress, or at the very least wear feminine women’s dress clothing that makes it clear that you aren’t boymoding. People who already know you’re a tranny and see you wearing men’s clothing will not respect you more for it so you might as well make a statement and assert yourself.

Use this moment as a litmus test for who to keep in your life. Those who are nice to you matter, and those who are not are not worth your time or emotional energy. I hope you have fun at this wedding and can dance and drink and eat cake.


Be yourself and don’t spend your life in the shadows.

>>41101994
i really want to but i have no idea what to pick or to wear. i don't own any nice dresses so i'd have to buy a new one