Thread 41374420

When did you start using the women's bathrooms?

i havent yet

>>41374420 (OP)
A guy said, "miss, the women's room is over there" And I realized I was probably ready to use the women's room. I've been full time for 18 years and I've never had a bathroom incident.

>>41374420 (OP)
I socially transitioned literal years before starting HRT (waitlists, kek). Started using women's restrooms as soon as I did the social transition. At first contextually (e.g. at the university, which is obviously progressive as fuck), but after a bad experience in a men's washroom I swore them off entirely.
Stop being chickenshits. If you don't live in a jurisdiction where it isn't literally illegal, then just fucking do it.

>>41374420 (OP)
I go to isolated male bathrooms because I feel comfortable in neither of them, also I lowk finda urinals kinda way more efficient even though it reminds me I have a 3==>

Once security guards confronted me for using the men's multiple times I switched. The crazy thing is that I'm a hon, isnt that where theyre supposed to want me

>>41374454
same, i was trying to find the restroom in a museum with a weird layout and a docent said "oh you wont find it down there" and pointed me to the womens restroom
later found out that the hallway i was originally headed down led to the mens room
later that day i needed to use the restroom at the grocery store and had to ask an employee since its kept locked and he opened the womens one for me
ive never looked back

>>41374420 (OP)
I'm 10 years on HRT and still don't because I expect to be shot.

>>41374594
Cute. I'm glad we had such affirming interactions. It makes it so clear like, yes this is where I belong.

>>41374420 (OP)
i injected estrogen once and immediately went into a women's public restroom and JACKED OFF

>>41374420 (OP)
i never will i dont want to make other people uncomfortable

>>41374420 (OP)
after FFS

>>41374420 (OP)
about 6 months hrt (age 18)

cis men should be able to dunk a grunter in women's bathrooms aswell its anti-amab discrimination equivalent to jim crow segregation

I haven't after 3 years but men give me weird looks especially if I don't have my hair up

>>41374420 (OP)
Anytime it's free and I don't want to use the men's.

Im not even a tranny, I'm just not a bitch.

>>41374420 (OP)
Never. Only time i do is when my gf drags me in with her. Been on hrt forever

>>41374420 (OP)
I have used them, but never in my hometown. I go based on how people act towards me. Hometown (small conservative city) I never get gendered correctly and still get a lot of comments and stares in the street so I only use the men’s or unisex if I come across them. In other places though (usually other countries) where I’m only gendered female and don’t receive a second glance I will use them but still run immediately to a unisex toilet if it’s available.

>>41374420 (OP)
After srs. Penis does not belong in females spaces. I can finally exist outside my home.

>>41374420 (OP)
Aftter about 10 months on hormones I started malefailing hard. So it was soon thereafter, though I was extremely nervous about it at first.

>>41374454
>>41374581
>>41374594
>>41374607
And everybody clapped.

>>41374420 (OP)
when i started malefailing often

i was honestly just too scared to use male bathrooms in most places at that point

idk how to even pee standing so using male bathrooms is disgusting, cause the seats are always pissed on

i think the last time i used a male toilet was at the beggining of this year, i still had a male id and was a bit clocky

>>41374420 (OP)
>start
maybe a month or two on hrt
>stop
>5 years ago

>>41374420 (OP)
>When did you start using the women's bathrooms?
When men started telling me I was in the wrong bathroom.

in 2008 after having my legal name and gender marker changed having been on hrt for a year. men were harassing me in the men's room. i complained to my employer at the time. they said nothing they could. if i wanted to use the women's room i need my papers in order. went and got my paperwork in order. employer gave me the woman's uniform, but held a grudge as if i was the problem child.

>>41374420 (OP)
I'll use the accessible bathroom any chance I can, since I use a cane anyway, but if that isn't available I'll use the women's, and that started probably about three years in when I felt comfortable enough to.

I just don’t pee. Women don’t pee after all.

>>41374420 (OP)
I haven’t. I do occasionally get bits of confusion or weird looks using the men’s room (a guy at the grocery store once ran into me going in and said “are you sure you want to go in there?”) but it’s never gotten violent and I know the risks of using the women’s room are far greater.

this is one of those loaded questions like when did you stop beating your wife

>>41378338
Women pee all the time cuz pee is stored in the balls therefore women can't store pee

>>41378086
You terminally online losers cant face the fact that your ideology is totally at odds with IRL experiences with trans people so you have to invent an alternate reality where every trans person is lying about everything. Sorry chuddy, morons like you are the people who kicked me out of the men's room and you're just going to have to live with that

>>41374420 (OP)
pre-hrt but on blockers actually, no one told me anything weird but if i had to say when i actually felt safe, it was around the 6 month hrt mark,

>>41378086
dude i got asked if i was in the wrong bathroom as a 13 year old who just had long hair at that point, i don’t see why this shit is so unbelievable to you

>>41374420 (OP)
When I passed

>>41378907
They think chromosomes noticeably alter your bone structure in the womb such that passing is impossible even for intersexoids

>>41378907
The xhitter ecosystem said trannies using bathrooms that align with their gender is le bad so it must be true, even though reactionaries refuse to actually pass widespread laws because the leadership secretly knows their propaganda is retarded

>>41374420 (OP)
i dont

t. 3yrs hrt honmoder

>>41380442
Oof