Thread 41401930

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Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:18:30 AM No.41401930 [Report] >>41401939 >>41402000 >>41404504

How do I become more comfortable dating in public as a gay?

Basically worried about other people's perception of me seeing me out with another guy.
That makes it hard for me to actually date a guy and have only really been able to do hookups from grindr or whatever but I want a real relationship. But I am anxious of being seen on a date with another man.

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:19:43 AM No.41401939 [Report] >>41401975

>>41401930 (OP)
nobody cares if you live somewhere progressive
faggot

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:20:10 AM No.41401942 [Report] >>41404504

I live in a progressive city and whenever I see two men holding hands I stare at them and laugh

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:21:51 AM No.41401955 [Report] >>41401990

i'm 6'4 and have a decent amateur kick boxing record, i can smash the majority of men's heads in so i don't really feel self-conscious

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:22:31 AM No.41401963 [Report]

take estrogen

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:24:38 AM No.41401975 [Report]

>>41401939
i do live somewhere progressive
faggot

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:26:05 AM No.41401990 [Report] >>41402005

>>41401955

You're still a fag and you know it lmao

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:27:24 AM No.41402000 [Report]

>>41401930 (OP)
I am a fujoshi and everytime I see a gay couple I stalked them down for a while to take notes for my gay romance stories. I am currently writing medieval age romances about kings kissing on the lips.

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 2:27:41 AM No.41402005 [Report]

>>41401990
yes, the fucking men sort of made it clear to me

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 6:47:17 AM No.41404319 [Report] >>41404504 >>41404676

Bump, would like to know. I am in the deep south. I am assuming I need to suck it up and either do it in places I never frequent or just don't be touchy (handholding or kissing) in public

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 7:11:51 AM No.41404504 [Report] >>41404842

>>41401930 (OP)
Just don’t be like weird or touchy in public. I feel you though, I’d never do hook ups but theres a guy I’ve been seeing who we both really do want do be serious with eachother and we are close. My concerns are with my actual immediate family judging me and having not so nice thoughts and loosing friends.
>>41401942
Based
>>41404319
I mean, if you keep the overtly gay stuff private, you are just fine. For me anyway it’s actually less worried about me being somehow to act and just not wanting to make people uncomfy

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 7:30:24 AM No.41404676 [Report] >>41404842

>>41404319
just walk around with a machine gun dude thats what your country was designed to do

Anonymous 10/20/2025, 7:46:44 AM No.41404842 [Report]

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>>41404676
I don't even have enough money for a handgun :(

>>41404504
Yeah, I'm mostly just worried about handholding in my hometown. If I'm going somewhere an hour away though I don't give a fuck about that. He is from a sub-2k population town and I'm from a sub-30k population town so we gotta be careful here