Thread 41544266

I'm an ex-chaser and I think even if you're attracted to trannies, there is no reason have anything more than just sex with them and even think you shouldn't be acting on that desire at all.

Just jerking off to tranny porn while dating cis women or men will save you a world of pain.

>>41544266 (OP)
I believe most men who actually date mtfs eventually realize that

>>41544266 (OP)
this is especially true when you’re an agamp chaser and trannies try to turn you into one of them

>>41544295
There are two kinds of chasers, those who never actually meet up with any trannies and those who aren't chasers anymore

>>41544342
Pretty much.

>>41544266 (OP)
This is how men see all women

>>41544416
Imagine being so unlovable that you need to tell that to yourself. Most men are in happy relationships with women they love and want to spend their lives with. Even if it doesn't work out, we still try again to find that magic spark

>>41544266 (OP)
I’m dating someone online. Ofc she’s trans. We got to the point we’re meeting irl. I really want it to work out. Pill me on this. What kinda pain am I in for?

>>41544266 (OP)
>>41544295
>>41544299
>>41544467
>>41544566
Because no decent trans women wants to be with any of you, look in the mirror losers

>>41544266 (OP)
This is quite reasonable but you often need a stable relationship to have sex on the regular

>>41544266 (OP)
>>41544295
I agree. I actually dated 3. 2 of them were fully passing and started hormones early. They’ll always cheat on you or ghost you. Cis women are much less trouble.

>>41544566
One of three scenarios:
1. she kills herself
2. she randomly disappears
3. she has constant mental breakdowns, likely gets addicted to drugs, and will just be a black hole for emotional and social energy until you feel completely hollowed out and know you have to break up but can't because you care to much about her

Also note, if they seem mentally stable online, they probably lie to you. I had multiple times that the trannies pretended to have an active social life, loving families, etc. to seem "normal" but after a while figured out it was all a lie

>>41544666
I used to juggle trannies. Basically have contact to three trannies simultaneously, so I could fuck another one every week. I'd usually meet up 2-3 times (for a few days) with each tranny before replacing her with a new one.
This way I had a lot of sex without the baggage

>>41544266 (OP)
>Just jerking off to tranny porn while dating cis women or men will save you a world of pain.
TRVKE
I jerk off to trannies regularly and I want nothing to do with them irl

>>41544266 (OP)
>Went from trannies to femboys to twinks
In that order. Long round about way to realise I'm actually just gay.

>>41545249
I realized that I'm only into men sexually and into women emotionally. So instead of trying to get both at once from a tranny I now just have a cis gf and hook up with dudes from grindr

>>41544266 (OP)
unfortunately this is true, and i really wish it wasn't, they're usually too mentally fucked up to let themselves just be happy in a relationship. Now i just rotate and use them for sex, which they somehow are more ok with
Idgi but whatever

>>41544266 (OP)
no

>>41544818
What if as a cis guy Im just as mentally deranged in my own special ways, but I just keep it in check?

should i have just stayed gay? is this all im ever going to be worth to a man?

>>41545273
You’re not sexually attracted to women? And How’s your gf fine with it

>>41544266 (OP)
I think I'll just stick to seeking committed relationships with the intention of marriage with twinks (HRT), femboys (HRT), trannies and cis women pimp.

>>41545338
Where do you meet trannies to fuck

>>41545150
tranny porn is like cocaine. Instantly fuels sex drive like gasoline on a fire, but high runs out quick. for this reason whenever I jerk off I usually end up falling down that route for the quick and easy high but it's never as satisfying as pussy.

>>41547065
Yeah I'd much rather fuck a real woman, but jerking off to trannies is so spicy

>>41547292
Right? Whenever I get really horny and think "man it would be great fun to have sex with a trans girl that would be so hot!" immediately after I'm like "wait a minute... no it would not..." Maybe if trannies had a designated hole for fucking like cis women/could reproduce like cis women they would become superior... but alas that is just a fantasy. Plus I genuinely do feel bad for their gender dysphoria and for their sake it's probably better for them if I just stick to jerking off to tranny porn instead of pursuing them sexually since if I'm being honest with myself I'm only interested in having some short-term fun with them since they're a girl with a cock.

Still... like gasoline on a fire... cocaine straight to the brain. (really doesn't help that I had ADHD and when I see trans-related content it makes me go "welp! gotta go pause everything I was planning this evening and go jerk off to trannies!")

I almost genuinely loved a tranny once, but I realized that she is without objective worth except for telling me things I want to hear, chances are high she is only interested in me because I am stable and can support her, and if I spent my life with her, her awful decisions would ruin what I had built for myself thus far. I saw no future together that wasn't a comedy of errors resulting in me dying poor and diseased in a gutter or a firefight with police because I tried to bring her up but she dragged me down instead. My loyalty to her, without a shred of doubt, would have resulted in my doom. So I ended it, and now I see the same patterns in everyone else I talk to.

>>41547781
rip but good on you for pulling yourself out of that

>>41547625
I mean yeah I just think girls with dicks are hot but they're never gonna want you if the whole reason you want them is their dick because them hating their dick is the reason they're trans in the first placd

>>41547781
Is always the same pattern
>employer wont hire tranny
>she has to continue relying on you or parents
stupid tranners

>>41546056
>should i have just stayed gay?
you think you are too good for that

I have a long-term gf and a trans chick in another country that I am seeing on the side sporadically. Best of both worlds really.

the funniest thing in the world to me is watching one group of online losers ("trannies") demoralization doomspiral argue with another group of online losers ("chasers"). god you motherfuckers are pathetic.

>>41544266 (OP)
do you think its worth the trouble to seek cis women even if im gooned out of my gourd on trans porn? like would it be more fulfilling to lead a sexless lifestyle with a cis woman? after all life isnt just about sex. right? i wouldnt mind as long as i get to continue to goon but i think self-respecting normal cis woman would have an aversion to me partaking in such activities. should i take blue pills for cis woman so i can perform? the one and only girl who was virtually telling me she wanted me to fuck her hard but i was to braindead in that period of my life and i had i didnt have the urge probably due to porn left me for her ex. at this point im willing to try anything and be a human guinea pig to just to have a semblance of a normal life.

>>41544266 (OP)
Has a chaser even fallen in love with a tranny?

>>41550160
Yes.

>>41550194
Where are they now?

>>41550198
Here.

>>41550208
so love didn't change anything

>>41544342
who are you who are so wise in this matter

>>41544266 (OP)
idk man, i think relationships have always been about compromise but idk man

>>41550240
I just come here to keep up with the tranny zeitgeist so that I can tease my gf with it

>>41547781
Most of them just want to leech from men until they can get with someone feminine

>>41550119
The best thing to do is date women and fuck troons on the side

>>41547781
Women do the same shit, so good luck. 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman for reasons outside of abuse, they’re elective

Real life experience with trans women cures you of any desire to have IRL sex or relationships with them or even dates, they're best enjoyed through a computer screen

>>41551767
TRVTH NVKE

>>41551410
Thanks bro. Will do

>>41550328
Where did you meet?

>>41551767
Why not some ocasional kinky sex with tranners?

>>41553230
Not interested in paid arrangements

Not interested in cis women, 'settling down and having kids' won't happen. Not interested in men, don't like their masc bodies or body hair.

I don't have the fucking option of not pursuing love with a cute transgirl, move in, snuggle every night, go on holidays, build a life.

Only interested in alt/goth transgirls and femboys who take HRT. They are my No 1 since I ever can remember from a teen. Nothing else even slightly made me curious once. They are not a side quest or curiosity to me.

>>41553382
Poor thing. You'll learn.

>>41553382
If you had to choose between cis women or men which would you pick?

>>41553501
Gun to my head, I'm attracted to feminity, even femboys are barely male and have the soft cute features that are the backbone my sexuality. So a ciswomen would be a better alternative than a man.

>>41553406
Learn what? How to restructure all of my life experiences, sexuality and romantic interests at 33?

>>41553382
Being solely attracted to trannies sounds like hell

>>41553693
You'll learn what they're like.

The best time to fix your shit is yesterday. The second best time is now.

>>41553741
Fix what? There is nothing to fix. This is fucking weird lol, telling me to stop committing a sin and love a lie to myself with a ciswomen that I don't want. Detest vaginas by the way.

>>41553701
The hell is the rarity, the chances of meeting, the chances of them liking regular ol' me, the obstacle of being seen as genuine and not a chaser into being topped by them or experimenting because I'm attracted to them at all in the first place. Them not being fucking poly Transbian, them wanting a committed relationship. Regular straight dudes finding love is hardmode, I'm on Legendary unbeatable difficulty

the pain of the tranny who wants a guy who sees her as enough of a woman to want her after srs and yet understands her desire for adopting children is probably opposed to that for most men who'd date trannies and blablabla i get it i wont find love in this lifetime

>>41553895
I'm this cunt
>>41553865
>>41553382

And I very nearly became a stepdad after getting real close with a beautiful goth transwomen who had a daughter as the result of not using protection as a real young teen. Having kids wasn't in my plans, but with her I would have had no problem

happiness does not exist for trannies

>>41553951
True. Now you have to settle for me

>>41554086
whats yur shtick

>>41554149
Im not good enough for you. LOL
*shudders internally*

>>41553382
I'm so glad I'm attracted to cis women too. Only liking trannies as a straight dude really does sound like hell

>>41554289
>Only liking trannies as a straight dude
no such thing exists
a straight man likes cis women
only liking trannies is something that can only be the result of a huge porn addiction and maybe being a repping tranny

>>41544266 (OP)
I had a brief window an actual cute tranny fwb and it was nice. She was honestly the type that I would've jerked off to. She lived like 5 mins from me and was basically down to just chill in my apartment and hook up.

In the end she went a little crazy and it ended, but it was an amazing like 3 week period and I've been chasing that high ever since. It was probably the worst thing that could've happened to me because I've been chasing that high ever since and it seems to be an unrealistic expectation.

Most trannies are either just not that good looking, or want too much commitment, or just want money.

>>41554395
Trannies are always short term
enjoy them while you have them

>>41554359

>>41553382 here

Well first was attracted to emo femboys as my sexuality was forming in peak emo era and my first ever relationship was with one that transitioned, and that relationship was just rampant sex every day, never saw a drop of my own cum during my early 20s because she took it all while their body changed into a woman's, so that's my start. She's top whatever % onlyfans now. I've been with about 8/9 transwomen and 4/5 femboys so it's my life, not a porn addiction.

And the repping bit is something I just don't understand how that link is made, no, I really don't want to be a woman.

>>41554539
you don't like vaginas. you are not a straight man by any means.

>>41554563
Did I ever, ever, at any point say I'm straight?

With the hating vaginas, saying how happy I am breeding femboys and transgirls, listing the number of each type I've been with, wanting a solid relationship with someone like that and not live a lie with a ciswomen. What part of that says I believe I'm straight.

I dunno, Pansexual 'Chaser'who doesn't wanna be topped, doesn't want it short term, won't hide the relationship, in fact the opposite in that I have and had shown off the gorgeous transwomen I've picked up, doesn't wanna troon out

>>41554563
im metrosexual with vaginas. they have to have the right aesthetic. am i straight?

>>41554699
you are gay

>>41555016
There isn't a name for the hell I'm in in being attracted to 0.0001% of possible dating partners

>>41554539
Damn that sounds really hot. Who is she?

>>41544566
Eventually she realizes being "into men" was just a phase and joins a transbian polycule

>>41553951
this image is pain. i feel like misato when i think about him.

>>41555276
TRVKE
they always go transbian eventually

>>41553951
If you can live stealth at some point, maybe you can, otherwise I think not

>>41554699
I was like you, 4 suicides 2 disappears and many broken hearts later I just gaslit myself into finding pussies attractive and started dating cis women

>>41554149
sorry i already have a tranny gf (she tops me)

>>41555375
I'm very sorry about those experiences , I think you always did kinda find them attractive anyway I imagine at a subconscious level, probably spurred onto action by your trauma which is worse than what I've experienced which is just break ups. I'm attracted to alt/gothy transwomen like a straight man, and a very small percentage likes dick like a gay man, those two combined is me, and I've found no urge to stick my dick or put my mouth near a vagina ever. No unhappy lie of a compromise will be made for convenience, my past has definitely told me I cannot do things like that.

>>41555276
It was asexuality for my last ex instead of being a transbian poly freak. Honestly, could have the most gorgeous woman in the world who'd hoover the cum from me every day and if she said she'd only be with me in an open relationship I'd end it before it began.

>>41555818
Yeah, this is so true.
Nothing is a bigger red flag than someone being poly. Because it's not just sexual it's a sign of a very immature and selfish state of mind. Someone who wants a relationship for themselves without all the commitment and work that goes into maintaining such a relationship.

>>41555878
It's also them saying, 'no you aren't enough'. I'm not perfect, and have faults, despite that I can die knowing I've always been a great boyfriend, I go above and beyond and not having some other fucking dude stick his business into someone I think the world of while I'm at home, or see her go round to the house of the latest transgirl who just had to be a bit hot and clock her fingers to summon her

>>41544266 (OP)

I’m slowly starting to agree. I only had a crush and never asked her out but she had too much FOMO and was convinced if she just got all the surgeries life would be on easy mode. She got everything but bottom,multiple revisions on breasts and ass. Everything but the kitchen sink on face. Didn’t do anything she said she was going to do. For example going back to school ,switching to a service job like a waitress or something to focus on getting tips for being a pretty girl. She kept honestly hoping some well off guy (like six figures) was going to not going to save her but look passed the fact that she’s trans.

Never mind you the steep competition of gorgeous cis women/ trans who have better careers who would be in a room with these men to date because of similar fields or in the same hobbies. In her mind hanging out at bars like an escort is totally where he’s looking to find his wife.

>>41555818
For trannies "asexuality" usually just means that they're a coping transbian

>>41544295
FPBP
Why give validation to mentally ill, imitation women anyways?
I love trannies, but not enough to actually them IRL.
I'm fine with sexting them over discord and leaving it at that desu

>>41556393
*to actually fuck them IRL.

The natural consequence of living out extreme fetishes is often regret and disgust

>>41556393
This is what I do too

>>41544266 (OP)
Honestly, I refuse to have sex with transwomen out of pure spite because I believe they are intrinsically narcissistic.
Case in point:
Transwomen zealously proclaim themselves to be akin to biological women, right?
Okay- now, tell a transwoman that you, as a straight man, are sexually attracted to them.
They will laugh in your face and call you a faggot.
Transwomen are apparently only women when it suits them, and I find them viscerally repulsive and hypocritical.

>>41544266 (OP)

There will always be different types of people with different interests, I don’t judge bro... because they are also looking for that... it depends on what kind of person you want to look for... some seek a more serious relationship for the long term... and yes, I believe it’s possible to build a family with them.

>>41552850
Friends.

>>41544266 (OP)
i just cum tributed my first black tranny who happens to have a huge clitoris. my first one to im going to upload now.

i want to say im a disillusioned romantic but even now im a hopeless romantic. im a greek tragedy. fucking sad.