Thread 41556803

how did other transwomen meet their boyfriends? I feel like so many other tranners have boyfriends who support them while I'm over here being unlovable. I pass and have had FFS but I'm not sure how to meet anyone.

um
we don't really want you to pass too well
otherwise we can't find you

>>41556803 (OP)
real i am wondering too. it’s genuinely so amazing to me they can find boyfriends who care about them and see them as women i wish i had that so bad

>>41556813
sorry! i pass and im not gonna make myself clockier

>>41556822
pff ok
enjoy the gay panic

>>41556803 (OP)
How old are you and do you make good money? Chasers mainly prefer much younger women (18-22) who have, at best, a sporadic or inconsistent income stream. They want for their trans girlfriend to be their live-in pet who is wholly dependent on them.

t. a 30+ passoid tranny who has money but will never have a boyfriend

I found my bf on r9k thread! He really is a lovely boy, I love lying on his firm chest.

>>41556886
I just turned 24

>>41556906
Probably safer approach than the cointoss on getting raped by crackheads on tinder. Has the cultural compatibility too.

Turns out passing isn't enough: you also need a good personality. Sorry OP.

>>41556906
WHEN WILL IT BE MY TURN

>>41556803 (OP)
Idk what qualities are you looking for in a bf, what are interests that you have? Try to find people like that as opposed to trying to find a chaser and make it work

>>41556803 (OP)
i am a boy and i want a trans gf. are there any in canada?

>>41557115
Sorry we don't date children.

>>41557115
have you tried montreal or toronto. they seem to all be located there

>>41556886
My gf is 5 years older than me (35) and doesn't have money. Money part and age doesn't matter, you're just coping.

>>41557395
You missed my point. Chasers like trans women who have no money just like your girlfriend. When a trans woman has money, like me, that is a turn off to chasers. I'm not saying it instantly disqualifies anyone to everyone, very few things do, but it makes it more challenging.

>>41557426
Just date bi guys instead of chasers would be my suggestion

>>41557451
Nta and not mtf but bi guys are also very guilty of what nona is describing LOL
>t. been offered to be live in boywife by an unsettling amount of bisexual men as a guy in poverty

>>41557451
maybe i should just date bi guys who claim to see me as a woman so we dont have to worry about the whole calculus of who's a heterosexual here

>>41557395
What does she do for you? Most trans people I know are chronically unemployed due to being visibly trans and low libido.

>>41557467
Point taken, men are predatory. I was more speaking from the side of being a well off person not being able to find someone
>>41557474
Just get a guy that's bad at maths and you won't have to worry about that nor the money

>>41557497
im actually really good at managing money lol. if my hypothetical future bf trusts me with his future expenses we'd be okay but a lot of men would very fundamentally not give their tranny gf their finances (and thats ok btw. boundaries are healthy)

>>41556803 (OP)
I literally met my boyfriend on this board. We started talking on discord, playing games online together, next thing you know im sending him some nudes. We were good friends who fucked when I visited. Then after a few months we started dating, and I live with him now.

>>41557505

do u live near him ?

>>41557505
>on this board
frengen or a random thread? you struck gold wtfff

>>41556803 (OP)
I am going on a date with a guy from uni next friday. Though he is not aware I am a tranny, he might just hate me after the date.

>>41557372
yes but i have no found any

>>41557597
Git strapped
He might bludgeon your tranny male body and scream how he's not gay and run off

>>41557869
Uhm I don't think so because I am slightly taller and his hands are tiny for a guy.

>>41556803 (OP)
We met through a discord group which started as a general on /adv/. Now we've been dating IRL for 3 years and have been living together for over a year now. For perspective, we met online 4 years before we started dating.

>>41556886
>Has money
Take care of me mommy, I'll be your house husband

>>41558428
Where from?

>>41558443
Northeast US...
Am I getting rused?! I was just shitposting expecting backlash.

>>41558443
Nta but submitting backup application if you are near me instead (LA, 31, not fat)

>>41556803 (OP)
i met mine on a gay furry thread on 4chan 11 years ago. as of 4 days ago hes my husband.

>>41556813
I'm a boymoder, please notice me already

>>41561072
Your dick still work?

>>41564042
Mhm

>>41564332
Well, I'm noticing you then