Thread 41586310

>be me, some years ago
>tranny but didn't know it
>try hard to prove self and mostly succeed
>fail when it comes to dating
>never an incel but certainly butthurt by it
>also mildy brainrotted by other boards

>realize dysphoria, work at it, then forced to hide it
>around 6mo on hrt
>topic of dating comes up in friend hangout
>suddenly feel like shit again


i hate myself for being bad at it and getting no bitches, but also every attempt to get bitches left me extremely irritated and disinterested

i'm kind of in a weird position that i'm hoping one of you could help me out with

combine this with the rhetoric about trannies on other boards and i sometimes wonder if i failed as a man, and if the gender dysphoria is cope or brain damage from being this bad at dating, idk

why does it bother me so much? i don't know exactly but it feels strongly related to the fact that i'm trans

>>41586310 (OP)
how old are you
i dont think not being able to date makes you a failed man. I think it's rather the opposite way

>>41586310 (OP)
dating is cringe

>>41586373
i'm 26

>I think it's rather the opposite way
not sure what you mean by this

>>41586565
bumping

when did this board get so fast

i sucked dating girls too, realized i was gay and trans, i met a lot of men, it's so fucking easy and naturalllllll, i know i also attract girls and even now with a lot of experience i still suck trying to date a girl, im such a failed male, but it helps me to realize my path is only with men, i must stay away from chicks :)

>>41586310 (OP)
>>tranny but didn't know it
trender alert
trender alert
if you didn't know you were the opposite sex from your sex asab then you're a fucking scab. trans is not the identity. please fuck off.

>>41588221
stfu

>>41588221
>tranny but didn't know it
this doesn't necessarily have to be about exploring my identity

in my case it was repression to the point of literal insanity but somehow not being able to connect trans feelings to being trans

i kind of still can't, even though the dysphoria has changed to something else, i kind of actively have to remind myself i'm not a cis dude. it's hard to explain

>>41589044
bumping, i don't want to go to reddit

>>41589044
>>41589330
I don't know what you want us to say, you sound trans to me

>>41588221
you'll pass soon! Just give it time...

>>41586310 (OP)
just date men