>>41590141 (OP)
This is kind of hard to explain but any given trait on its own doesn't really matter, it isn't really masculine or feminine in of itself. What matters is the overall vibe you give off, which then flips a switch to make all your traits perceived as masculine or feminine. Basically as long as you're giving off enough feminine signifiers, your honny traits will get overlooked, this is what people miss when discussing passing.
>>41590404
In reality, men and women don't actually look that different, especially men's and women's faces. The differences are fairly minute, people just perceive these vast differences because they've already categorised someone as a man or a woman.