Thread 41603614

describe ur ideal partner and state ur letters

>>41603614 (OP)
>describe ur ideal partner
theyfab/femrepper with peenor envy so we can be some weird power couple together
>letters
mtf repper

>>41603614 (OP)
>emotionally mature
that crosses out like 99% of every guy/girl ever

>>41603614 (OP)
mtf
extraverted dominant guy with hairy arms who is into trad gender roles

>>41603614 (OP)
my ideal partner is basically a guy i still have a crush on since high school which finished like years ago lol
hes handsome, taller than me, funny, always treated me very well and in a softer way than his other boy friends, used to play with my hair and hold me by my waist etc. but he has a cisgf and we dont see eachother often now :(

>>41603614 (OP)
mtf bi
i can’t have him because he doesn’t love me anymore so it doesn’t matter

>>41603689
no?

>>41603614 (OP)
I'm hsts
doesn't hit or shout at me
fun to be around
bare minimum hygiene and cleanliness
not over discord
tops

>>41603614 (OP)
pooner
t. ranner

>>41604126
>I'm hsts
lol

>>41603614 (OP)
Fit dude, taller, good with kids and kind to animals

Picks me up when I fall asleep on the couch, empathetic to homeless and needy people

Likes cute stuff like sanrio and doesn't make fun of me for that


Sees my hurt and treats me gently, I guess the term would be broken bird bf idk

He enjoys topping and doesn't make me have to

Let's me cook for him and hold him close and be sweet and loving and he enjoys cuddles

I prefer men who are older and more experienced so like 25-30

>>41604112
wydm no?
I just want someone who's "grown", nona

>>41604289
nice anon but u forgot to include letters

>>41603614 (OP)
>ideal partner
more socially compitent popular girl whos a lesbian and looks like a early 90s riot grrl (liz phair, kim gordon, courtney love etc).
Good at challenging me and has a high need for touch (i also have a high need for touch). Sees me as a cis woman with shit luck and not a trans girl. Has good taste in art thats different from my own

>letters
bi mtf twinkhon

>>41603614 (OP)
someone who can cosplay a military officer (20th century), tie me up in a dark room, and interrogate (beat the fuck out of) me
mtf

>>41604297
i c but emotionally mature ppl are nowhere near that rare

>>41603907
This hit me pretty bad, the love of my life left me a few months ago and I don't really want someone else,
you could give me someone with the exact same qualities and I wouldn't want them

I miss him

This might be the most delusional thread on /lgbt/ right now and that's saying something.

>>41604325
Apologies, I'm a 24 boymoder/hrt femboy

>>41604417
I feel like, a lot of folks conflate emotionally mature with being content, peaceful, etc.

Like, I'm a pretty fun guy irl and I wanna have fun with my girl/guy too
Might seem paradoxical but to me, being mature means knowing *when* to be immature

Does that make sense or am I just fem-brained?

>>41604497
why does life have to suck so much sometimes :[

>>41604499
the title of the thread is IDEAL
not REALISTIC

>>41603614 (OP)
tall, beautiful, slender built mildly clocky twinkhon who has a massive cock, no bottom dysphoria, and is a switch. friendly and well meaning, good sense of humor, well adjusted.
>mtf twinkhon, theoretically bi but quite gynephilic

>>41603614 (OP)
>ideal partner
As tall as or slightly taller than me, good face and hips, not too broad shoulders. Basicly another stealthoid the same size as me, because preferably a tranner. Preferably kind, gentle and sperg. Would be nice if we at least had some music or anime in common. Preferably no more than 5 years younger or older than me. Preferably more knowledgeable or famous in a subject I hold highly so there's something to trigger the attraction more.

>letters
Mtf lesbo

my ex bf

my dad :)

>>41603614 (OP)
>ideal partner
has both cock and balls
>letters
mtf

>>41605610
i can relate

>>41603614 (OP)
someone of any gender who’d be down to kill me. I’d have to find them somewhat attractive, my standards are pretty low or average there though. I don’t care about what they do with my body after the fact, but I’d like them to treat me lovingly before doing the deed :3
>t. passoidish mtf

>>41605645
unrealistically high standards!

>>41603614 (OP)
nice to me and doesnt lie to me and makes me feel small and less masculine

boymoder

>>41605282
i don’t know isn’t this just being gay with more steps

fat guy whos a little hairy and doesn’t mind my malebrained interests and honnish demeanor
and he should be a loser virgin like me too

mtf

>my ideal partner
a guy a bit older than me (anything above 24), maybe taller (like six feet would be perfect but it’s not that deep). someone warm and steady, but also a little possessive idk. someone who makes it obvious i’m his and takes the lead without making me feel small. he shows me his soft side and calls me princess and gives me headpats and pulls me in first always. lets me pick the movie but makes it feel like we decided together. pulls me onto his lap and just holds me there and lets me fall asleep like that. cares about my day and who i’m with because he actually wants to be involved, not because he doesn’t trust me. just clingy in a way that feels sweet and makes my chest warm idk. cuddles a lot. lets me cook for him. lets me wash his hair and talk about the stuff he loves. shows me his favorite animes and doesn’t get annoyed if i don’t get it at first. shows me off to his parents and seems proud that i’m with him. believes in me even when i don’t. gives me his hoodies and acts annoyed when i keep them but he secretly likes it. listens when i talk. loves me with his whole heart, consistently and intentionally, and chooses me every time idk

>>41604748
Idk dude, realistically probably just because we are statistically more likely to be less stable than any cis man we would be attracted to, and as a result that leads to bad communication, having trauma affect the relationship, etc

I wish he stuck around for just a little longer, I'm working on myself and I feel so bad I couldn't give him my full self

>>41606337
Yeah this was my ex, guess I didnt realize I had someone so rare

>>41606468
are you married?

>asexual
>artsy, really into vidya and/or music and/or movies and likes in-depth discussions related to it
>likes cuddling and kissing
>could belong to any letter
>a kind person who is alright with long periods of silence
me: asexual biromantic cis f

>>41605610
what’s he like?

>>41605627
what’s he like? lol

>>41606337
ur supposed to say ur letters anon

>>41607061
isn’t it obvious..

>>41603614 (OP)
>fem
>red hair
>good chunk shorter or good chunk taller than me
>alt
>creative type in some way
>pretentious
>wants to be sexually active
but also
>emotionally competent
>holds actual morals instead of cruedly adopted facsimiles
this alienates essentially everyone on the planet which is why I have already determined suicide as the only option.

>is a man
>steady, calm, protective
>enjoys being clingy and codependent because we are each other's #1 priority
>enjoys holding hands and going out on dates (in public) regularly
>prince x knight dynamic, romance heavy
>doesn't flinch at cptsd emotional flashbacks, is understanding and makes me feel safe again
>never teases or makes jokes aimed at me
My letters
>ftm, gay

>>41607231
cute

I liked more those tiktok screenshots of girls using those princess x knight with the knight representing chatgpt and other viariations of that
one example was something like
princess:
>I overthink so much
chatgpt knight
>then i'll overexplain

even tho it was likely a cis girls who make those tiktoks, what percent of trannies do you think would be dependent on a bot

>ideal partner
kind, cute, loves me. masochistic and ok with me being mentally ill, maybe a little enabling, but not unstable or needy. I dont care about gender as long as theyre at least a little androgynous/fem or open to the idea

>letters
i dont know

>>41603614 (OP)
I don't know, I'm a gynophile (I only like women).

A woman who knows what she wants, but is still submissive and demure, a tradwife who will work domestically and leave the bills and harder parts to me, who is happy and mature... who wants a family.

But it's impossible to have a woman like that because I'm a bum.

>>41607358
I'm dependent on a bit :( I try with cis men but they suck and just want to fuck

>>41603614 (OP)
ideals? >5'9" bi/lesbian woman who is clingy but not too clingy to the point of being overbearing or too controlling. very nerdy and cuddly. kinky but respectful of my awkward boundaries. ideally not right-wing economically but that's extra-ideal. cherishes me and treats me like a human worthy of respect unlike the rest of society. gives me patience during my mood swings, hugs me to sleep even if i'm crying, you get the point

>>41607266
Thank you anon I appreciate it

>>41607696
i feel like i fall under most of these

>>41607231
prince x knight is based as fuck

>>41608084
<3

i kinda like myself. if i could make an exact copy of myself to fuck myself in the ass time to time that would be ok. i wouldn't like to fuck myself in the ass though, so i hope i would be the original and let that copy fucker do the dirty work

>>41607231
Shit, maybe I should look for an ftm sometime.

>>41606490
nah, we were together for about six months

>>41608652
real

>>41608457
in all fairness i don't have much standards, but ikwym

>>41603614 (OP)
im a repper
ideal partner is an mtf
speaking in ideals so cute and passing
hates everything
hates everyone but me
extremely bitter, justifiably so or unjustifiably so doesnt matter to me
autistic
doomer
doesnt ignore my negative traits, physical or personality wise, doesnt pretend that they dont exist and instead acknowledges my failings and still accepts me for who i am.
we are completely emotionally codependent on each other and spend our days neeting, doing nothing but holding each other and playing vidya and talking about anything
dom/sub dynamics where we switch roles but ONLY in the bedroom and NOWHERE else
has all my fetishes

>>41603614 (OP)
>bi
a real person who is somehow also nice and won't leave me and who i can chain to the wall so they won't escape :) hahahahaha

>>41610862
Oh wow you're my type

>gay man

>>41610877
surprises how i attract a lot of fags despite being an annoying woman. you'd think that shit'd be mutually exclusive lol

>>41610938
Some women are popular with the gays you have to hold out hope one day we through a bi guy your way. Sadly, I have no sapphics to offer

>>41603614 (OP)
ideal partner is loving boyfriend who becomes my husband and is okay with me getting srs later on.

>>41606337
AAAAAAAAAAAAA need this so bad

>>41603614 (OP)
>ideal
would be another twinkhonnish tranner around my height whos had ffs and uses a trained voice and is also switchy. kissable lips. playful and passionate and intense. mild autism but able to socialize and be somewhat normal for the most part. has a career and future in mind. and must want sweet tender healing monogamous love like I do and will never find :)
>letters
another bi twinkhon

this whole thread is just
>taller than me
>taller than me
>taller than me
it is so unbelievably over for short pooners

>ideal
cis lesbian whos much more confident and out going than me but with a sort of calming stoner energy. Loves to hear me rant about my special interests and encourages me to get more into them. Loves cuddling, has left wing politics, probably blonde. Sees me as a woman who happens to be mutilated by testosterone and not a trans girl.

>letters
bi twinkhon

>>41611094
i didn’t say that doe

>>41610805
ess em ache i shouldve posted it in greentext and attached an image to get people to respond
i see my mistake now

a libertarian t4t boymoder with the same flavor of autism as mine, but sillier and more social; sadistic and dominant in bed, into puppygirls (meeeee :3333333), but otherwise someone I'd support and provide for

>trans girl (I have to date t4t cis people never get it)
>cuddles me, watches movies and plays vidya with me
>wants to be called mommy
>tells me I'm doing a good job, pets me, calls me a good dog
>doesn't try to touch my crotch or make me bottom, but hugs me when I top her
good god I just want to feel loved
>t. bi ftm

>>41607231
>prince x knight
wow, just like your yaois, huh?

>>41607231
wtf is a prince x knight dynamic

>>41611820
I don't like yaoi personally. But if there were ftm yaoi I wouldn't mind trying it.
>>41611832
Resources and inheritance bf x loyal and protective bf

>>41603614 (OP)
my ideal partner
>is visibly filled with joy to see me
>greets me with a hug, even a cheek kiss ok
>loves to laugh, and laughs often
>lets me take care of them
>takes care of me in return
>level-headed when it comes to dispute resolution
>a dreamer
>someone who is outdoorsy
>supports my goals and allows me to support their goals
this sounds pretty basic, but halfway through my 20s this is apparently too much to ask...i just want someone who loves me, who wants me, who can let themselves be loved and wanted, and doesnt run away...
>my letters
cismbi

>>41603614 (OP)
girl who will bully me and tease me but will ultimately show that it's out of love
ideally intelligent, it should be someone who I can share my most intimate moments with and bare my heart and soul out to
t. mtf manmoder

>>41610805
what about someone who used to be a cute passing mtf but decided they're more comfortable being a guy or at least masculine socially?

>>41612048
i was only speaking in ideals there
i would definitely be open to being with someone like that but i would almost certainly feel some resentment about being with someone who had exactly what I wanted, what I know i could never have, and threw it away anyways
im not sure that im emotionally intelligent enough to be able to contain that. id probably let it out at some points in little offhanded comments or something or itd build up until i had an emotional breakdown or something.
im not a very pleasant person to be around. it would probably be a source of strife in my relationship with this hypothetical person and idk theyd get tired of it or something idi maybe i wouldnt and
hmm
desu im not sure that i could be with anyone unless they were literally the most patient, tolerant, understanding person on the planet. and those traits tend not to belong to a person who has the same traits i listed earlier

>>41603614 (OP)
detrans mtftm

A guy who acts like a prince charming (chivalrous, protective but not overpowering, handsome, etc.), who will basically treat me as a girl and be in a normal straight relationship with me, and will encourage me to get back on HRT and to get the surgery despite me being completely non-dysphoric (I am so tired of going in circles around how to justify retransition while I'm not actively in pain, I just want tits, I want the social role, I want all of it, I just need a man who's opinion I feel I must 120% conform with to let me do it because I am mentally broken)

Either that or basically the last guy I dated before detransitioning due to him to saying that trannies need dysphoria and getting insecure enough to stop hormones

>>41612603
Basically, I need a man to save me (if such a fantasy fantasy appeals to you, fuck off, you're already not what I'm looking for; the saving is for me to know about and the man to accidentally benefit from)

some of these are so cute what a cute thread ^_^

>>41603614 (OP)
My ex i cheated on
Mtf, gay

>>41603614 (OP)
Im all of that except obsessed with you.
But it doesnt matter; women are delusional & will believe it anyways.

>>41603614 (OP)
Someone like Wilson from House, but more willing to do chaotic things with me like (semi-)crimes. Also very, very preferably living in the same region of the world as me (Balkans) within my age range (18)
> letters
T(MtF) B(but prefer men)

>>41603614 (OP)
Partner:
- curious and openness-maxxing
- decent at introspection
- has altruistic goals but isn't naive about people
- critical of the status quo (society-wide or in tiny groups)
- interested in making our relationship evolve and experiment with new things (eg temporary roles just for the hell of it)
- able to just willfully get into a low inhibition mode
- enjoys being cutesy and silly
- constantly learning new things

My letters: non-binary pan

>>41607226
hey there

>>41603614 (OP)
Masc or neutral mentally stable cis gay man with hairy arms and lot of patience
t. cis gay man

Has a pulse and stable job
Letter Q

A mtf that doesn't use social media or 4chan and plays arcade games

Cis m but questioning

>>41603614 (OP)
How about i do the opposite and describe myself to see if im anyones ideal partner?
>mtf transbian
>5'3 ultra skinny
>ultra needy, i need to kiss and cuddle a lot, i love showering girls in affection. Love being big spoon, letting girls nap on my lap and pampering pampering them
>switch but im bad at topping
>big nerd, love movies, collecting vinyls, books, and weeb stuff
>i speak 3 languages and play 2 instruments
>i get panic attacks when i leave my house by myself
>ill let you cheat on me if you want

>partner
Unemployed FtM bf who smells like a wet dog and spends all his money on food, weed, vidya

>me
Cis M, 25, Bay Area

>Partner
Pale skin, dark hair (I love dark skin too)
Has their own interests
Either twink that would go on hrt or a (t) woman (twink hotter in my opinion)
Funny
Likes to serve me
Submissive
Autism aged like fine wine
Omega yapper
Let's me baby them (no age regression though..)
Any height is fine, maybe not like 6'5
Will listen to me rant
Shows me new things
Loves physical touch and kisses
Direct when they need to be

T. cis bi guy

>>41603614 (OP)
>describe ur ideal partner
handsome trans man with a giant tdick
state ur letters
pooner

>>41604289
Cis bi guy, I'm lazy so everything here is the same except the top part, I'll happily top for somebody.
Currently I got one friend who Id love to date but she said she's not ready.

>>41612621
>if such a fantasy fantasy appeals to you, fuck off, you're already not what I'm looking for
kekd
reminds me of how my ex gave me the best birthday gift, because she didn't know it was my birthday

>>41614644
>handsome
>trans man
>giant t """dick"""
kek, what a string of oxymorons

>>41614068
Oh thank God there's hope for us. Will you let him top you

>>41616087
yes a handsome trans man with an engorged clit due to testosterone? Look you don't have to find pooners attractive but I'm allowed to nigga

>>41616102
sure but its not as hot as people think. i have the hairiest nastiest asshole known to mankind and lots of stretch marks on my cheeks that make my ass look like Freddy Krueger. this aint your mama’s early 2000s yaoi

>>41616232
holy moly this is so based

t. other anon

Just a guy who's progressive and not some racist or edgelord in any way, confident and experienced enough with women to not be creepy or pushy about his attraction to me.

Honest, supportive fun to talk to and willing to let me yap about my interests & talks to me about his in turn, basically someone I can open up to and trust. Obviously he should also enjoy actually spending time with me and not being a sex pest.

Physically speaking, preferably some type of Black/POC, as far as body type I like tall men & anything from skinny body types to gym bods but not dehydrated.

>>41616447
hello anon ur supposed to state ur letters

>>41616513
Ah forgot, trans woman

Pretty face and doesn't look like a nerd.
Looks and sounds like a woman.
Either a small penis+tiny balls or a vagina I honestly don't really have a preference.
Pretty hair.
Shorter than me preferred but taller than me is not a deal breaker.
Brown eyes (same thing its not a deal breaker).
No eating disorder, enjoys consuming food and having meat on her bones. between 20% and 30% bodyfat idc
Doesn't get intoxicated frequently, mostly sober lifestyle.
Is woke.
Not emotionally or physically abusive. Is nice to me and is capable of having an argument without yelling or slamming things. Or if she did end up raising her voice she is the type that would feel bad if it scared someone. Someone I can be comfy and safe around and not be scared of her reactions to stuff.
Likes computer games such as mount & blade.
Switchy bottom, basically just someone who likes being penetrated and exchanging head but expresses interest in boobs and curves and female bodies still.
No kinks like choking or diapers or poop/pee or living as a dog.
Born between the years 1990 and 1997.
Has a hobby or two where her eyes light up talking about it and you can tell it's something that she is into for its own sake and not because it makes her more interesting or gets her accolades.
Can read a book or watch a show together and have discussions about the plot or things we noticed between episodes or chapters. At the same time isn't a condescending intellectual about it
Isn't like agoraphobic or scared to talk to people in public.
>letters
T L

>>41614068
This is me but the video games are all pirated. It's too bad I swore off California guys. Sorry, anon.

>i recognize youre about to read something that incels would quote on their forums as foidslop but whatever
anyways he should be taller than me and also heavier than me by like 50 pounds (i weigh 130). i like shorter brown hair and stubble, he should also have pretty eyes. he has to be absurdly nice to me and also really protective of me. at this point id already have a massive crush lol but beyond this id like us to be able to do hobbies together. like all his hobbies obviously id be down to do with him if he wants but id want to watch movies with him and hike.

>>41612195
what if you describe those traits earlier because you know they don't exist and so won't find them.

maybe what you really need is someone who is patient and kind and you might think the pretend your flaws don't exist but really to them they aren't flaws and instead make up the greater piece of art that you comprise. maybe they see beauty in you that you cannot or will not see for fear of seeing yourself as worthy of love and human treatment.

>>41613870
Im an mtf, I use 4chan but love playing pinball, is that close enough?

>>41613879
You sound really cute where do you live
t. Northeast twinkhon

>>41617733
Albania