Thread 41606041

From a utilitarian perspective, more people are happy if we rep than if we troon.

>>41606041 (OP)
>people are more happy
why are /tttt/rannies so pickme and people pleasing?

>>41606041 (OP)
>fiancé of seven years
>”they’re selfish because they’re transgender”

from a non retard perspective if people didnt feel the need to rep this wouldnt happen

you used to have this shit happen with gay men, now that you can fuck guys in the streets of LA it doesnt happen any more

wifes fault for being part of the problem
also from a retard autist view they all ready had kids, they would of just bee more happy if she lived with it

>>41606142
Yep its exactly like with gay men

>>41606109
fembrain lol

reppers are unironically more genuinely fembrained than trannies

>>41606156
why do /tttt/rannies label all the worst personality traits as fembrained?

is the answer malebrain?

>>41606167
its misogyny

>>41606142
But once you're past a certain point you have to just keep going. Or you'll ruin everything.

>>41606041 (OP)
>utilitarian
Sorry I'm not a cringe socialist

>utilitarian
the world doesn't need more depressed alcoholics

>>41606041 (OP)
You being miserable from repping will make the people around you miserable

>>41606041 (OP)
tak3 ur pills bike cuck

>>41606184
or the bitch can get a divorce and get a new man
and the x... husband can go off and live as a tranny

getting a divorce doesn't just fuck up your lif, and when it does its normally... the man who gets fucked over

50% of marriages end in a divorce

guarantee you the poster in op’s pic is a boomer xdd

>>41606041 (OP)
repression makes you a worse and more hollow version of yourself for the people in your life

>>41606221
Not if I rep hard enough.

>>41606229
You'd rather abandon your kids and the love of your life to be a gigahon?

>>41606274
So you either become depressed and ruin everyone's lives, or you troon out and ruin everyone's lives. Great choices there.

>>41606156
>selflessness is fembrained
lol. lmao even

>>41606274
things seemed to be just fine between him and his wife and like everyone else while he was "repressing"

>>41606285
YES
realistically the bitch just married him for retarded reasons anyways
and the wife is at as much fault for not accepting him
even though she literally agreed to stay with him no matter what when she married him

>>41606041 (OP)
>should have held it in for the rest of my life
Or you should have come out *before* trying to marriage trap some cis woman so you can troon out and act like a slighted victim for a situation that was entirely preventable if you had developed an ounce of self awareness at any point in your male privileged life. god I fucking hate transbians

>>41606330
odds are a women is going to marriage trap the man, men dont want to get married because marriage is a fucking trap that only works in favor of women

wow annon you make so much money, lets get me pregnant and married as fast as possible

>>41606330
I wish I did that, life would have been so easy. Have her pay for everything when lose my job from trooning. But I couldn't live with a woman as a partner.

happiness of one tranny is worth more than happiness of a billion cissoids

>>41606355
she would never say that

>>41606142
>wifes fault for being part of the problem
how is any of this her fault?
i dont understand

>>41606532
reppers are afraid to come out because the average person would treat them like shit
odds are she was one of those people who contributed to it
reppers wouldnt exist if the average person wouldnt lose their shit and being trans was just a normal thing

also marriages are usually pressured onto the man, likely too early

>>41606697
her repper fiance lied to her about his gender for at least 7 years
it's perfectly understandable that she would lose attraction to him after he came out

>odds are she was one of those people who contributed to it
he doesnt say she treated him like shit
he said she supported him at first and tried to make it work but couldnt handle it
did you actually read the post, or did you go schizo and invent an entire storyline for all of this in your head?

>>41606898
ok your points are all true but have you considered women are evil and when bad stuff happens to men as a result of their own choices that it’s actually the fault of all women? i bet not!

>>41606320
Expecting someone to accept such a massive change is unreasonable.

>>41606320
i hope you get locked in a marriage one day and then the person transitions into something you dont find attractive too then

im sorry for not repressing anymore
i know im making the world worse by being ugly and a stunted retard and existing in the world within the gaze of normal people, im in manmode so its ok for now but im sorry

>>41606041 (OP)
This is the issue with reppers. Should never have dated someone without disclosing your dysphoria and ensuring if you ever did transition they would still love you

>>41606041 (OP)
I'm new here. Does "repping" mean farting?

>>41606355
What is that one tranny has cum in their ass?

>>41606041 (OP)
>not being sexually/romantically attracted to female aesthetics/women as a cishet woman is LE EVIL
Wtf? I'm gonna have to side with >>41608725 on this issue. I don't see the problem with someone falling out of love with their spouse if they weren't honest about themselves or their identity.
The amount of people here who were dating a "cis" person that later ended up transitioning because of them, and feeling frustrated by it or breaking up with them because of that, makes this highly hypocritical.
You can still love someone without engaging in romantic or sexual matters, but to expect 100% full commitment from a straight (unlikely bi) partner after coming out is unreasonable desu.

Maybe the troon just didn’t realize she was a troon when they started dating. Back in my day they didn’t have genderbread and pronoun introductions in schools. Gay was state of the art.

>>41606041 (OP)
>From a utilitarian perspective, more people are happy if we rep than if we troon
my thought process from 0-25 and then i got mad at everyone in my life for being unappreciative of me so i decided to be selfish.
i still dont know if i made the right of choice

>>41609609
Okay but there are good people in my life. I couldn't do that to my parents, or my old friends.

>>41606186
You don't gotta be a socialist. Do you have people you care about in this life? Are you socialist if you want them to be happy?

>>41609795
not saying i was justified or that its a good idea. its just the choice i made because i guess i couldn't be the 'bigger man'. genuinely good luck with ur life

>>41606041 (OP)
This is literally the theory behind the "traditional"/non-woke society, in any collectivist system forcing people to rep is the correct action as it maximizes total happiness. 99+% of people are confused by gender shiggydiggy, and all of the people around the troon are happier on a personal level if the troon reps. So the equation legitimately works out to crushing the troon's soul into a tiny charred ball, this isn't hate or anything, it's just the natural result if you consider the consequences of the trooning action with all its externalities.

>>41606041 (OP)
how tf do you have a fianceé of seven years, an engagement is supposed to last LESS THAN a year, holy fuck

>>41606221
>>41606274
Honcope, the people around you are actively happier if you repress. "Thank God he got over that phase!", they'll say.

I mean think about this: like 80% of suicides shock the ppl around the suicider, they think it came outta nowhere, they had no idea he was miserable etc etc
You think when people can't even tell someones suicidally depressed that repping misery is even gonna make the needle tremble? It's not, they can't tell, they prefer you like that over being an obvious hon.

>>41606156
trvke

>>41606041 (OP)
>From a utilitarian perspective, more people are happy if we rep than if we troon.
Unless you're hot and intact.

>>41610529
If they started dating seven years ago and became engaged six months ago, how would you describe the situation?

>>41612915
>hot tranny
oxymoron

>>41606041 (OP)
my exgf is my best friend. she's supper supportive of my transition but she once said that she did resent a bit that i took so long to come out to her and start transitioning. repping is only selfless is you take it to your grave, otherwise the more you wait the worse it gets when you finally do transition.
also. i feel like it's important to point out, that not transition doesn't necessarily mean happy ever after. it probably just means a different kind of sad ending.

>>41612922
NAYRT but you either say "my fiancée of six months" or "my girlfriend of seven years" depending on what you want to emphasize.

>>41606898
>her repper fiance lied to her about his gender for at least 7 years
The repper might not have known themselves
Also cis people never "disclose" what they are, and most cis women wouldn't bat an eye at other cis women acting masculine. It's really just amabs that get poIiced this hard

>>41606041 (OP)
This is why you rep, and primarily date switches.
Any good hetero woman wants to peg a cute dude with a nice ass, and then let them be the small spoon after.
Any woman not willing to do that isn't worth your time.

These women are also often into chastity, which can also develop into forced feminization so :3

>>41612948
I feel like for me, coming out would be disappearing to Thailand for a few months to a year, and getting all the gender affirming surgeries before reappearing as a hot chick

>>41613564
i would be on hrt for a few years before getting any surgery. but if you can afford this and you think it's the best course of action for you then go ahead. i think it's better to transition with a support network desu

>>41606041 (OP)
From a utilitarian perspective gangrape is good

>>41613764
trvke

>>41610689
Exactly. Even if they can tell you're trans, most women would prefer a man rep for the wellbeing of his children than troon out for his own selfish desires.

>>41606041 (OP)
you cannot self immolate for 60 years

>>41616186
I think what they'd really prefer is if the guy trooned out BEFORE marrying them and having kids to avoid the entire situation.

>>41616218
Watch me.

>>41616219
No one wants to marry a troon. We're a threat to children in most people's eyes. Unless you're like, Hunter Schafer it's more noble to rep and save others from having to deal with the misery.

>>41606041 (OP)
This is only true if repping had no negative effects. Being depressed, anxious, stressed, or an unemployed bedrotter will lead to bad relationships and self medication with harmful substances. A happy self actualized transitioned person will be a kinder, more productive member of society

>>41616439
That's only if you don't rep properly. An honest to god dedicated repper will never let dysphoria get to him. If you really cared about the people around you you would find a way to kill the mindworms for their sake.

>>41616239
>No one wants to marry a troon. We're a threat to children in most people's eyes. Unless you're like, Hunter Schafer it's more noble to rep and save others from having to deal with the misery.
By repping, you're forcing people to marry you and CONDEMNING them to misery. Whereas if you troon, people can go for you or not.

>>41616239
>No one wants to marry a troon
Not nobody, but yeah I'd rather troon and be single than become a miserable married with kids repping "man"
People find gender dysphorics creepy either way, you're just hiding it if you rep

>>41616917
girl. whatever

>>41616940
Okay but what about your parents and your friends and your coworkers? Are you going to condemn them to watch you turn into Buffalo Bill?

>>41616953
It's not creepy if you rep. Dysphoria is a dangerous affliction and pushing it down is noble. Engaging with it is selfish. Acting the way you were supposed to act even with the parasite telling you otherwise isn't creepy at all.

>>41616975
>It's not creepy if you rep. Dysphoria is a dangerous affliction and pushing it down is noble
No. If you are a 40 year old man and you tell someone you've always wished you were a woman they will find you creepy, even if you tell them you're suppressing your urges to be a good man. It is akin to suppressing pedophilic urges in terms of stigma. You just don't generally tell anyone because they would find it creepy.

>>41617048
So don't tell them? Seems simple as hell. If you tell them it's a trap and they'll start wanting to know more and it'll all come out. You should go to your grave being the only one who ever knew you had this illness.

>>41617120
The point is that it's inherently creepy to most people and repping is seen as noble by no one but the repper

>>41617251
If a man had schizophrenia, most people would see him as weird for letting it happen and heroic for doing anything he could to spare others. Same here.

>>41617360
If a man had pedophilia, most people would see suppression of his urges as the bare minimum, and think suicide would be more appropriate. Same applies here.

>>41606109
because they will try to kill us for transitioning
you can feel it when you step outside. theyre angry at us and want to hurt us

>>41606041 (OP)
maybe just dont date a straight girl if you know you're trans

I wish I wasnt so selfish!!!!

>>41617884
or you can not be a coward and live authentically like you were born to do. who gives a fuck if people want to kill you for it, you don't see black people staying in their homes bc racists want to lynch them