Thread 41636928

Why do I prefer cute failgirl twinkhons to socially well-adjusted passoids?

>>41636928 (OP)
cuz women are retarded and annoying so u prefer malebrained autists

>>41636941
this might be a trvke

>>41636928 (OP)
Hopefully you prefer people with a klean or disorganized room to the room in the pik

>>41636960
In the past unfortunately no, I've fucked in the nastiest femcel rooms imaginable: But I've gained some self respect in the last 2 years so clean room is the bare minimum.

>>41636998
?Why not do it at your plase then
Also ?what about autistik twinkhons that put in a lot of effort and transform into a passoid while youre with them
Ngl I think having a bf who is with me for most of my transition ,and sees (and helps) me go from a twink with boobs to a proper woman would be pretty epik

>>41636928 (OP)
I've realised that in myself that though it is a genuine preference, it's rooted in insecurity.
Being with someone who's a totally dependent mess really asks very little of you. They may ask alot of you in terms of attention and reassurance but they don't challenge you to develop much beyond the role of a caretaker. Being with someone who's striving towards their dreams might challenge your ego and sense of security in the relationship, knowing they could probably trade you out if they desired to.
If you've got abandonment issues, or if your self esteem is dependent on superficial or external factors like work/income/looks etc. Then you don't really have a foundation of innate self worth to build any of that stuff on top of and it becomes only a very fragile situation. Perhaps you only want a simple, slow, gentle life because a higher pace scares you and you just crave that comfort. Then you'll be looking for someone who's after the same thing.
It's all issues with trust/control and issues with self esteem and motivation.
If you've got a girl who's striving. Never get in her way. Support her, encourage her and be ready to let her fly.

>>41636928 (OP)
Do any transbian passoids want a pathetic ex-neet unlovable girlfailure.....?

>>41637036
doesnt exist. Your behaviour will never pass if you are autismbrained

>>41637064
Autistik women exist bozo
I knew at least one female giga autist from middle skool

>>41637036
i would have no problem if she became a passoid, i'm just noticing that i get along better with the autistic girltwinks. i think that's a nice dream too nona i'd love to be that bf for some girl out there.

>>41637048
i think you might be right in part too. the way i have shown up as a caregiver for dependent cis and trans girl has been erotic, but definitely not good relationships. giving me something to think about.

>>41637064
cis girl autists femalefail behaviorally too so actually she would be passing

>>41637087
>>41637110
And still nobody likes these cis autistic women. Besides, they have girl autism (you) are amab and this have boy autism. Hrt will not give you girl autism.

>>41636928 (OP)
roflmao.... "failgirl twinkhon" in chasoid speak MEANS a 10/10 stacy passoid who is slightly tall or something... and "quirky" of course, and you only FANTASISE about a poorly-adjusted tranny so you have someone EASIER to manipulate!

>>41637048
>"Being with someone who's striving towards their dreams might challenge your ego and sense of security in the relationship, knowing they could probably trade you out if they desired to."
This may be good motivation ,but if you really feel insekure in your relationship ,that they might leave you for someone else at a moments notise ,then that isnt the relationship for you
Or at least ,you should have a talk with them about it ,kuz that doesnt sound like the type of relationship the vast majority would like to be in

>>41637135
I kinda dont kare though
I like those parts of my personality ,and worry a lot more about passing physikally

>>41637145
Like a moth to a flame lmao. Sybau before you get mating pressed

>>41637135
Okay well then I love boy autism I think it's the most delicate beautiful trait a girl can have

>>41637189
sybau??? wtf is that??? also why are chasoids so RAPEY bringing up mating press out of nowhere wtf???

>>41637222
Dicking is the only cure for female hysteria, I'm sorry to say

>>41637240
chasoids say INSANE shit like this then claim it's "ironic", but it's NOT ironic.... this is what they ACTUALLY believe!

>>41637222
>"sybau??? wtf is that???"
Looked it up ,I think it means "Shut your bitch ass up"

>>41637240
Ew
This is more effektive on trannies but still a bad play and also just generally disgusting

>>41637169
>This may be good motivation ,but if you really feel insekure in your relationship ,that they might leave you for someone else at a moments notise ,then that isnt the relationship for you
Oh yeah totally. But then it's unpinning whether that's due to something they're doing or if it's just echoes of abandonment trauma. Or if it's just the way an anxious/avoidant dynamic is playing out. Whenever those intrusive thoughts and ruminations come up I try to just not give them power and I'm just generally trying to practice radical acceptance. Cause yeah if your partner has given you ample reassurance that they'll be faithful then it's your job to learn how to trust that and regulate your own feelings when they come up so you can start to reprogram the synapses to not go straight to those fear responses.
Insecurity has kept my shrinking away from life in a lot of ways for a long time. Been confronting fear more and more and introspection and making improvements. It's helping.

>>41637259
This person is basically trolling. She's obsessed with rape and comes into every thread to talk about it. Not reflective of my actual beliefs.

>>41637259
>Looked it up ,I think it means "Shut your bitch ass up"
of course chasoids would throw around misogynistic slurs so casually, jfc
>>41637294
I am NOT obsessed with rape, chasoids are the ones obsessed with rape and I COUNTER that

>>41637294
I mean ,you are proving them right tho

>>41637364
I'm used to trolling back but maybe you're right, I should stop responding.

>>41636928 (OP)
I wish this was true

>>41636928 (OP)
because you aren't straight anon.

>>41637635
Well I'm not gay either. What am I?

>>41636928 (OP)
you are reasonable

>>41637720
bisexual

>>41637720
autistic

>>41637752
not true, my autist friends tell me I'm too socially competent irl to be autistic.

>>41637744
yeah i guess

>>41637763
buddy, youre on the autism website.. im pretty sure youre not as socially competent as your low functioning autistic friends think

>>41637778
i mean it would explain a lot if i was, but i don't think i am. i'm only here because my irl friend group exploded. relapsing. old habits.

>>41636928 (OP)
The weird irony of it it all is that the twink hun socially passes better then then passiods. Its because the twink hun has to actually work on their personality and think about who they are. While the astatically passing passoid passes on looks alone. The passoids I know are very socially isolated they can be in female spaces but they often get kicked out pretty quickly due to shitty estrogenized male thought patterns they never worked on.
No shade to passoids though, their still good people in their own way.

>>41637048
How bad is it if I’m one of these girlfailures, I’m just not good at being a regular member of society I prefer dedicating myself to a single person and working on being the best partner I can be.

>>41638191
Not bad. It's not bad being the insecure caretaker type either. It's where you're at. There are people who overachieve because they're damaged too. Everyone's on some level a little bit damaged and no one really fully heals and gets out of life transcending it all. We just do our best.
Just make sure to do your best to look after yourself and stuff. And if you have a caretaker bf or gf. Just be good to them too.

>>41637752
finally a real answer lol. autistic men rarely meet autistic cis women so theyre drawn to troons and feel weird about it

>>41637145
I don't pass at all and i get chased pretty hard, i mean i am skinny and that's usually the only requirement, and you can like.. do that too you know

>>41637058
yup whats your location

>>41636928 (OP)
they are objectively more cute

>>41636928 (OP)
you have a broken bird savior complex, been there done that

>>41640965
same
did you succeed? or did it only bring more hurt

I need a twinkhon gf so bad

>>41641877
I was successful, we're not dating anymore but she's hot these days, 4chan chasers would go crazy over her.

>>41636928 (OP)
everyone wants a loser twinkhon until i show up and suddenly it stops u.u

>>41636928 (OP)
i'll b an agp rapehon and ur a husstuss passoid and we're gonna kiss MUAH

>>41644609
I need you

>>41644638
I'm OP and I'm a full-fledged man, sorry babes

>>41640965
It's this

>>41639459
and this

>>41636928 (OP)
It might also be a light form of contrariness or low confidence. But even so, it opens you up to more potential partners who might be the perfect fit for you. Go try and give a "twinkhon" some attention, get to know her. You might just find someone to complete you.

>>41644609
She shows up but leaves before I can get her
Very sad day

>>41637058
thats wut im here for
pathetic girl failures who cant take care of them selves