>>24487092 (OP)Why do I need to take advice from someone who looks like the IRL version of the amerimutt meme?
>>24491794It's about power.
You're keeping a person immobile; you beat that person; you dominate that person physically; you cause that person physical harm to the genitals; you distort the sexual response of the person.
The experience is about your control being taken away totally from you combined with damage to sexual organs and to the sexual act itself, which for a lot of normal people that aren't Estonian or Russian is considered a natural and pleasurable and intimate act to be performed with someone you love and care about after a period of getting acclimatized with him or her.
The experience of rape leaves even adult people with a low self worth due to its extreme humiliating nature, an inability to trust others, inability to experience intimate bonding and sexual enjoyment, persistent chronic anxiety about people in general and, in extreme cases, psychotic paranoid beliefs and panic and PTSD attacks.
You should try and find a pedo victim and try to argue with her or him that the experience has been only 10 seconds of slightly uncomfortable sex.