Thread 24489618

I need books that delve into the female MIND and DESIRE will these help me understand women's desire and help an autismo bookworm spaghetti spiller like me press the buttons of female arousal which Chad manages to do effortlessly?
Even the so called "sophisticated" and "deep" ones choose rando literally whos from tinder

I even read the Art of Seduction and it was a cringe slop.

Also open to other literature, philosophy, essays and poetry works.

>>24489618 (OP)
OP is a faggot.

>>24489618 (OP)
Bottom right looks like a bovine's anus.

>>24489618 (OP)
Just read smut like 50 Shades of Grey. It's trite but true that women like to be dominated and abused so long as you're a 8/10 chad with an 8 incher and six zeros to your name

No Bataille is about communing with evil, you won’t find anything you’re looking for there

>>24489639
I guess daddy Schopy was right...

>>24489618 (OP)
>picrel
Pillow Book is actually really interesting and modern because it's about a leisure class woman in an intellectual occupation (poet/calligrapher), gave me some useful insights into the girlboss mindset. It could have been written by a 30-something aspiring writer from NYC. It's very aesthetic too. There are two translations into English, get the one by Meredith McKinney
>I need books
I liked the book "Mate" by Tucker and Miller. Basically women want status (chad) and you want to display your status to them in credible ways. The most important things you can do to attract women are
1. lift
2. go to places with lots of attractive women and talk to them
3. fix your confidence problems using your favorite kind of therapy (CBT/Adlerian à la David Burns, meditation, internal family systems, Gendlin's focusing). The most important thing about this is that you *do* stuff instead of just reading.
Spilling your spaghetti is OK. You will never be a real incel. Girls love you. The important thing when you spill your spaghetti is to *not care*. You evolved for an environment of 150 monkeys. If you tried to fuck the hot monkey, the alpha monkey would bash your skull in with a rock. This is why you are afraid. You now live in a city with at least 100x as much pussy, and the danger involved in hitting on a girl is negligible.
>>24489639
>that women like to be dominated and abused so long as you're a 8/10 chad with an 8 incher and six zeros to your name
I don't think this is true for literally all women, but you're right that being dominant and abusive is by far the easiest and most hackable way to get mad pussy

>>24489618 (OP)
>should I be perplexed autism can't identify other autism?
Read Nin's letters to Miller
excerpt : Anaïs : Don't expect me to be sane anymore. Don't let's be sensible.
Then read >>24489648

bump lol also what about:
>Ovid's Erotic Poems
>Kierkegaard’s Seducer Diary

>>24489618 (OP)
Honestly man the best advice is not reading advice on women. Literally just talk to them and interact with them it's not hard. I'd actually encourage you TO spill your spaghetti. If you can be so egregiously autistic that you can make yourself burst out laughing in their presence that's normally enough. It's quite literally just being happy with yourself. Remember, there's literally no reason to ever be insecure, especially about things you can't change. And so long as you're actively taking steps to better yourself in the mannerisms and traits which can be improved, then you're doing your best and should just not pay attention to it. You will NEVER be an incel. Sorry anon

>>24489618 (OP)
You're probably autistic, right, being on 4chan? Literally just talk to autistic women. The gap between autists and non-autists is bigger than the gap between men and women, anyway (or at least, most autistic people I know, including myself, say they find neurotypicals of the same sex more alien and harder to relate to than autists of the opposite sex).

>>24489618 (OP)
story of o is what you want. women want gangbangs.

All these issues about inexperience with women will never end as long you continue living around vapid women in your western comfort zone. Get yourself in an environment where you have to interact with women everyday preferably a place with a language barrier where you have to be forced to work on non-verbal communication.

>>24492108
this is a good idea but autistic men outnumber autistic women by 3-4x so not an option for everyone
>>24492024
Ovid is a mix of good and bad advice, it makes more sense if you realize he was hunting for married MILFs specifically

>>24490201
>muh lifting manmade metal
>muh konfidance
There's containment boards for people like you >>>/lit/ >>>/pol/

>>24489618 (OP)
You don’t need a book to understand women. All women crave a feeling of safety, importance, and status in a man who they can submit to (while still maintaining a level of influence in his life). For most, that manifests through desiring a powerful masculine man, and for most, that means a man that is physically built, wealthy, protective, and respected. Even the most ardent feminists will melt like butter (or boil over) if they encounter a specimen who pushes these buttons in the right way. However, some desire more “emotional safety” since they’ve been abused and don’t want traditionally masculine men. Those types prefer “sensitive males” and have a more nurturing bent rather than the typical “Princess” femininity that most women have. But beware as the “nurturers”, if they’re unstable, can be manipulative harpies (much like how negative “princesses” can become parasites). The best way to determine mental fortitude is to figure out what their relationship is like with their father and mother, how their last relationship went/ended, and what their ACTUAL goals and values are. Also pay attention to how they dress, and don’t dismiss small details as these can reveal something important.

>>24489618 (OP)
you will be better served just making friends with a few women. books on 'the female mind' are pseud drivel without exception