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I think you're overlooking the enormous amount of feminist activity that is really just a dispassionate, descriptive analysis of culture as is that doesn't lean into the prescribing of behavioral norms. Plenty of feminist work is simply a commentary that women engage with certain things, say social media, in a gendered way.
>Feminists do the same in male spaces, turning every joke, every bit of rough banter into a harassment tribunal
Often times those jokes mean more to the person being joked about than to the person making them. No doubt you've had experiences in life that you wouldn't wish to be the subject of humor, even if that humor was well intentioned. For feminists, this often includes sexual violence which women tend to suffer from more than men. It's also natural to speculate about how a culture which approves of "jokes" about sexual violence might then structure a society in a particular way.
I would also like to point out that plenty of right-leaning men invade "women's spaces" (kind of a problematic term but I'm mirroring your language here) to then dredge up various examples of behavior they find unacceptable. For example, the perennial threads here about booktok or women's erotica. The internet sensation with the "ick" meme.
