>>24503188Thinking porn and masturbation is a valid sexual outlet is such an insult to the power of a virile, meek, and virtuous man. I can acknowledge your horseshoe of legalism at both ends, men being the target thereof perhaps. But if you want to dwell in the middle, you still need to do with a rule.. that being if you as a male want your sexual outlet, be a husband. Or be a formidable suitor that women fawn over even. But if liberated manhood to you means masturbation let alone hookup culture, you've failed the assignment. Those are actually the phenomena of those far ends of the horseshoe which you describe. Sexual gratification in actuality is a cheerful and stoic contenance of your sexual prowess, and a lively and handsome rapport between the sexes that doesn't have a decadent bend to it,--because those dynamics don't last and aren't deep. And when you do lay on the line your sexual outlet, you go all the way, you go ride or die with one woman. With those stakes you will be in actuality gratified, and your soul will likewise be edified by the institution of marriage.
You seem to want liberated "outlets."
But I want liberated male sexuality, wherein male sexuality in its purpose is actually lived out in its furthest extent uninhibited.
My view of gratification is simply not nearsighted as yours, because that's an insult to the idea of gratification. Dopamine kicks and putting myself to sleep with wanking conflate sex(a gratifying endeavour) with something that doesn't satisfy whatsoever. And we all often do feel rather shabby and loathesome while doing it(jerking) to put it lightly. And not because my Priest told me to feel bad while doing it, it just feels bad to do. Like eating too much candy or KFC.