>>24652776
>For every poorly socialzed, isolated homeschool kid there's many more cases of kids in public schools getting severely bullied, rampant crime in shitty schools, violence, drug use etc
There are two easy solutions to this. You can either
1. Not be poor
2. Not be American
Meanwhile successfully homeschooling your child demands you to meet a certain amount of non-trivial requirements.
To start, at least one of the parents is required to be sufficiently knowledgeable of pedagogy and the basic fields of study the child is supposed to go through. You can't help a child learn mathematics or geography if you don't master those subjects yourself, and just dumping a bunch of classical literature won't make the kid magically smart. At least for the first 12 or 13 years, you should be expected to be around all day to help your child with their studies, keep them company and watch over them. And that's being very generous and assuming your 14 year old is already going to be a disciplined, responsible and diligent teenager who can keep himself from leaving the house to fuck around or just watch porn all day instead of studying. If neither of the parents have the skill or the availability to teach, you'll have to hire tutors. Good ones. Most middle class families can't realistically accomplish that.
But school isn't just for reading textbooks. You'll need to make sure all the rest of your child's needs are met. Their social needs, to start. They still need friends, they still need people to talk to and they still need to learn how to behave around others, how to work in teams, how to lead and how to do other basic things most children learn in school. Failing to do so will turn your child into a socially inept freak or make them resentful at you for not letting them live normal childhoods like everyone else. They also need to do sports so that's one other thing you'll have to spend money with.
Once they finally turn 18, one would expect your homegrown prodigy should go to university. And a good one. That's the logical pathway to most respectable careers, after all. They'll have to adapt to a new environment, a new lifestyle, a new way of studying and new standards for performance. I hope you have that all figured out too.
Whether you're married to an exceptionally intelligent and emotionally capable woman who is willing to stay home all day to tutor your child or you two have just that much money to hire a few elite tutors to assist your child in their education, it's also likely true that you can afford a good school where all of the difficulties listed above can be avoided and your child will have a normal childhood like everyone else. So why not do it?