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Is there a book on getting out of masturbation addiction?
Anonymous No.24713840 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Yes. Shittenshill translated by the faggot Max Lawton.
Anonymous No.24713844 [Report] >>24713861
Just keep doing it until you run dry, then you won't feel the need to anymore.
Anonymous No.24713856 [Report] >>24713883 >>24718034 >>24718043
masturbation is not an addiction, do you masturbate in public or walk away somewhere to start jerking off? No? Then you're not addicted, quit being a bitch.
Anonymous No.24713861 [Report] >>24713874
>>24713844
Not my experience. The more you do it, the more you want to do it, and the shorter the refractory period becomes.
Anonymous No.24713874 [Report]
>>24713861
Opposite for me. I fapped three times this week and I can't again even if I wanted to. Maybe being over 40 helps.
Anonymous No.24713883 [Report] >>24713901 >>24715839
>>24713856
What a retard. Because I don’t take heroine in public and have to wait till I get home to take it, I can’t be addicted to it.
Anonymous No.24713901 [Report] >>24714161 >>24714426 >>24715560 >>24718887
>>24713883
Yes, an addiction implies inability to control or regulate except you clearly have some measure of control on it if you're not doing it in public. Have you ever known alcoholics or cigarette addicts? They find ways to drink/smoke in their daily routines until it becomes unconscious habit. Unless you're doing this you're not really addicted.
Anonymous No.24714161 [Report]
>>24713901
different intensities of addiction exists. Because someone has the bare minimum self-control to not get arrested by doing it in public doesn't mean they can't be addicted. Almost no one in the world is addicted to anything by that criteria.
Anonymous No.24714269 [Report] >>24715234 >>24718895
>>24713838 (OP)
Get a cat. Seriously. It fixed mine. I don’t remember the last time I did it. A pet will literally fix your life.
Also girls find it hot.
Anonymous No.24714283 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Doctrine of Awakening
Anonymous No.24714416 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
If you're afraid of masturbation, you should just buy a chastity cage at this point
Anonymous No.24714426 [Report] >>24715485
>>24713901
Masturbation is a daily routine though
Anonymous No.24714441 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
sadly porn if u a bad enough dood
Anonymous No.24714883 [Report] >>24715094 >>24719076
>>24713838 (OP)
I've been waiting for this moment all my life....
Anonymous No.24715094 [Report] >>24719184
>>24714883
thanks for this. anything else?
Anonymous No.24715145 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. Just substitute the idea of 'alcohol' to 'porn'.
Anonymous No.24715177 [Report] >>24718553
>>24713838 (OP)
Just jerk off thinking about your aunt naked. That oughta traumatize you for life.
Anonymous No.24715234 [Report] >>24715514
>>24714269
Girls think men with cats are gay. If you want to attract chicks, get a dog, like a German shepherd.
Anonymous No.24715481 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
>Is there a book on getting out of masturbation addiction?
Think outside the box, anon.
You got something that you're *good* at. Donate your sperm to the sperm clinic. If you can provide three samples a day, I'm sure they'll be tickled pink. Are you unaware its a decent paying job to jack off.
Anonymous No.24715485 [Report] >>24719375
>>24714426
>Masturbation is a daily routine though
once? I'm good for more than one per day. You gotta milk that prostate to keep it healthy.
Anonymous No.24715512 [Report] >>24718553 >>24719329 >>24719329 >>24720583
>>24713838 (OP)
there's this, which i don't recommend. it ysed to get shilled heavily but now not so much. i suspect the people that pushed it never read it because it does not actually include any information on how to quit porn, it just goes on about how great the method is.
i'm assuming you mean a porn addiction. i don't think there's any reason to stop masturbating all together. it's natural and healthy to release. people are supposed to have a sex drive and repressing it entirely will have negative effects the same way giving over to it entirely does.
personally, i was never able to quit until after i got my first girlfriend. before, when i would quit, i'd be stuck with the thought that i would never experience intimacy again in any form (my addiction was specifically to audioporn, which is often a lot more focused on personal attention and the romanitc aspect of sex). the relationship lasted a month and then she ghosted me. i no longer feel that i'm missing all that much and, though i masturbate almost every day, i don't feel the need to watch porn. i hope this helps.
Anonymous No.24715514 [Report] >>24718913
>>24715234
I know a dude with seven and he still managed to get a broad
Anonymous No.24715560 [Report]
>>24713901
Exactly. I don't want to masturbate, but the temptation becomes so much that I lose self-control and do it anyways, feeling bad after it.
I'm sure this is how the people suffering from this problem feel and it completelly falls under your definition of addiction.
Anonymous No.24715572 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Epictetus
Seneca
Marcus Aurelius
Wolfram Von Eschenbach

But more importantly than reading these works is implementing the advice into your life. Living justly is about right action. Don't set goals for yourself that are longer than the present moment. Instead of telling yourself "I will not masturbate this week," or, "I will not masturbate this month," tell yourself, "I will not masturbate right now."
Anonymous No.24715692 [Report] >>24715842 >>24719208
>>24713838 (OP)
If you’re over 20, just quitting porn makes you start masturbating about once every three days, and sometimes only once a week.
So maybe you should read about porn addiction.
Anonymous No.24715734 [Report] >>24715761
Anonymous No.24715761 [Report]
>>24715734
>be me
>at bar
>shitfaced
>meet japanese hottie
>she likes me
>wants to go back to my place with me
>wtf is going on
>nice summer night,
>so walk with her to my apartment
>because way to drunk to drive
>drunk really just an excuse
>drive drunk all the time
>really just too nervous to drive
>get to my apartment
>nervous as fuck
>take key out of my pocket
>spill spaghetti everywhere
>she just smiles
>asks if I have any sauce
>fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmewhatthefuckisgoingon.jpg
>end up moving in with me
>life is good
>for awhile at least
>eventually she realizes that I wasn't nervous
>just autistic
>sadme.jpg
>alone
>can't stop masturbating over watching her eat my spaghetti
Anonymous No.24715781 [Report] >>24717472
>>24713838 (OP)
you don't need a book to get out of masturbation addiction
you just need to watch the feeling
I am being serious
this is hard to describe but it's a practice
I'll start with similes
you know how people go bird watching? they don't want to trap the birds or even feed them, usually. they only watch. if they see a rare bird, they're delighted; when it's gone, it's gone.
be a bird watcher over your own soul
imagine you're watching a game, or a race. you take your camping chair and your esky and you find a nice spot in the sun on the lawn and what do you do? watch.
set up your lawn chair and esky and watch yourself, anon.
where's the feeling to masturbate come from? what came before it? what comes after it? because, like the birds of the air, which fly in and out of view or racecars which speed from here to there and are gone again, so too are your feelings. they come in and go out. watch it happen!
Anonymous No.24715795 [Report] >>24716931 >>24718907
>>24713838 (OP)
Do this:
>Stop looking at titillating pictures and bodacious bodies (in other words, stop playing modded Skyrim)
>Get a hobby to take up your time
>Go to church and start praying at regular intervals
It's genuinely that easy.
Anonymous No.24715839 [Report] >>24715884
>>24713883
I was addicted to heroin and I absolutely had to use while out and about, in train station toilet stalls, in libary toilets, train toilets etc. A large disabled toilet with no smoke detector was my favourite, I would smoke a line and hold in the hit until just a small vapour came out upon exhalation, and then hit my strong fruit smelling vape and blow out a hit to cover any of the bitter vinegary smell. Rinse, repeat, until no longer sick/high. Then I would run the hand-dryer while blowing vape into it until I felt like it no longer smelled, and then leave.
Anonymous No.24715842 [Report]
>>24715692
This book is reddit and forum posts
Anonymous No.24715845 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Reading any book will keep your hands busy so you won't be able to jork it
Anonymous No.24715884 [Report]
>>24715839
>Then I would run the hand-dryer while blowing vape into it until I felt like it no longer smelled, and then leave.
I love strange druggy rituals like this.
Anonymous No.24716931 [Report] >>24716936
>>24715795
>>Go to church and start praying at regular intervals
There's too many hot women at church
Anonymous No.24716932 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Stop watching porn
Anonymous No.24716936 [Report] >>24716942
>>24716931
What church are you going to mine is full of boomers
Anonymous No.24716942 [Report] >>24716960
>>24716936
You go to look at their daughters, anon
Anonymous No.24716960 [Report]
>>24716942
I'm not a nonce
Anonymous No.24716973 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
"Sadly, Porn" by TLP
Anonymous No.24716988 [Report]
Porn is great. I really respect girls who can so easily strip in front of a camera. I wish I had that level of confidence.
Anonymous No.24717399 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
my diary desu
Anonymous No.24717406 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Get a job, get some hobbies, be involved in community events, join some interest groups, take on some personal projects

Masturbation addiction is a result of a chronically alone and individualistic lifestyle
Anonymous No.24717472 [Report]
>>24715781
nice poetic way to describe meditative detachment anon, great job
Anonymous No.24717486 [Report] >>24717527
I don't know what to think. I used to believe that porn wasn't a real addiction until I read pic related.
Most porn is not as expertly crafted as gambling machines. A huge portion of it comes from a community formed around sex and fetishes, made by artists or amateurs, not technocrats and stakeholders. What do those do? OnlyFans and Pornhub? Japanese games where you replay the same animation over and over? AI? I believe that what's addictive here isn't the sites or the even the content itself (though some goon/porn mommy videos come close to trying to fuck your mind MKUltra style, but I don't think we're there yet). I believe there is a way to make pornography truly addictive, but we haven't figured it out yet for some reason. But with the advances in AI maybe we'll soon hear about someone masturbating to death.
The biggest take away from the book is that the truly degenerate gamblers don't play to get rich, they play to keep playing. They enter a mental state where they melt away and cease to exist for a while. Money is not the reward, it's the fuel for their trance. They are burning away and they know this, but as soon as they are no longer in the furnace they start feeling pain. Do you know what kind of people end up here? Old lonely ladies, losers and cowards, people who had no idea these machines were meticulously designed to hold and keep their attention.
I recently started reading Eroticism by George Bataille, and what I take away from it is that people are lonely and afraid of death, and non-reproductive sex is one way for them to overcome this state (discontinuity) temporarily. "Continuity" for him is what lies beyond the individual: it is existence itself, it is what death is. The gambling machines have the same effect of "killing" an individual and making them melt into a continuity that lasts as long as their money allows them.
What I'm trying to say is that I don't think porn addiction is a real thing yet, not for the vast majority of porn consumers. I think it's still acceptable to call it a "compulsion" (although academia and the psychology field and le experts are absolutely fucking pozzed, either being paid for or totally insane, and are not to be trusted at all).
I believe that what makes you act like this is
>a total lack of purpose or meaning in life
>fear of life and death
>constant bombardment of irrelevant and disturbing information
>low self-esteem
Getting a job, having a girlfriend, being a normalfag wont cure you. I don't think a single book will cure you either. When I read Ted K I thought it related to this too. There's nothing to do, nothing to keep your mind busy...
Do you think that if the infrastructure that keeps alive the internet and electricity collapsed tomorrow because nukes started flying and now you're in WW3, you'd feel so compelled to jack off? And then you'd start experiencing excruciating pain and nausea if you didn't cum?
Anonymous No.24717527 [Report]
>>24717486
>The gambling machines have the same effect of "killing" an individual and making them melt into a continuity that lasts as long as their money allows them.
This is just a long-winded way to say "escapism"
Anonymous No.24717610 [Report]
the easy peasy hackbook
Anonymous No.24717626 [Report] >>24720112
>>24713838 (OP)
i haven't fapped in like a week but only because walking around horny af is like an all day goon sesh
Anonymous No.24717945 [Report]
I tried following a masturbation avoidance guide, but it was too hard!
Anonymous No.24718034 [Report]
>>24713856
what if i do?
Anonymous No.24718043 [Report]
>>24713856
>do you masturbate in public
Anonymous No.24718083 [Report]
Watching porn is healthy because otherwise your own fantasy devolves into the disgustingly perverse of people you know while jerking off.
Anonymous No.24718268 [Report] >>24718396
>>24713838 (OP)
If I don't masturbate where else will I unload all that cum in my balls?
Anonymous No.24718396 [Report] >>24718435
>>24718268
It eventually gets broken down and reabsorbed into the body
Anonymous No.24718433 [Report] >>24720587
I dont masturbate at least once every three days= my emotions get all out of wack. There's a reason we feel the need to masturbate. Porn addiction is not the same as masturbation addiction
Anonymous No.24718435 [Report] >>24718882
>>24718396
that sounds super gay wtf
Anonymous No.24718553 [Report]
>>24715177
most of my aunts were hot though
>>24715512
yeah I was gonna recommend that one just because it's so nicely formatted to read on my kindle, but I didn't keep reading it, I didn't think it had anything interesting going on.
but I like that it shows a rationale, the thing about "it's not that it's bad, it's the fact that it's not good" was interesting, I'm gonna see how far he can push that.
Anonymous No.24718871 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Life.
Anonymous No.24718882 [Report]
>>24718435
Trust the process anon
Anonymous No.24718887 [Report]
>>24713901
thats not what addiction is dip shit. thats being a degenerate fucking loser.

t. drug addict
Anonymous No.24718895 [Report]
>>24714269
i have two cats. one is annoying asshole who is loud and rubs shit all over my house. the other is a sweet little thing who just wants to sit on my lap.
it really depends on the cat. avoid the burmese.
Anonymous No.24718907 [Report]
>>24715795
>indulge in lies
you had me until your went full retard. the church is an institution of liars.
Anonymous No.24718913 [Report]
>>24715514
Supporting 7 animals signals abundance and power to the subconscious chimp mind.
Anonymous No.24718927 [Report]
>Porn is great. I really respect girls who can so easily strip in front of a camera. I wish I had that level of confidence.
Anonymous No.24719010 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Stop being a porn-brained retard. Jerk off when you get horny but stop gooning to porn all day. it's that fucking simple.
Anonymous No.24719049 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
St. Matt ~ 5:27-

Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:

28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

29 And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.

30 And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
Anonymous No.24719052 [Report] >>24719069
>>24713838 (OP)
Also get a wife
Anonymous No.24719069 [Report] >>24719180
>>24719052
this was only good advice when getting divorced was hard
Anonymous No.24719076 [Report]
>>24714883
best post. how was this ignored?
Anonymous No.24719180 [Report] >>24719193
>>24719069
Prenup
Anonymous No.24719184 [Report]
>>24715094
>The restraint which is employed to repress, and finally to extirpate the constant inclination to depart from certain rules, is termed Discipline.
Anonymous No.24719193 [Report] >>24719217
>>24719180
poison pill and doesn't solve the root problem
Anonymous No.24719208 [Report]
>>24715692
I went on no porn starting a few weeks ago and have experienced the opposite. I actually enjoy fapping more now and I have no shame attached to it without porn involved so I went from doing it once every 2-3 days to basically every day, occasionally twice a day. Then again I also experienced a significantly increased libido after I started working out, which partially influenced my decision to stop porn, so that’s kind of a confounding factor. Anyway I think I’m totally done with porn now but I still enjoy mildly erotic anime artwork, I just don’t look at it when I fap. I also cum harder without porn and have accidentally blasted myself on the chin three times now. Thanks for listening everyone.
Anonymous No.24719217 [Report]
>>24719193
>poison pill
How so
>and doesn't solve the root problem
Sometimes you just have to solve a problem for yourself and not change the entire world
Anonymous No.24719329 [Report] >>24719375 >>24721137
>>24713838 (OP)
Is your dick and hand like a magnet to each other. Like you just need to nut. If you said no, then congrats, you don't have it as bad as I did when I was a gooner retard some years back.

This is what I read when I quit masturbating
>>24715512
I don't know if what this anon is saying is correct about that book since I don't remember shit about what I read, but this is when I started quitting masturbation and now im doing semen retention. You're going to have to figure some of this out on your own, but I stopped reading this anons post
>>24715512
when he started with the
>lmao its healthy to masturbate lol
Don't you think it makes sense that every time you release your losing vitamins, minerals and whatever the fuck every time? Of course this demo.. i mean human being is going to ignore all that and tell you
>theres nothing wrong with masturbating
or
>you'll totally get ass cancer bro. just trust me bro and the science lmao
Anonymous No.24719343 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
>Is there a book on getting out of masturbation addiction?

workings of Spirits require sacrifice

My brother in Christ just delete your wank bank, you can't possibly use it all anyways. Same for bookmarks.
Anonymous No.24719375 [Report] >>24719406 >>24719411
>>24715485
>I only drink one handle a day
>>24719329
>every time you release your losing vitamins, minerals and whatever the fuck every time?
even if this were true, the simple solution would be to eat your cum
Anonymous No.24719406 [Report]
>>24719375
Tell me how this works then nerd? Go ahead and jack yourself off retarded and see how week you feel afterwards. Try out memes like no nut november and see how much better you feel. Then go even further beyond with semen retention and see how much better every thing gets for you
>b-b-but ass cancer if i dun masturbait dood
pffff not gonna make it wimp. sex should only be for procreation chud.
Anonymous No.24719411 [Report] >>24719528
>>24719375
>every time you release your losing vitamins, minerals and whatever the fuck every time?

Tell me how this works then nerd? Go ahead and jack yourself off retarded and see how week you feel afterwards. Try out memes like no nut november and see how much better you feel. Then go even further beyond with semen retention and see how much better every thing gets for you
>b-b-but ass cancer if i dun masturbait dood
pffff not gonna make it wimp. sex should only be for procreation chud.
Anonymous No.24719528 [Report] >>24719801
>>24719411
>see how week (sic) you feel
because you have hormones that keep you from wanting to fuck forever
Anonymous No.24719801 [Report] >>24719842
>>24719528
Can i disable them so I can jackhammer the living daylights out of my foid
Anonymous No.24719842 [Report] >>24720143
>>24719801
No, that's what your bull is for.
captcha STDMY2
Anonymous No.24720112 [Report]
>>24717626
...based? let me try that too
Anonymous No.24720143 [Report]
>>24719842
being a cuck is vile
Anonymous No.24720583 [Report]
>>24715512
This book is based off the Alan Carr book “how to quit smoking” (which is an amazing book that does help you quit)
The problem is Alan Carr didn’t write Easy Peasy, is just a one-for-one adaptation by some rando that doesn’t work as well since fapping to porn isn’t one-for-one to smoking.

The most proven way to stop is to go to sex-aholic meetings. Most people will never go to one.
Anonymous No.24720587 [Report]
>>24718433
it is interesting how Islam suggested man and women to sexo at least every four days
And based in personal experience, and yourself, it us about 3-5 days that is the cap for celibacy
the truth is porn = bad and in the act you shouldn't release unless procreation is sought
Anonymous No.24720589 [Report]
>>24713838 (OP)
Pic related.

One of my favorite books. It gets really good around the middle part.
Anonymous No.24721137 [Report]
>>24719329
>your losing vitamins, minerals and whatever the fuck every time
I'm pretty sure loosing 3-5 ml of bodily fluids isn't going to cause vitamin deficiency
Anonymous No.24721195 [Report] >>24721286 >>24721826
>>24713838 (OP)
work a physical job and the problem solves itself
Anonymous No.24721286 [Report]
>>24721195
I work a physical job and sometimes I masturbate at work
Anonymous No.24721826 [Report]
>>24721195
Now I'm more active and have higher t-levels, causing me to masturbate even more. Can't win