>>126742116 (OP)
>I have already imagined our life together.
That’s pretty pitiful anon. And probably part of the reason she will never get with you. Don’t waste energy on a woman unless you’re already dating. Up until that point, you need to keep your options open and avoid attachment.
>>126742245
>Depends if you had her first then lost her
This is understandable. I got divorced at 30 and started listening to classical for the first time in my life because I couldn’t listen to my usual favorite music that all had associations with my ex and needed something completely foreign to me. It helped a lot. 7 years later and I’m much happier and with a much better woman and I am able to listen to all my old favorite music again. But I also retained the taste i developed for classical music during the breakup phase and it has expanded my palette enormously.
>>126742246
>I spent 15 years chasing a girl
wtf bro. Are you just really slow at getting the picture? That shit worked 75 years ago when women were desperate to pair up and get married or be a spinster for life, but chasing a girl for more than a few weeks in the 21st century just makes you look creepy and desperate.
