>>126854447 (OP)You’re confusing symptoms for disease.
What is sad is an adult who never really accepted reality or matured enough to experience a full life. It’s pathetic seeing somebody who is still unfulfilled and discontent with life because they should have figured it out a long time ago.
All the aesthetics are more of an indicator of this than the actual cause of that feeling of second hand embarrassment. If this guy had the aura of someone who lived life and still has something to offer it you wouldn’t think twice about the hair or the piercings.