>>127499292 (OP)
I'm too goth for goth girls apparently. They're all larping. One of them called me "estranged". You'd think that was what they were shooting for, but no.
>>127499553
My mom was a goth in the 80s and 90s. She gave it up after she met my dad. I still can't believe my mom had a goth phase when I see the photos. I think most goth girls eventually give it up after get with a normal guy.
If you have someone nearby who's always wearing black and listening to the music, you go to them and say Hi, become friends with him or her, they're super friendly.
>>127499292 (OP) >>127499553
Goth is no longer about music/literature/art. It's a porn category to most zoomers and a way for women to make money on OnlyFans
>>127499644
I don't adopt any goth lifestyle. I embrace the Light. It's this world that disappoints me. But from the outside, maybe that looks antisocial and estranged. I mean, it is.
>>127499732
Well, I do like some of the music... So maybe I'm into some of the culture. DCD and Siouxsie especially. But they never considered themselves goth afaik. People just call them that. Lisa Gerrard embraces the Light herself. I guess Siouxsie does too.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pictArFbX_A
>>127499292 (OP)
Here are some of the highlights of classic goth music (late 70s-late 80s) in roughly chronological order. You should also listen to The Idiot by Iggy Pop, which was probably the biggest influence to the genre
>>127500809
Why are chicks into goth? Cuz gothic is a dark offshoot of Romanticism (19th century art movement). Think of Dracula. The romantic love genre is the heart of Romanticism carried into popular culture. Goth bands actually write a lot of love songs but they might be about doomed lovers or something. Zoomer goth chicks listen to Twin Tribes.
>>127501061
I only mention this btw not to recommend his music, but it's amazing, this guy might be the most successful gothic musician of the past 20 years. It's the German goth chicks. It's all romance. But what's funny about Blutengel is that his songs are written in the most literal direct manner possible because he's German so his songs in English are beyond cringe. https://youtu.be/w1G-9WUgptY
This is German stuff. But also had impact in Mexico, a lot more German influence there than you might think. Look at how Mexicans turned out for a Swiss gothic metal band you've never heard of. Not a fan but it's interesting: https://youtu.be/PqEjSNp67JU