>>28450318 (OP)Wash your car with a separate cloth/towel for the body, and one for the rims. Two buckets for both.
Dry your car with a pig skin shammy or the synthetic ones (I'm privy to the synthetic ones, they don't disintegrate over time like pigskin does)
If you are going to clay bar/rag your car, DO NOT DO IT DRY! You will fuck up the paint. Make sure you're either soaking the panel you are clay barring with water, or a show shine application (Non silicone formula). I personally have used a non silicone show shine and a microfiber towel. Apply generously and don't let the area you are clay barring dry. Run the clay rag or bar over the area that needs it till it feels smooth to pull the rag/bar over. Once it's smooth feeling and not coarse feeling, you are done. Rinse/shine and dry the area. You do not need to apply much if any pressure. Doing so runs this risk of scratching the clear coat. Depending how fucked up the paint is, sometimes a clay bar won't fix it. (Note that clay rags work better for larger surface areas)
If you are going to wax your car, do one panel at a time. Use a towel to apply it, then use another to remove it. Do not let it sit on the paint for anymore than about a minute. Avoid doing it in direct sunlight. Direct sunlight will make it harder to get off. Don't get wax on plastic such as cladding. If you do, wipe it off immediately. My advice is to use a dry, clean towel to help prevent the wax application from getting on undesired areas while the other hand applies it. Plastic cladding and non painted parts love to stain with the wax, hence why you don't want it on it.
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