>>28576671
Long story short, my cousin(call her R) was in an extremely abusive relationship with another JW(she was raised as one also). Always getting her ass beat. Finally R decides to leave the guy. The church excommunicates her. Her sister(my other cousin, call her L) totally disowns her, and pretty much the rest of the family because of it. R comes to family gatherings, but L never does because R is likely to be there. My sister ended up buying a house literally 200 feet from L, and L never even would wave at my sister. Then my sister and her son(my nephew) were killed in a car crash, and L acted like she was going to be a member of the family, but really doesn't make any effort. My nephew never even got to meet that part of the family, and they were literally a footballs throw away.