Thread 507537355

What cracks first marriage or divorce laws?

>>507537355 (OP)
divorce rate is down to 35% from 56% under the boomers, divorce laws are fine, they dont even give alimony anymore, anything you had before the marriage is yours and anything acquired during marriage is marital property and split 50/50

>>507537576
>everything is fine goyim man up for women goyim

>>507537355 (OP)
>Second
Fucking retard

>>507537355 (OP)
Divorce laws. With women ascending to bread winners in houses, men will start winning more cases in divorce and feminists will tear down laws to “regain” equality

>>507537576
Like the house I bought pre covid and pre marriage that doubled in value and I had to give her “half” if the equity?

Read somewhere the divorce rate for white couples making at least middle class income is less than 10%. High divorce rate statistics are driven by shitskins and welfare leeches. Don't fall for the anti-marriage psy-op.

37M = 37 Million in the bank

>>507537355 (OP)
marriage, easy. it's incredibly difficult to successfully change both laws on the books and actual case law.

>>507538016
did you put her name on the deed? the mortgage? if so, you played yourself by making it marital property, if not, she wouldnt have gotten it if you had taken it to court, you agreed to it yourself

>>507537355 (OP)
Good God, that looks perfect.

>>507537355 (OP)
I had a gf break up with me almost immediately after I told her I was never getting married. Like two days later. No kids. I'm not even making good money.

>>507537355 (OP)
Marriage. Stop doing it. If you can have sex, you can start a harem. Don't promise exclusivity, but demand loyalty from her. HAREM TIME.

>>507537355 (OP)
lmao
what a loser.
and 2nd time too!

>>507538385
found the tatebro lolcow

>>507537576
>divorce laws are fine
>they don't even give alimony anymore!
So then do away with alimony then, right? Women top university numbers and they're basically given executive positions now; they don't need alimony anymore. Also abolish no-fault divorce and make the instigator accountable for their choice in ruining a marriage.

>>507537576
we live in a time where you can record yourself and every room in your house every second of the day, this would really help with divorces and lying whores

>>507538466
It sounds like it, but you're just strawmanning me for some reason.

>>507537355 (OP)

Marriage, easily. Strangely, I think blacks have slightly better marriage statistics than whites but, having known blacks AND mudsharks, white marriage is usually much different than black 'marriage'- unless it's wMbF. The number of niggers who step out on each other is like a whole different planet.

>>507537355 (OP)
You can tell he learned from the 1st and went for essentials this time.
And some say men dont learn.

>>507537576
wait a sec r u tryin to trick me again

>>507537355 (OP)
>second divorce
>second

What compels a man to go through the ruse a second time. Holy shit some guys are just so hypnotized by pussy, it's insane.

>>507537710
This is always my answer to the “getting remarried” fucking retards

Okay, dude, We give you a pass for the first mistake, but you marry again? FUCKING RETARD!

>>507537710
>>507538774
Does this mean they have to pay double alimony now or how does that work

>>507538476
divorce court is designed to seperate two people legally, it is not meant to right any wrongs
>>507538528
unless there is a repeated pattern of police and hospital reports, divorce courts arent going to believe her lies, they hear them every day
>>507538696
nope, but no one is forcing you to get married, most people wait until they are ready to have children to get married these days

>>507537355 (OP)
Imagine being a grown ass adult man and you didnt even buy the fucking bed you sleep on and let your wife take it. He was probably mooching off his woman the whole time

>>507537576
The whole "divorce rates in the younger generations are lower!" thing is a complete cope. The raw numbers only appear lower because millennials and zoomers have obviously had less time to be married in the first place, so of course the rate appears lower like that. Because those marriages simply haven't had enough time to crumble yet.

Add to that all the "families" with kids born out of wedlock. So when they inevitably break up, and result in a situation for the kid that's basically just as bad as with a divorce, that isn't counted toward the divorce statistic.

>>507537355 (OP)
At least he got the camping gear

>>507538894
yeah probably. I doubt the 2nd wife would be disqualified from alimony if the guy was already paying alimony to the 1st.
hope he learns the lesson now that he is likely working 3 jobs to keep his head above water.
if I were in such shoes (lol) I would just bite the bullet and kill both my ex wives. Life isn't worth living anymore at that point so whatever.

marriage is already dead. it died when they let faggots get married. they are just going to keep fucking with laws. here you have to give a de facto a bunch of shit if they really want it. what defines a de facto relationship. living together for 6 months
>>507539167
most of the millennials I know who got divorced didn't remarry

>>507537355 (OP)
The top predictive element for divorce is if you’ve already had one. It’s insanely predictive. Stronger than cigarets and lung cancer or truck nuts & buttplugs.

This retard should have had a moment of introspection after his first divorce, then cut off his ring finger for good. If you fucked up your first one you’ll fuck up your second, third, and fourth one. Even if your wife fucked a local bar, that’s what you’re attracted to, your second wife is going to be the town bicycle too.

>>507539501
what happens if you leave the US. I know you guys have to pay taxes even if you live overseas. what about if you renounce your US citizenship, will they come after you for alimony then?

>>507537355 (OP)
Packers suck

>>507539549
oh yeah, isn't that a thing in britbong countries? "commonlaw marriage" or whatever, where simply cohabitating for a certain amount of time automatically gets you listed as legally married or something? Insane.

>>507537576
>35%
This is from 2015. 2025 it is 43% of first marriages.

"So, what about the famous statistic that half of all marriages end in divorce? That’s a bit of an exaggeration when it comes to first marriages, only 43% of which are dissolved.2 Second and third marriages actually fail at a far higher rate, though, with 60% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages ending in divorce."

https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/

>>507538973
>no one is forcing you to get married
>most people wait until they are ready to have children to get married these days
If you idiots had it your way, you would force every young guy out there to get married to sluts and whores. Don't act like you are tolerant of lesser marriage rates and people getting married later on when in reality you fags on here have no ability to sway it.

>>507537355 (OP)
Just wait until the next wave hits.
We will be hanging women left and right for what they did to this country.

>>507537355 (OP)
The in nigger is gonna have a third one. I an sure.

Fell for it again award!

>>507537355 (OP)
I feel like part of the reason 60% of young men are still single is because they waited and are now seeing divorce everywhere. They're being way more selective

>>507539791
it's more to do with you both contributed to things so you got to split it up. most of the time nothing is going to happen if it's short term. if you don't have money and rent who gives a fuck.

one of my mates. I call it his second marriage. he and the chick never got married. they were engaged and had a son. I don't know the full story why it ended. so he knows he is going to pay child support. now he is self made rich. owns a business. she tried everything to get money out of him and ended up raping his super(401K) because she couldn't get anything out of the business and the house was bought before they got together so she was entitled to only equity for the 5 years she lived there. her family is rich so she was purely trying to fuck him financially

>>507537355 (OP)
To make a mistake is human; to remain in it is foolishness

>>507537576
This is misleading. Divorce rates are lower because marriage rates are lower. Marriage is no longer something you just do in life. Thus you have a much lower rate of marriage largely amoung people who really want to be married. Drastically reducing divorce rates.

The divorce rate was always misleading people any way. If you pump 3 kids into a women, they are basically tied to you like a ball and chain. Men dont get that marriage was never want locked a women to you, it was always the number of kids you made her have.

>>507538701
>What compels a man to go through the ruse a second time
The mistaken belief that you can fix your mistakes and make better decisions the second time around.

>>507537576
femoid alimony hands wrote this

>>507537355 (OP)
marriage rates are primary function of the income gap between men and women
stable marriage formation only happens if men outearn women by 50% (anything below that threshold can make existing marriages break up) this point is repeated globally and locally during economic downturns

the GOP and capitalism destroyed marriage, in communism with flatter income structure marriage was ironical more healthy even with their feminism

we currently have the worst of both worlds

>>507540009
>only 43%
That's still almost a coin flip chance. That's still insanely high.

Divorce laws here have just been made even worse to suit the lawyers and courts so that they don’t have to do any work but still get all the money from the industry.
Keeping the state out of marriage may be a way forward since the state is through the organised crime political parties working for the Satanic globo religions.

>>507537710
This. It was one and done for me, I will never make that mistake again.

>>507537684
>Don't reproduce, goyim
>Hate half your own race, goyim
>Just focus on materialistic shit and let brown people colonize your countries, goyim

>>507540483
I read a study about how many husbands give all their money to their wife and she gives out an allowance. most of the men explained the reason they did it was because it showed the wife how much money they made. then it was the wifes job to spend it wisely. I wonder if any high earning women do the same thing. I wonder if it would decrease the divorce rate or not

>>507538227
The judges have no obligation to follow the law. They hold no responsibility nor accountability for breaking the law.
The law does not matter. It is the judge.
You can not do anything about it. You beg and even pay to someone wginhas power over you to decide for you.
Going to court aling with the militarty and the polce is the ultimate proof you are a slave.

>>507540370
This.
My wife would have divorced me already if we didn't have 3 kids. Now there is no escape because nobody else would deal with that baggage.

t. was alcoholic asshole mma fag in my 20s - mid 30s

>>507540214
Didn't you say that two weeks ago?

>>507537355 (OP)
Prenup or don't marry

>>507540550
do the mussies do the same thing over in the UK they do here? the dude has like 2 or more wives. they are married under Islam. the women all claim single parent pension and every cent they can get from the government

>>507540753
There are lots of problems no doubt, but everything you mentioned can be solved on their own, instead of trying to force guys to man up for nasty women. Safe and secure borders and sensible immigration policies would stop the brown colonization in it's tracks, but even Trump can't stop it.

>>507537576
Listen to this post, boyim. Back to the matriarchal plantation you go, chop chop.

>>507540975
Wrong. Demand she has a kid. Ideally multiple. If she won't dump her ass. Prenups are worthless but children are forever.

>>507537355 (OP)
Looks comfy

>>507541027
So you admit we are being out bred by shitskins yet you don't see the urgency of having white kids?

>>507541119
>raise a child in this kike-poisoned world
show nose, vile schlomo

>>507537576
That's cause marriage is down dumb ass

>>507540865
anecdotally this feels true. Of the marriages I've known throughout my life, the man earned the money but the woman was the one who managed it completely, for better or worse. This was even true of my family, although my family was not quite standard (both parents wealthy boomer engineers, although my mom is the smarter and more successful of the two, and my dad doesn't know/care shit about money)

Feels like such an alien concept to me, especially applied to a standard situation where the wife is not independently successful and not financially savvy, as is normally the case. I'm fairly wealthy myself, and like fucking hell I would ever let a woman dictate what I can do with the money I've earned.

>>507541210
>Don't reproduce, goyim
Fuck off. This men going their own way bullshit is just toxic feminism for men.

>>507541157
Trying to outbreed third worlders while governments let them in and women are nasty sluts and whores is a losing proposition. If Trump had any balls, the geriatric orange faggot could be a model for how to have a reasonable immigration policy. Trying to resist this from the ground up is like emptying a river with a coffee cup.

All I need is a solid gaming PC, my steam account, a solid chair, food, and AC.
Already had my share of dealing whores. The pussy isn't really worth it. Once you grow out of your hormone riddled 20's you'll understand.
Money doesnt mean shit, it just complicated everything.
Traveling is for homos and women.
Hobbies are for faggots.
Jobs are for cucks.
Working out is for chodes.

>>507541210
>Producing white children with your white wife is Jewish.

Fuck off mossad. Imagine being such a kike that the sheer idea of white children fills you with dread.

>>507541265
It makes sense if your wife is a stay at home mom. You don't want to deal with managing all that bullshit yourself so you just get a joint bank account and give her access and don't make large purchases without asking her and visaversa

>>507541401
statistically it most likely was the woman's fault in a narrow sense, but ultimately it's still the man's fault broadly, because he had the poor judgment to marry women with massive red flags that were prone to divorce.

>>507537355 (OP)
Cambodia?

>>507541370
>It is already lost goyim
>Why even try
Kill yourself, kike

>>507541349
>>507541509
SHOW YOUR NOSES, KIKES
>oy vey goyim just make more tax payers!!! let your little cattle come to brainwashing institutions (schools)
no one is falling for it. iran will wipe you out, and i denounce the talmud.

>>507541631
Your fake greentext is retarded just like your brain. Let me guess, we should all support le based Trump, marry sluts and whores and man up for le western society? There are reasons WHY that never happens. You guys also like racemixing on here too (maybe you don't but many /pol/ users do) so I have no sympathy for your gay little movement.

>>507540396
its called being a smug retard. its what smug retards do.

>>507541749
Literally advocating for whites to self genocide while calling others kikes.

>>507541616
>daddy's sticker chart
holyshit this isn't even funny

>>507541265
my mum managed the money. her mum did but my Grandfather manager their money because his wife had a mental breakdown over the death of her niece

>>507541859
>Meme flag
>All women are sluts and whores
Another shill advocating for Western men to self genocide.

>>507541947
thanks for sharing your family tree. face the wall

>>507540494
Most marriages are based off some form of transaction. Usually money or afraid of being alone.

>>507542033
You guys always do this, you lash out and make up scenarios in these threads because you have no power. Answer the question, should we man up for le western society and follow Trump and marry sluts and whores? Yes or no?

>>507537355 (OP)
you think he would have prepared better

>>507542033
>Nooo don't pay attention to reality, keep clinging to a delusion as everything falls apart!

>>507542035
>Face the wall
You don't even have a gun, you Canadian cuck.

The way you shills get pissed at me advocating for white males to reproduce is hilarious. Nothing else matters if white men aren't going to get white women pregnant.

>>507538227
How do things work if you bought a house on your own and then got married after? If the mortgage was still active during the marriage, are you still fucked during the divorce and need to split the house? What if you never let the wife pay a single dime toward the mortgage herself?

>>507542165
>Marry sluts and whores
No
>Support le bases Trump
I don't even know what the fuck you are talking about. Having kids goes way beyond whoever hold political office. Having kids is all that matters.
>Race mixing
All I have advocated for is whites having kids in western countries.

You brought up Trump, not me
You brought up race mixing, not me

>>507538016
>my house is worth double what I paid for it boohoo

Day of the pillow soon you faggot

>>507537576
>no source
Fuck off christcuck shill

>>507542270
>Just give up white man
>Don't even fight
>Just curl up like a little bitch and cry yourself to sleep and hand your countries to shitskins
Fuck you

>>507541119
she can always leave you and take the kid

>>507537355 (OP)

He should get an air mattress. Much more comfy.

>>507538701
The same reason why some roasties fall from one abusive relationship to another; they are attracted to the same type of people that caused the initial fallout on the first place.

>>507540865
Doesnt work, she has no self control. You will have no savings but eat out every night, she will get fat off your hard work and leave you at the first emotional outburst.

>>507542999
Well sure but being attracted to a certain kind of woman and marrying her are two different things. You'd think you'd learn your lesson after getting assfucked the first time. I mean, if that were you, wouldn't you tell yourself "okay I can keep fucking around with these hoes, but don't wife another one up again"?

>>507537576
It's because people don't get married anymore. All it takes is seeing what their friends go through.

t. divorced male

If a woman is a bad spender, then divorce is likely.
If they cannot control themselves with access to the finances it is a big predictor of issues in the future.
They will spend everything, create debt, then by unhappy when they are forced to strictly budget and seek divorce.

This is the real underlying issue in most divorces I have seen, even though the official reason is always something else.

Women being more brainwashed consumers makes financial self control very important. Men mainly just have to be kept from stupid vehicle purchases, or substance issues and otherwise are okay.
Women though can make excess consumption of basic things a lifestyle, and if that becomes their main recreation in life throw a tantrum when it gets restricted.

>>507537355 (OP)
he didn't learn the first time lmao

>>507542526
Yes I did bring up Trump, because this board worships the guy and whenever he is in power, the tradcucks are more emboldened. But years of failed tradcuck ideas have made you guys not as powerful as Trump's first term.
Yes I mentioned race mixing, because I find it strange that a board that encourages white guys to race mix so much will then complain about low white birth rates. All the kids resulting from racemixing will be shitskin children, there is no disputing this.
As you can see I am against phony solutions and the failed ideas we have been bombarded with for over a decade now. You would see the birth rates go up again if certain issues are resolved, but nobody has the will to resolve them. Throw in things like women's rights, cost of living crisis, technology and you have a recipe for disaster.

>>507537355 (OP)
>date obese seattle sjws
>it doesnt work out
wow

>>507537355 (OP)
retard didn’t learn the first time
lottery = stupid tax
divorce = stupid simp tax
>>507537576
this post brought to you by the male to female wealth redistribution lobby

>>507537576
>35% is good odds
>divorce laws are fine
youre 100% a femoid

>>507541616
>marry swarthy hook nose
>everything is a transaction now

>>507537710
Fucking simps

>>507543555

Most race mix and similar threads are fake.
People that dislike the board make fake demoralization threads as well as threads just to make the people here look bad by associating them with a negative view most don't really have.
Then well poisoning and political opponents trying to bump things they dislike off the board with nonsense threads.
Only a fraction of threads are genuine.

>>507543183
I try to be sympathetic to guys like these; after all, who amongst us can say we are impervious to ending up in a similar situation.

To answer your remark, all I have to say is that you're not your logical self in such a situation. Especially when you're heavily emotionally invested in a relationship.

>>507540370
It's not even that it's simply the fact that younger people haven't had enough time to get divorced yet.

>>507541448
How will you pay for the electricity without a job?

>>507537355 (OP)
It hardly matters anymore. Family unity has been reduced to a mere inconvenience now.

>>507537355 (OP)
>Redditor fell for the marriage meme
Post something new.

>>507537355 (OP)
Lucky bastard, wish I was living that well.

>>507537355 (OP)
TKD makes the world free of misery

>>507537989
This. Local guy had a lawyer wife that was the main breadwinner. She decided she was bored and divorced him. Court ruled heavily in his favor due to the disparity in income. You’d think the wife was being left in poverty from the crying among local women. Soon as the consequences of “equality” start happening more the outcry to change laws will be deafening