>>507712090 (OP)
ideally families should have a stay-at-home FATHER, and a mother who is the bread-winner
here's why:
>go to any playground on the weekend
>first, watch the moms with their kids
>now watch the dads with their kids
when the kids are small
>moms
worry, shield, limit the child's adventures and risk-taking
>dads
tell them stories that inspire adventure, push the kids to climb higher, run faster, jump further, try something they didn't think they could do, and when the kid falls they tell the kid that's part of learning and to get up, dust yourself off, try again, and not to give up
when the kids are growing
>moms
tell them they are amazing and special and can do anything, tell mommy and tell the teacher if anything goes wrong, the world should treat you properly
>dads
tell them that the world is rough but acquiring skills, working hard, and learning how to work as part of a team are the best ways to reach your goals, sometimes you'll feel bad but you can get through it and become stronger
when the kids are teens
>moms
tell the girls either to be pretty and charming (naive prey for boys) or be the girlboss (pushing away boys)
tell the boys to take the high road, never do this, never do that, tell the teacher, etc
>dads
tell the girls what guys are really like, what to expect, and how to navigate it and stay true to your values, help the find strategies for dealing with the cattiness and competition of other girls, deal with heartbreak of betrayal
tell the boys how to handle insults, how to deal with bullies (punch him in the face, generally), how to behave around girls, what to expect from peer pressure, how to laugh shit off, how to stand your ground and be true to your values
now, who do you think should be raising children?
