>>508043424 (OP)women have a lot of troble with compartmentalization so if you want her to stay a good mother you gotta treat her well. if ladies had more force of will it wouldnt be necessary.
a good example is what is expected of you as a wife in supporting your husband. you essentially do the things he doesnt have time for once there are children in the relationship, almost the bare minimum. since heterosexual relationships are still very transnational in the west and elsewhere (even though people deny it) to help a woman in a way that buys points you need to do quite a bit really. unfortunate facts of life anon. as a man the only unconditional love you will receive is from your mother.