>>508343925Family gets in the way of risk and volatility. If your purpose involves these things, domestic life is unappealing. As I said in another post, it's normal for a young man to pursue risk and volatility, and avoid family and especially contracts. Last thing I'll say is that out of the gate you trying to shame people into marriage is also gay. Only dummies and women fall for social pressure. For thousands of years men had to be begrudgingly convinced into marriage by huge incentives. Dowry, legal powers, total control of the household, direct handouts, actual legal punishments for NOT being married, that sort of thing. Ask literally any of your ancestors.
Also, I do intend to have a family, so does Nick for that matter. But the man up line is cornball shit. You really got to have some self awareness and see the way you just immediately go for feminine arguments immediately. To summarize: Being married domesticates you. You're proof of that. Young men don't like that. That's it.