>>508525072She was denying him sex long before dude decided to make spreadsheets of it.
That much is obvious.
I once decided my wife had wayyy too much stupid shit in the garage.
I mean, it was all stuff neither of us used or needed, and about half of it was old clothing in trash bags. She refused to allow me to go through it, or help sort it, or anything really besides bitch that the garage was a mess and about how my table drill press and chopsaw were taking up so much room.
Spoiler, the saw and drill press were on a shelf, not on the garage floor like her twenty bags of her old clothes that hadn't been opened in years.
So, I just quietly added one garbage bag a week to our trash bin, shortly before rolling the bin out to be picked up by a garbage truck.
It took four months of me doing this, every week, for her to notice.
Shit was funny when I admitted what I had done. I saw something like a dozen different emotions flash on her face before she grudgingly admitted that she was never planning on throwing them away and that it was all useless stuff just taking up space.
Her shock alone was worth it.
I even cut up a pallet, some crown molding, lots of shit. All so it would fit in the trash can and not alert her to what I was doing.
Sometimes you just have to be unreasonable with women.
Spreadsheet I can understand, but that is too much work for me.