BPD Woman
She broke up with me many times and pressuring me to have kids. This was after a month of dating, after I took her virginity. She told me she was done with me and waited a week before coming back. But I didn't respond. So, I ghosted her for 4 years.
When I got back with her she told me that gave her a mental breakdown and she said she was sorry for acting like that.
She immediately wanted to get back with me after 4 years. It was 2020, covid restrictions just started.
She was upset that it was hard for me to book rooms to see her. She wasn't welcome back at my place anymore after her meltdown and crying tantrum back in 2016.
But my mom became her new obsession, she wanted to come over to my apt all the time like before and she kept begging me to tell my mom I was back with her.
Unfortunately, since I was secretly seeing her I only managed to see her maybe only 12 times over the span of 10 months. However, there were periods where weeks would go by and she was being unresponsive and stopped talking to me.
I was afraid if I told my mom about her and let her over all the time she would have acted mentally unstable infront of my mom, and she'd never be welcome again. So in reality I was gauging her.
But this became too much for her. She felt like her actions in 2016 were haunting her. She felt like a secret.
So, she came up with a lie. She claimed she had sex with someone else as a shit test. She wouldn't reveal it was a shit test until 2 months later. I broke up with her because she repeatedly started asking for an open relationship.
When I finally broke up with her after she stormed out the hotel room for a second time shortly after getting there and not saying a word to me.
When I broke up with her I told her it's because she cheated. She kept begging me for a second chance and telling me she didn't cheat.
When I got back with her she told me that gave her a mental breakdown and she said she was sorry for acting like that.
She immediately wanted to get back with me after 4 years. It was 2020, covid restrictions just started.
She was upset that it was hard for me to book rooms to see her. She wasn't welcome back at my place anymore after her meltdown and crying tantrum back in 2016.
But my mom became her new obsession, she wanted to come over to my apt all the time like before and she kept begging me to tell my mom I was back with her.
Unfortunately, since I was secretly seeing her I only managed to see her maybe only 12 times over the span of 10 months. However, there were periods where weeks would go by and she was being unresponsive and stopped talking to me.
I was afraid if I told my mom about her and let her over all the time she would have acted mentally unstable infront of my mom, and she'd never be welcome again. So in reality I was gauging her.
But this became too much for her. She felt like her actions in 2016 were haunting her. She felt like a secret.
So, she came up with a lie. She claimed she had sex with someone else as a shit test. She wouldn't reveal it was a shit test until 2 months later. I broke up with her because she repeatedly started asking for an open relationship.
When I finally broke up with her after she stormed out the hotel room for a second time shortly after getting there and not saying a word to me.
When I broke up with her I told her it's because she cheated. She kept begging me for a second chance and telling me she didn't cheat.
