>>508637993Meh I can see the mindset from an outsiders perspective. I can try to share mine though if you wish, to expand your worldview. It's rare to find a tranny that will speak frankly to a guy like you about this stuff I think so I want to do everyone a service.
Trans people know they're men inside, a lot of them do, it takes a certain level of delusion and/or acceptance to truly view yourself as a woman imo. I only recently got there and it took years of everyone I saw calling me female terms and accepting that I look good and feminine, but like I'm intersex too so subconsciously that certainly is affecting it. But yeah if you wanna be frank and shit we all know we're men basically, we have dicks and most of us like ours the people that do the disgusting surgery are rare and I feel really bad for them because I feel you always mature out of it. For me I matured out of caring if I "pass" or not too, even though I do. I accept myself as just third gender because that most fits my existence, I don't really think about female or male I'm just me and do what I'm best at. I very much align with a traditional females role as a caretaker and supporter though and that's truly where I shine and feel happiness. I do everything I can to help others around me but I've digressed a bit. We know we're men but it's just about looking feminine and being happy with what you look like. It's not that we're dead set "I AM A WOMAN CALL ME A WOMAN OR YOU'RE A BIGOT" it's more like God they called me a man I'll never meet the standards of trans girls and women I want to meet because that's the only way in my mind I'll be happy and have value. And let's be honest becoming a cute female DOES give you value. A lot of this shit is a complex that's built up over years and you could even call it grooming but it's grooming you can be very aware of. We're just third gender boyfailures that take estrogen to look more aesthetically appealing for ourselves and others.