What are the political implications of it?
Is it conscious?
Why do they do it?

>>508764144 (OP)
As a white virgin, I would be very much okay with getting love-bombed or even told I'm cute or anything. To be quite desu about it.

>>508764144 (OP)
Its true, I wasn't a virgin but I am an autistic faggot, and I had a BPD semen demon girlfriend in my mid-20s. Mindblowing unreal sex I still jerk off over today. Also completely destroyed me mentally. These bitches will drain your balls with intensity you didn't think possible, but there's a heavy price.

>>508764144 (OP)
She's trying to force you to abandon her, the degree of which you refuse is the metric she uses to evaluate loyalty. Words won't mean shit with her, she wants to push you as hard as she can and she wants you to be the rock which refuses to budge.

Depending on how crazy she is and the amount of fortitude one possess and is willing to invest, there is a crossroad met which generally results in her successfully self sabotaging the relationship and the dude abandoning her. Basically they are shittest maxxers to alarming levels

>>508764144 (OP)
>you’re fucking this girl’s ass hole on the 2nd date
>shit like that
>shit

>>508765116
Hey you cute and handsome nigger with a kind heart, get a fucking prostitute instead.

>>508764144 (OP)
My first two GFs were BPD and made me into a volcel for all my 20s, then I met my wife and realized there are women who aren't objectively evil and I proposed within 9 months of meeting her.
I met one of the exes on a tram a decade later, clearly high on some drug and smelling like a hobo, and the other one was stalking my social media after my wife got pregnant until i blocked her on everything.
There are women predators, make no mistake. They cant physically overpower you but they are predators.

I still remember the feeling of physical relief when I broke up with my first GF at 18 or something, and I thought to myself "that's not right, you aren't supposed to feel that when breaking up, you are supposed to be sad or something".

>>508764144 (OP)
Just date two of these at a time. Their self-absorbed obsession will keep both of them fighting to be the best one and they'll forget about replacing you.

>>508764144 (OP)
I'm in a relationship with bpd girl for 10 months and it's not my first rodeo of that kind.
Yes, she is urged internally to sabotage the whole relationship and unconciously manifest abandonment but most important thing is that she always understands that she is the problem.
You as a man must always have inner peace and this will be the main thing that will be targeted. You must not stray away from this at ANY cost.
If you're dating a bpd girl first thing you should look for is self awareness, if she embraces her disorder there is no hope of her being a net positive in your life no matter what because ultimately that personality is destructive in its core.
You must shame. You must push. You must deflect. You must mantain authority and control and make her yearn for that inner peace she can not achieve because of her personality disorder.
Now if this is the case you really do have a workhorse sex slave at your disposal that needs to be responsibly controlled but in a subversive way. She will ultimately embrace worldview you have and your beliefs.
Bpd is femininity unhinged. Can be both bad and good, it's up to you how you utilize it.

>>508766529
>You must shame.
Does shaming them really help? (help them, I mean). Also, sure, you get your "workhorse sex slave", but is it worth the effort?

>>508764144 (OP)
100% accurate. Ive had 2 relationships with bpd women and it was lots of fighting and anger. And ofcourse the sex meme is true, but in the end i didnt want to fuck anymore i was that angry. Lasted no more than a year. I heard from her female friend her new boyfriend has ptsd from her now.

>>508766694
>is it worth the effort?
no. this is the sort of girl who will fly off the handle, call the cops and accuse you of rape or pedophilia

>>508764144 (OP)
Some women are just evil and love destroying people. Not sure if the “bpd” label is a cope to cover for that

>>508766177
Yes, you feel trapped in the relationship. I was laying in bed next to my then bpd girlfirend and i was thinking i dont want to be here anymore

>>508766529
You’re playing with fire

They never change, so when you’re gray and 50, you will have a deathwish

>>508766694
Yes it does. Because there can be only 2 reasons why she feels the way she feels, one is that you are at fault, and second is that she is at fault. That is why self awareness is key because it allows her to understand that she is the creator of her torment.
It is worth the effort because most other girls have a personality that is built into them since young age and that personality holds modern values (try to look at it as if they had bpd until age of 6 and then stopped and went along with what they learned by then)
Bpd girls have that flexible personality for their whole life, and if you emanate family values, having children, having a quiet peaceful life she will embrace it in the meantime and make it her personality so you like her.

>>508767107
Anon...>>508766969 Is completely right. It is ruin inevitable no matter how well you think you're handling her.

>>508764144 (OP)
I don't see BPDemons targeting autismos specifically, autismos are just more vulnerable of being taken advantage of, you know, due to their brain damage. But a BPDemon will take advantage of anyone who lets her, they're not discerning creatures in this regard.

>>508765550
... and then, when you've stoically weathered every shit test, and she's 100% sure you won't leave and she's got you locked down properly... then she ups and leaves and tries to hurt you as much as possible in the process.

That's life with BPDemons.

>>508766529
Top kek, the BPDemon has got her claws in this one real good. This is not going to end well at all.

>>508766969
>>508767180
I can not say you're wrong anons, maybe it will, we'll see, but I do have strong faith in God and myself that I shall have authority over my woman as it is natural.

>>508766694
>Does shaming them really help?
Absolutely not. They might play-act it helping to further their own BPDemon drives, but it's all an act. Cluster B women have no shame at all, they only pretend to get what they want.

>>508764144 (OP)
>didnt get a BPD whore in my late 20s

feel like I missed out bros

>>508766529
All of those trials and tribulations, all the mind games, all the disciplinary bullshit as if this is your fucking KID but it's just some woman you want to fuck. That's a lot of work for some crazy girl pussy. Juice ain't worth the squeeze imo, but you enjoy that.

>>508767239
That's just women though.
It's just all women who can get away with it.

They are all the same creature it's just on a different part of the cycle.

>>508767604
Just wait until the power dynamic changes, like... they have a kid she can use against him or something like that.

NEVER engage with BPDemons. Do not talk to them, do not smile to them, do not be around them. Absolutely do not even consider fucking them.

>>508767398
Maybe you're right, but I choose this. Her exes were not mentally scarred for life and traumatized because she believes that she is the problem and not worthy of love, and that's a component most bpd girls are not aware of, but is the problem under. So if you do date a bpd girl at any point in life, look for these things.

All fun and games till she calls the cops on you

>>508767725
>Her exes were not mentally scarred for life and traumatized
Have you talked to them yourself? No of course you have not discussed her with her exes. So what have you done? You have heard her version of events. Bro... you are at extreme risk here. I understand she's got power over you and you're addicted now, so I know whatever I say will not help.

But please, please at least listen to this one thing: do NOT let her cut you off from your family and friends, and she will try real hard to do that.

>>508767604
That's most of the girls ever.
Most of them, bpd or not are kids mentally and work that way.
It's not on accident that for 99% of history, man was lord of his wife, one that wife worhips. That's the reason why in church mans head must not be covered (not covering from God) and girls head in church must be covered (respect for her husband or father)

>>508767685
I think what it boils down to is a lack of self respect. I was at a low point in my life when I got myself into a situation with a BPD woman. Had previous GFs, but none quite as mentally ill and destructive as her. But I tried to stick it out, because I was lonely, and I wanted to actually try. But I chose the wrong girl to try with. The lows are horrible, they drove me insane, but it's like when you get the relief, and the personality shifts back to the sweet girl you love and just wanna have a good time with, in that moment it makes it seem worth it. You cope and tell yourself "this is worth preservering for", I WILL fix her! We WILL make it. But then the bullshit happens again and again and eventually there will be a breaking point, and you'll have to cut her off. It's been a few years for me, I feel like a fucking loser because I am, but I brought it upon myself because I was lonely. Because I had poor judgement and avoided CLEAR red flags. If I had more self-respect for myself, I wouldn't have ever gotten into such a pathetic situation. I imagine that's the caase for many men with low self-esteem. Problem is I had experience. I was just at a low point in my life. Now I'm mostly just checked out, recovering, trying to build myself up. Thanks for reading my blogpost.

Put yourself first before these crazy women anon, and if you KNOW things are horribly mismatched from the beginning, quit trying to jam a square peg through a circular hole. Best of luck to everyone out there, but don't forget to take care of yourself.

>>508766529
Say hi to Jamal for me when you turn 40

>>508767964
>I feel like a fucking loser because I am, but I brought it upon myself because I was lonely
You're not. The manipulation is so subtle, even knowing the outline of what's going on it's hard to see it when you're in the middle of it. The fact that relationships with BPDemons NEVER work, no matter what, is something that must be learned the hard way, you can't learn it truly as an abstract teaching. Now you know and you're stronger for it.

>>508767445
Even if she says she knows she is wrong, inside her head she knows she is right and nothing is the matter with her. The demon as the norwegian chad names is, is has taken her over.

She is never wrong, she is always a victim of something, and she will -in private- try to destroy you.

>>508767725
She is acting. She will destroy you and your family. She WILL slit your preverbial throat.

You will never see your children again

>>508764144 (OP)
an anon before put it simply as picrel

>>508767830
She of course did try to do that and would still give anything in this life to do this, and mostly targeting ex fuckbuddy girls that are currently my friends, but as I've said, my inner peace has no price and she can fuck off anytime if she goes counter to things I do or want.
Didn't talk to her exes, but I know them from outer friend circles, so I hear things sometimes and it's not catastrophic

>>508764144 (OP)
you know the best way to avoid woman
is having nothing to do with them

>>508764144 (OP)
this thread again??

>>508768296
someone's BPD ex who knows they lurk here is spamming it, guaranteed

>>508768229
>She of course did try to do that
Man, I worry so much for you... "she did try to"... bro, she's going to keep subtly working towards that goal for the entirety of your relationship. From the second you met her, to the second she leaves you some years down the line to fuck some other guy... she will be trying intensely in her subtle ways to isolate you. That's just what BPDemons do. It's not something you actually notice, like...
>oh wow, there's the instance where she tried x
that's not how it works.

BPDemons brainwash and condition their victims through constant emotional manipulation that goes on 24-7.

>>508764144 (OP)
my sister is several years older than me and a psycho, unquestionably the most bitter and spiteful bitch I have ever known. While this helps spotting all the signs almost instantaneously, it also affects judgment of women who aren't that bad but have one or two similarities.

>>508764144 (OP)
Women know exactly what they're doing. This is why they were "oppressed" for most of human history. Any adult woman pretending to be a victim is lying. And even most girls learn to lie pretty quickly.

They know EXACTLY what they're doing. Society just hand waives it because women look cute. Don't be deceived. A lot of them might as well be grown men behind that mask.

>>508768296
These are some of the most important threads on /pol/. BPDemons and other cluster B women (20% of women or so) is the biggest civilizational problem we face currently, and it's something that directly is ruining the lives of millions of men as we speak.

>>508768469
There was a girl when I was in high school who could pretend to cry extremely convincingly, it was her humorous schtick. I have no idea if seeing that at young age ruined my ability to form relationships with women or saved me from disaster.

>>508764144 (OP)
>bro trauma dumping 50 lines due to being dumped by a girl who got tired of his shit and projecting it into random tistic dude
Many such cases, men and women really are similar. If it was a woman writting this bitching about men you would see no difference at all

>>508768511
This. No normal average man gives a fuck about Israel or Ukraine. Yet those threads are everywhere. The most important topics politically are:
>get rid of violent niggers
>stop corrupt Jews
>repeal rights for women
Nothing else is as important.

>>508768432
and that's a good thing

>>508767964
Dude, you’re not a loser. Its just lessons learned. We all try to make it but some women are fucking crazy. They can manipulate very good.

Congrats, you learned to see these women now, they can not get you again. Hopefully you learned to have stronger boundaries. You’ve leveled up.

You guys are so lazy and mean you don't have to worry about this happening to you.

>>508768684
Correct. And the biggest problem is 2, because 1 and 3 only exist in our society due to women demanding their presence to their simps.

>>508766892
Bpd affects both, it is an appropriate label, men with it are equally destructive, they just tend to off themselves more often so you see less of them.
One of my exs father was like that, was amusing to a degree but holy shit it was a wreck.
Manic episode? Buy a boat! Enjoy 150k debt out of nowhere, surprise honey!

>>508768786
Shut the fuck up, BPDemon.

>>508764144 (OP)
Yep absolutely on the OP

Bpdemons will farm you of your soul and loose

They'll love bomb you with a perfect fantasy version of themselves early on (which is fake) then once your hooked they devalue, betray and tear your heart out. If you were wiser you would simply realize she is a deranged cunt. But lots of men blame themselves and keep trying to get back the fake perfect girl they saw at the start. They'll kill themselves as the bpdemon just strings them along with breadcrumbs

>>508766529
lmao
you're wasting your time on a sinking ship
what a fucking retard

>>508768387
You didn't read whole of my sentence.
>and would still give anything in this life to do this
I'm aware of things you say, I'm aware of subtle manipulations, and in my case it's not even about sex that keeps me in, as I've had multiple year relationship with a bpd girl before, it's about tearing something down and rebuilding it. Her broken personality specifically.

>>508768511
the woman threads belong on /r9k/ though. never ever is there a single word about politics

My first woman definitely had BPD, but luckily it wasn't advanced enough to where she went out of her way to fuck with my life. I just GTFO when she broke up with me and never contacted her again.

>>508766529
Bro the only way to manage a BPD girl is to cause as much chaos as she can tolerate and then cause even more chaos. She will be too busy being mad at you to be bored and self destructive. Gotta look at other women and tell her about how much prettier than her they are and how she needs to think about that. She will. Just be careful about it and make sure you have decent public transit first or else she will destroy the car. She won't leave a piece of shit but she will bitch about it. She'd bitch about a good person anyways so why pretend?

>>508768469
And we were taken to have "hunting acidents" by the fathers when it became obvious a guy wasnt suitable to society and would be a problem to it.
We have lost mitigation systems, the reason women didnt is because even if they are lunatics they are still useful to society, a baby maker if nothing else, but men were utterly disposable and gotten rid of.
We dont do that anymore and look where it has gotten us

>>508768684
I agree

>>508768860
The very fact that you think it can work shows that you're under her spell, bro. The fact that she's made you believe she's "different from the other BPDemons" shows she's able to manipulate you successfully. See? The manipulation is so subtle, your mentally sane mind doesn't even see it. I'm not trying to shit on you here, I'm trying to help you.

>>508765116
>I would be very much okay with getting love-bombed
If you think the high is worth the crash you might as well just do some coke then

>>508768806
You think this only impacts women and gotten emotional about me saying ive seen a lot of men with it?
Are you sure you dont have it bro?
Odd reaction. And im a dude, if you want a cock pic just ask.

>>508768910
That's not really "managing", that's turning your life into an insane asylum train wreck for some kook pussy (for a while, because that shit doesn't work long term at all.)

>>508769029
Be silent BPDemon. Your slimy lies have no power here.

>>508768860
My bpd gf is just as fucked in the head as i am. If you are not an absolute scumbag, do not date borderlines. They are not for you. You cannot truly fix her. If you could, she probably has CPTSD or a very dependent personality instead. I even get my gf her favorite drugs, only to use them all myself and brag about how good i feel.

>>508768863
Yep, if all the incels fucked off to /r9k/ and all the religionfags to /x/ this board would be halfway back to its pre 2016 state, i miss it so much bro. Its complete trash now full of whiney bitches, crying faggots and delusional retards.
Thought it couldnt get worse than 2011 eternal summer but it did

>>508764144 (OP)
I married one, two kids together. It doesn’t really get easier. If you’re thinking about it, just don’t. I thought her being based and right wing would help but it’s not enough.

>>508768910
Doesnt work. I could not even say hi to a female coworker before having another big fight. She didnt want me to talk to other women. I said i cant do that.

And in the kiddle of the night she thought of something and we were having a midnight fight.

I think the demon they have is insecurity, not normal insecurity but -1000 insecurity.

Everything in the world has to adjust to compensate for her hate for herself. And whatever you say or do, the insecurity demon doesnt allow her to believe it

>>508764144 (OP)
>Is it conscious?
>Why do they do it?

I actually think it's not conscious. Some BPD women are extremely manipulative, but I actually know a fat BPD chick. The stereotype is usually that they are hot but crazy, but this one chick I know is fat. She used to be a non-fat hot blonde chick in her teens and early 20s, then she got fat, but she kept the crazy. She breaks down on social media and will even post saying she doesn't know why she's like this and doesn't know how to cope with her feelings and mood swings.

Best case scenario, BPD is a trauma response to some kind of abuse at young age. But even then, I sometimes think it is a form of demonic possession or some other entity controlling these women.

My ex would either attempt or threaten to kill herself multiple times per week. I lived in an apartment and she would often stand on the balcony ledge and threaten jumping off (was 3 stories high, enough to seriously injure yourself at least). She also once told me she killed a grown man who was a homeless alcoholic when she was just a child. I pressed her on this last point years later and she was legitimately freaked out and thought I was crazy, said she had no recollection of saying that. I told her I wouldn't judge her if it was true but I just wanted to know. So, my running theory is either she was somewhat possessed and legitimately didn't know what she was saying or doing some of the time, or that the crazy behavior itself is a manipulative tactic, basically "how crazy can I be and still get this dude to put up with me?".

Either way, it wasn't fun. Sure, it's nice to be able to have sex with an attractive woman whenever you want, but eventually that gets old. And these women are often hypersexual. My ex would become irate if I only had sex with her once or twice a day. She wanted it 5-10 times minimum. At a certain point that's just exhausting and repetitive

>>508764144 (OP)
>>508764144 (OP)
Never listen to 4channers on relationship advice.

>>508764144 (OP)
I had a near miss with one as a teenager and forever became a grey rock volcel as a result

>>508769166
Just get out, it's not going to get any better, it will only get worse. Get out, get as much custody of your kids as you can manage. Do it for your kids if you're not doing it for yourself. Best of luck bro.

>>508764144 (OP)
>BPD women targeting autists
You are describing used up roasties reaching for a branch before they hit the ground.
Never play Captain Save-a-hoe for these cunts.
You are all better than that.
You all deserve better than that.
Being alone is vastly better than being tied to one of those horrid cunts.

>>508764144 (OP)
The universal rule for dealing with advice from some fuckwit who thinks they deserve to control your life from social media is tot tell them to kill themselves.

Destroy all groups above 4 in size. They do not exist in a healthy state.

When I was 15 I was super super autistic, like I could barely look at people in the eye, yet a girl was interested in me. We spent the whole summer dating, which I didn't understand as an incipient romantic relationship because I couldn't possibly imagine that a girl could love me because of my introversion. Her friend had to explicitly tell me that she was interested and then I fell for the meme. Turns out she was a BPDemon and that she probably targetted at me to prey because I was the perfect combination of not ugly but very manipulable and unexperienced.

>>508768939
I do NOT know if it will work. She is not different to other BPDemons, it's just that at the moment she believes that she is the problem and I am aware of this. It's my experiment and after my previous experiences I did realize that woman do not know shit and are not worth mental agony of any kind.

>>508769193
Yes. The sex is a small bandade for an hour to her insecury demon. Its needs more and more

>>508769193
Probably dissociative in addition to her BPD. There's a lot of overlap between BPD and dissociative disorders. Ranges from compartmentalization of the core personality to actual multiple personalities. Usually they're very good at covering it up if they've managed to avoid psychiatry into adulthood.

>>508769303
>I do NOT know if it will work
It won't. It's good you at least acknowledge the possibility.

>it's just that at the moment she believes that she is the problem
She does not believe that AT ALL.... bro.

>>508768910
>Bro the only way to manage a BPD girl is to cause as much chaos as she can tolerate and then cause even more chaos.
>>508769185
>Doesnt work. I could not even say hi to a female coworker before having another big fight. She didnt want me to talk to other women. I said i cant do that.

Honestly, after my experience with my BPD ex, I had the thought that the only way I could've made the relationship work is by beating her. If I could've simply literally beat her into submission when she acted crazy, I think it would've been possible to make the relationship work. Of course though, I'm not inclined towards violence against women, and even if I were, the law is on her side, so the second her crazy acted up she could just go to the cops and then I'd go to jail, at least for a period of time.

I think that's a big reason why you hear so much about crazy BPD women today, but you just didn't hear as much about it years ago. It used to be possible to physically discipline your woman if she was acting immature, but after 2nd wave feminism in the 1960s, doing that become illegal

>>508769031
It's not for everyone. She'd accuse me of being a piece of shit regardless of my behavior so why should I bother pretending to behave?
>>508769185
The big fight is an exciting drama that distracts from the dreadful living death void of boredom and the horrors of introspection. It doesn't take much to rile them up.

>>508769363
Maybe these types of women need regular beatings indeed.

But like you, i would not feel good about myself beating my girl

>>508769363
Beat her up when she's horny. It will make her hornier.

>>508769421
>It's not for everyone. She'd accuse me of being a piece of shit regardless of my behavior so why should I bother pretending to behave?
Why should you be with her at all except for your masochism?

>>508769421
I think it all boils down to insecurity.

They sincerely hate themselves.

Sex with them is the red flag, they will do anything

>>508769427
>But like you, i would not feel good about myself beating my girl
It's the same with the police. If a peaceful solution can't be found.

>>508764144 (OP)

Had a gf once and needed to make sure she took her birth control every single day, I was in charge of the pills. You have to know what you are doing.

>>508769062
Yea you are alsp bdp, seek help bro

>>508767964
>and avoided CLEAR red flags
What were they?

>>508769110
>pre 2016 state
never happening again. cripplechan was OK for awhile too until turbo autists started smoking mosques and posting their FPV school shooter vids

>>508769082
Yep stay away from people with bdp, depression, etc
You cannot fix them, only hurt yourself in the process, waste of time. Move on and find someome stable.
Sucks for them but its their burden.

>>508764144 (OP)
Can confirm. Fortunately was just a long-distance 'friendship' in my case, but yeah - no effort from my end was ever reciprocated by any on the other end + it all went out the window the second some imagined slight was stated online, nevermind the shit we did IRL that was actually good. Nope - being politically correct while terminally online is more important than how good our RL hangouts were. Welp, fuck you then - enjoy other morons that prefer that kind of loser relationships.

>>508769622
Go away woman, men are talking here.

Understand that monstergirls, the slightly to very crazy woman who still loves you unconditionally and would sooner die than cause you harm, are fiction. Real women the monster is on the inside. They're mimics, traps designed to ensnare you as deep as possible and devour your happiness. And like real monsters they're not even truly conscious of their misdeeds. Even the few that are partially aware still aren't if they're truly BPD. No, they're manic beasts and there is no cure for them, rabid dogs stuck in a cage hoping to drag you in with them off sheer instinct. Maybe, just maybe there is some cure, but with a few words they can unmake your entire life for decades. A few self-caused bruises destroys everything you have and are, this society is an environment tailor made for their hunting patterns, you cannot win in it.